Looking to adopt a blue and gold Mac

ahmadses

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Howdy there im a 15 year old boy and my dad owns a home.
We have a lot of rooms and free time. I am looking to adopt a blue and gold macaw as buying one is well... too expensive. If you had a cage and could include that, it would be perfect, if not, then.. I could buy one.
 

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Sorry, same answer!
As to answer one question, I have looked into Colleges that allow pets. I would ditch my significant other (assuming i've had this macaw since this summer), (I don't know maybe I wont?, you never know). The finance is hard, but my dad is willing to pay for it as of right now.
Another comment about the money. Don't you technically take that risk with a lot of things? Cars, kids, homes? (I'm only 15 so please don't be too harsh but I want honest comments.
That is why you should not go forward with a mac!
Cars and homes are stuff! Kids grow up!
What if your dad wanted to expand his business, and decided the best way to do this was to use your college fund? Also to save money, and your age was close enough, he decided to declare you as an emancipated minor! Best thing? Off to the military with you! How would you feel? Quite upset! But remember you still grow up and will be independent! Also, emotionally, you are able to sort all of this out and deal with it!
On the other hand, your 'companion' gets screwed! Just another nail in the wall!
 
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ahmadses

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Sorry, same answer!
As to answer one question, I have looked into Colleges that allow pets. I would ditch my significant other (assuming i've had this macaw since this summer), (I don't know maybe I wont?, you never know). The finance is hard, but my dad is willing to pay for it as of right now.
Another comment about the money. Don't you technically take that risk with a lot of things? Cars, kids, homes? (I'm only 15 so please don't be too harsh but I want honest comments.
That is why you should not go forward with a mac!
Cars and homes are stuff! Kids grow up!
What if your dad wanted to expand his business, and decided the best way to do this was to use your college fund? Also to save money, and your age was close enough, he decided to declare you as an emancipated minor! Best thing? Off to the military with you! How would you feel? Quite upset! But remember you still grow up and will be independent! Also, emotionally, you are able to sort all of this out and deal with it!
On the other hand, your 'companion' gets screwed! Just another nail in the wall!
Just uhh wondered why you posted this here?
 

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Yikes; I would never adopt out a macaw to a 15 year old even if he were a millionaire.


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Please be more realistic and put your desire for a large parrot on hold. You have plenty of time to have a large parrot when you can provide for him properly and for the rest of his life. I *know* you think that you have all of the bases covered but that is because you are 15. That is not a dig - it is reality. We've all been 15 at some point and now in hindsight know that getting a macaw at 15 is a stunningly bad idea that you, your dad and the bird would all live to regret. I'm not trying to be mean - on the contrary, learning and volunteering now could help you to become a great parrot owner in the future. But now is not the time. Finish school, decide what you want to do with your life, get a steady good paying job, buy a house ( most rentals won't allow a macaw), figure out your plans for having or not having kids. When you are reasonably settled and reasonably financially secure, then get a macaw. You will be so glad you did things the right way.
 
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Please be more realistic and put your desire for a large parrot on hold. You have plenty of time to have a large parrot when you can provide for him properly and for the rest of his life. I *know* you think that you have all of the bases covered but that is because you are 15. That is not a dig - it is reality. We've all been 15 at some point and now in hindsight know that getting a macaw at 15 is a stunningly bad idea that you, your dad and the bird would all live to regret. I'm not trying to be mean - on the contrary, learning and volunteering now could help you to become a great parrot owner in the future. But now is not the time. Finish school, decide what you want to do with your life, get a steady good paying job, buy a house ( most rentals won't allow a macaw), figure out your plans for having or not having kids. When you are reasonably settled and reasonably financially secure, then get a macaw. You will be so glad you did things the right way.

Yeah, I guess... I understand, i'm just not ready/mature enough. I'm glad I was able to acquire feedback from you guys and learned more. I guess i'll just dream on... Thanks for the advice.
 
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Yikes; I would never adopt out a macaw to a 15 year old even if he were a millionaire.


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Yeah said:
First off i'm super thrilled I got a reply from so many well known members like you! I understand your reasoning and have decided not to get a macaw.
 

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Don't give up hope! Just because NOW isn't the time doesn't mean there won't be a time :)


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Don't give up hope! Just because NOW isn't the time doesn't mean there won't be a time :)


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Ehh, i'll probably loose this dream, as I loose hope quickly (I'm not going to get emotional here), But thanks though.
 

