SkidRowSennie
New member
OK, well, as you know, I am a new forum member and a new owner of a Senegal male, age 4 with major baggage. I have kept company with many skid row Cockatiels, and a Sun Conure, and I never had trouble figuring them out or getting them to behave, trust, and eventually love; however, now I see that they were simply ignored, not abused. Now with Bibi, my poor little rescued Sennie, I am discovering that I must research, study, and ask the advice of those more experienced than I am if I am going to be able to gather the skill set I will need in order to rehabilitate Bibi and become the companion he deserves.
With that in mind, I ask you the following: Why does Bibi "talk over" or "interrupt" me when I talk to other people? When I make eye contact with and speak directly with him, he will just tweet and make sweet little noises, but when I speak to my sons or my husband in a normal conversational tone/decibel level, he will mumble/grumble incoherently while I speak. If I raise my voice to call out to or speak to someone, he raises the volume to match mine, but still using incoherent words.
I use the word "incoherent" because he speaks about 20 words, and they are VERY clear, so his "interruptions" are truly garbled nonsense.
My gut tells me that since I'm his favorite person, (and potential mate, ugh) he cannot tolerate my spending any time with my family, whom he now sees as competition, so he vocalizes in order to distract me or draw attention back to him.
If I'm correct in this assumption, what do I do to correct it? Should I just ignore it, or go to great lengths by giving him a time out?
Thanks for your help!
With that in mind, I ask you the following: Why does Bibi "talk over" or "interrupt" me when I talk to other people? When I make eye contact with and speak directly with him, he will just tweet and make sweet little noises, but when I speak to my sons or my husband in a normal conversational tone/decibel level, he will mumble/grumble incoherently while I speak. If I raise my voice to call out to or speak to someone, he raises the volume to match mine, but still using incoherent words.
I use the word "incoherent" because he speaks about 20 words, and they are VERY clear, so his "interruptions" are truly garbled nonsense.
My gut tells me that since I'm his favorite person, (and potential mate, ugh) he cannot tolerate my spending any time with my family, whom he now sees as competition, so he vocalizes in order to distract me or draw attention back to him.
If I'm correct in this assumption, what do I do to correct it? Should I just ignore it, or go to great lengths by giving him a time out?
Thanks for your help!