Help me say Farewell to Echo

mh434

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She wasn't a bird, but she was deeply loved. We rescued her as a puppy 14 years ago, and every single day of her life she was a loving, devoted member of our family.

On November 30th we were out of the country and she was at a dog-sitter's, in a remote area on the west coast of Vancouver Island. The sitter was one of her favorite people in the whole world, and she, in turn, loved Echo beyond measure.

While the sitter was moving some things into the house, Echo slipped out the door past her. She always came when called, but for some reason, this time she wouldn't. The sitter became alarmed and kept calling, but Echo just stopped at the edge of the dense forest, turned, gave her one long, last look, and slipped into the forest. Over the next hour there were two sightings of her a half mile away, but then...nothing.

We didn't find out about it for a couple of days. The sitter had called everyone she knew, and had several people out looking for her without success. When I found out about it (we were in Mexico), I immediately posted on Facebook, and mobilized a virtual army of helpers. One of our local rescue groups was out every day, searching for her with infrared cameras, and friends of mine I haven't seen in years drove miles out into the wilderness to search. She was posted on every single lost-pet forum, social media, and online newspaper in the entire area.

Strangely, on the morning of December 3rd, while walking the beach alone in Mexico, I came across some dog prints in the sand that reminded me of Echo. At that precise moment, a chill surged over me as though someone had poured a vat of ice water over me, and Echo's memory surged through me with crystal clarity. It was so powerful that I almost collapsed, and I believe it was Echo, passing away.

On my early return from Mexico, I immediately started searching, by car and on foot, covering miles of jagged cliffs, coastline (the open Pacific meets the shores there), slash areas, and dense rain forest.

Despite all of this, not a single trace has been found. Echo had congestive heart disease issues, but was doing well on medication. She hated those vile pills, though, and it was a trial to disguise them. Perhaps, she just decided she'd had enough of them, or maybe she decided to head for home - 25 km. of the roughest terrain on the coast, during heavy storms & freezing temperatures. I don't think we'll ever know why she left, or what happened to her.

I don't handle these things well, as I love my furred and feathered friends passionately, and not knowing, no closure at all, is difficult for me. I still hear her soft breathing in the night, her her tags jingle in the darkness, but she's not there.

She wasn't a bird, I know, but I don't know anywhere else where people are so caring, and so loving of animals, so I hope it's okay to post her here. Please say a prayer for my beloved Echo, hope that her pain is past, and that she's free to run happy, until I meet her again.

I love you, little girl, and I miss you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Dog, cat, bird or mouse they are all part of our family.
 

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Wishing peace for you and Echo - wherever she is on Earth or in Heaven.
 

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That's so sad! I am soo sorry you are going thru this. I teared up reading this.I hope you find peace in knowing you gave echo a great life. Sometimes animals hide or run away from their loved ones to spare them the pain of saying goodbye, maybe echo wanted you to remember her alive. My thoughts and prayers are with you and echo.
 

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I am so sorry, my heart is breaking for you, and for Echo. I so pray that you are able to find peace.
 

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Oh my gosh that hurt to read, your sorrow became my own. Crying, crying. You told it so poignantly, with such bone deep sorrow :( I'm sorry for you friend, hugs to you across virtual reality. If I was there you would get a real hug.
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I'm sorry about Echo.....it's not easy to lose one of the furry family members. My heart goes out to you and hope you find closure to at least know what happened to her as the hardest part is not knowing.
 

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So sorry for your loss, breaking my heart just reading it. Had to leave & compose myself before coming back to reply (just lost our 13yr old pitbull) Pets are just as much part of the family as humans imho!
 

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Very sorry you have lost Echo in the most cryptic manner possible. What a beautiful girl.

The bond between humans and their pets often transcend our understanding of reality. Her interaction with the sitter and your sensation of her passing may be artifacts of her efforts to spare you much grief in real-time.

I hope the wonderful memories of beloved companionship bring you comfort.
 
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mh434

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Green-cheeked Conure "Skittles" - now, sadly gone from my life
Blue-Crowned Conure "Tequila"
African Grey "Reno" - sadly, now gone from my life
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Many thanks to you all. My heart breaks when I think of her out there in the wilderness, wet, in pain, and all alone. Although I know, consciously, that I did everything I could, I can't help but feel that, somehow, I've failed to keep her safe, warm, and loved until the end of her days, as I'd promised her. The thought of her lying out there, forever cold and still, breaks my heart anew.

Your words give me comfort. It is reassuring to know that there are so many truly loving people out there, who care so deeply. Although I don't actually know you all, I count you among my dearest friends.

My wife says I need to move on, that we have a home full of other furred and feathered friends who need me, too, and I suppose she's right, but memories of Echo will remain strong for the rest of my days.

Thank you all, again. You are wonderful people, deserving of all the joy life (and our little friends) can bring.
 

MikeyTN

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When I lost a feathery friend years back, he died right in my arms and it broke my heart to pieces that I couldn't function at work and had to take many sick days off. But I had to move on cause of my other furry, feather, and fin critters that needed me. So I feel you there!!!!
 

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Deepest Condolences for your terrible loss! I am so, so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and your sweet girl.

She was a beautiful girl, I know she brought you lots of joy and I'm sure she had a very happy life with her loving family. You are in my thoughts.
 

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