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Don't give up hope! Just because NOW isn't the time doesn't mean there won't be a time :)


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Ehh, i'll probably loose this dream, as I loose hope quickly (I'm not going to get emotional here), But thanks though.
@ ahmadses. You are still young, I would say wait few more years before getting a BG or adopting one. Having a bird is a big commitment. There is no time off from taking care of them. I have listed few place which you certainly can visit, and gain more knowledge about owning big parrot-like BG.

This is one of the best Veterinary places in Northern VA ( In Fairfax). I use them for my African Grey and Green Check. You can always talk with them about the volunteer opportunity.

https://www.seavs.com/


TC Feathers Aviary - Home

Tammy is the owner of this aviary, give her a call or visit her place and see if you can volunteer in her Aviary. This would be a great experience for you.



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This a parrot sanctuary, and I believe it's around an hour and a half or two hours’ drive from Loudon. See if they will let you volunteer at that place twice a month during the summer break. You might end up adopting from them. Adopting is not bad, you are actually going to end up with a mature bird. These bird most often are neglected by the previous owner or they had to surrender them for various reasons.

And good luck with your quest and life.
 
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Don't give up hope! Just because NOW isn't the time doesn't mean there won't be a time :)


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Ehh, i'll probably loose this dream, as I loose hope quickly (I'm not going to get emotional here), But thanks though.
@ ahmadses. You are still young, I would say wait few more years before getting a BG or adopting one. Having a bird is a big commitment. There is no time off from taking care of them. I have listed few place which you certainly can visit, and gain more knowledge about owning big parrot-like BG.

This is one of the best Veterinary places in Northern VA ( In Fairfax). I use them for my African Grey and Green Check. You can always talk with them about the volunteer opportunity.

https://www.seavs.com/


TC Feathers Aviary - Home

Tammy is the owner of this aviary, give her a call or visit her place and see if you can volunteer in her Aviary. This would be a great experience for you.



project-perry


This a parrot sanctuary, and I believe it's around an hour and a half or two hours’ drive from Loudon. See if they will let you volunteer at that place twice a month during the summer break. You might end up adopting from them. Adopting is not bad, you are actually going to end up with a mature bird. These bird most often are neglected by the previous owner or they had to surrender them for various reasons.

And good luck with your quest and life.

Just cam back from volunteering for the first time, was extremely fun! They were super friendly, I would recommend TC Feathers to anyone!!!
 

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I have macaws and African greys available.



ARE YOU EVEB READING THESE POSTS BEFORE YOU RESPOND??

You just offered this same contact info to a person who clearly didn't have funds for proper care, and now you are trying to sell to a 15 year old, and on other posts you are saying the birds are available by AUCTION???

Major red flags; I would sure never buy a bird from someone who clearly doesn't care ONE BIT about their birds. Disgusting.


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Just cam back from volunteering for the first time, was extremely fun! They were super friendly, I would recommend TC Feathers to anyone!!!

Glad you found somewhere to volunteer and I'm sure the parrots and staff are trilled to have an extra pair of hands to help:)

Adopting a parrot is kind of like having a baby. At your age, babysitting might be fun but having a child of your own sure wouldn't be. Parrots are more difficult than other pets, they have intelligence on par with a small child and are about as attention needy as a small child (and are like having a toddler with a beak who will never ever grow up!). Volunteering will be a great way for you to have fun and learn about parrots, without the enormous expense and responsibility of owning one just yet. I adopted my amazon when I was 19. I adore him, don't get me wrong, but in hindsight, I do think it would have been better to have waited a few more years. His need for constant attention and training and general care made a serious impact on my social life at an age where you'd rather not have an attention needy feathery dependent to think about;)
 

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Glad to help, I hope you had fun in her aviary :); I'm going to see her tomorrow. I would say keep the hope and dream high, and if time permit see if you can volunteer during the weekend in her aviary until you are done with High School; and then go get that dream bird of yours. We are here to help and educate each other. Enjoy your summer break.
 

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I will tell you two secrets. The first is that the things you love most about a parrot are the same things that drive you crazy about that same parrot. The funny way he tears up paper? It won't be as funny when it's your social security card. The way he wants to be on your arm all the time that seems so special? It won't be as cute when he screams nonstop if you leave the room and don't take him with you. The idea of a lifelong companion can be daunting when you want to go to Europe for the summer, or move into an urban loft, or marry a person who's allergic to parrots. The things that make you love them are the same things that can make you mad sometimes.

Secret #2: It's just the exact same way with other humans. Knowing that in advance can save you a lot of grief.
 

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