african grey problems

Hi Everyone...i think I may have some problems maybe someone can tell me If what I am going to a temp should be right on my part..i raised an African grey from a tiny baby just out of her egg.had her for aprx 9 yrs...we were traveling a lot and didnt think it was much fair to her...we even took her with us.so I sought a new family.I thought would be great family for her.well...I seen her last summer and she was pulling out her feathers they said they were taking her to a vet..my daughter stopped yesterday and said she looks really bad...she is depressed mentally and physically she is almost bald she is not talking anymore and dosnt dance when she sings to her.she said she looks very very sad ....i am going to a temp to ask them if I shouldn't try taking her home and see if I can help her and clear her up.But what if they refuse what should I do.she cant stay like that.she will eventually die.please help. she also said there are no toys or anything for her to play with.I am just sick over this and feel so guilty I put her in this position....

Well, first of all, CAGS don't always rehome well.

What if she was bonded to "her person" and the plucking is caused by separation anxiety? (Which happens.)

The question is, will they do what is best for the bird and give her back.

You gave her up. I don't know that you have any legal recourse if they say no.

But if the bird is doing that badly, if you honestly cared about her welfare, WHY ON EARTH WOULD THEY SAY NO?!

It certainly wouldn't hurt to sit down and share your concerns with them.

I agree with Birdman - you most definitely need to speak with them, in person if possible. Stop by the pet store on the way there and grab some toys, too. At the very least, if they won't give you the bird, you can provide it with some entertainment. If you can, you may also want to consider offering them money for the bird, if you really want it home. Financial gain is typically a great motivator for people. It appears as though they don't care about the bird, to have let it get to such a state, therefore they may be that much more motivated by the money if you offer it.

Aww...poor baby. I would definitely try to get her back, but I don't think there is anything legally that you can do if they say no. Hopefully they know what's best for the bird and they will give her back to you. I agree maybe if you offer to 'buy' her they may be more receptive to the idea. Hopefully they will do the right thing...good luck!

One way I look at it is. Most of these birds can talk but they can not speak up for themselves. Someone who cares has to speak up for them.

I am curious if you take her home and clear her up will you keep her ?