My Little Girl, Con

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RIP Constantine: Jenday Conure
I never thought I'd be writing this, at least not for 30 years.

Yesterday morning, my Jenday Conure, Con, had a bad seizure. She's been having seizures for a few months now, but they were always pretty mild. The vet couldn't pinpoint what was causing them and I ruled out diet or metal poisoning. Anyway, she fell from a hanging perch when the seizure hit. I heard her hit the ground and immediately rushed to pick her up.

Usually, Con recovers from her episodes within an hour or so with only a little weakness to show for it. A few hours after the seizure, she was starting to perk up and I figured she'd pull out of it like she always does. So, I went and ran some errands. When I returned home, she was sleeping. I figured nothing was wrong.

Several hours later, she was still sleeping on and off but she wasn't moving. I hadn't seen her eat or drink. I pulled her out and she lay limp in my hands. I could feel the muscles in her wings twitching and she had that far away look in her eye. I called the vet and went in for an emergency appointment.

She took x-rays, gave dextrose, and put her in a warm dark place with added oxygen. Con perked up a little and the vet was going to give her some fluids under her skin.

Ten minutes later, the vet came back to tell me that Con had another massive seizure and her heart stopped. My little girl was gone.


Each morning, I wake to her tutting at me or crawling over my head while trying to get under the covers. This morning, I woke to silence. After she finally gets me out of bed, she meets me by my bedroom door then hitches a ride into the kitchen while I go about my business and make coffee. This morning, there was no pretty bird clinging to my shirt or sitting on the hanging perch. Each night, she tut tuts at me if I come in to the room and accidentally wake her. I stood in my room last night and stared at her empty cage.

People, if I can tell you one thing, it's that you should always get a second opinion if something doesn't seem right. Your bird's life isn't worth risking. Please let my mistakes be a lesson for you. Also, for me, please give your birds a cuddle and tell them that you love them. I didn't get the chance until it was too late and I regret it more than anything.

Con, I love you. My room is too quiet without you and I don't know what to do. I love you.
 

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Oh Im so sorry :(
 

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My heart is breaking for you:( I am so sorry for your loss of Con.
You did everything you could for her, and it is obvious how much she was loved.
I am just so sorry.
 
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Thank you, everyone. It means a lot to have your support. I'm still in shock and I really have no idea what I'm supposed to do. She was my only bird and I've been making our contact call (tut tut) to myself without realizing it and then when I do...yeah. Not good.
 

Kiwibird

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I'm so sorry to hear this:( Beautiful Con knew she was loved and is flying free now.
 

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can tell from your post you and Con had a beautiful bond. Always heartbreaking to say goodbye and even more so when a life is cut short. She was fortunate to be so loved. My deepest sympathy.
 

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Hahn's macaw, RIP George, Jenday Conure
When I got George back after his necropsy after he seized and died, I took him around the house and room by room I recalled out loud the memories we shared in each of them. Then I buried him in the front lawn.
I cried my eyes out.
I felt hollow.
I was empty for quite a few days.
But I have healed. And after about a year or so, my wife suggested that I get another bird. To which I replied, "and get my heart crushed again?"
But she saw something that I didn't. That I was a different, happier person when I had a feathered friend. So we began the long task of researching and asking questions.
I learned a lot in between. Diet, toys, socialization, cage size, grooming, avian vets that are open 24 hours...just to name a few things.
We have had Hahnzel now for 3 years (her hatch day was July 9th). And she is a good fit. A totally different species (George was a Jenday conure, Hahnzel is a Hahns macaw). But now I have my little therapist who loves to ride on my shoulder.

I miss George. I actually cried while writing this post. But it's not that paralyzingly painful any more.
 

JerseyWendy

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I am so sorry to hear about Con. :(

She was MUCH loved, and she will never be forgotten. I, too, feel your pain through your post. HUGS to you.
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss. That first morning silence sounded heart wrenching. :(
 

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These posts break my heart. It really makes my heart ache too, the feeling is awful beyond words and I would never wish it upon any bird lover. I'm trying not to give up on my little one right now who has been sick with anemia and even with medicine and tons of vet bills I saw some improvement and now back to square one. The worst is to see them slowly go. At least your Con had a semi quick death and not prolonged for weeks, that just makes it hard for both pet and owner :( truly sorry for your loss though
 

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