Fly free, Sweet Cally

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We lost our sweet Cally on Tuesday, and are just brokenhearted. We would have had her and her mate, Ki, 3 years on Valentine’s day. I saw the ad for them, they were selling multiple other birds, and Ki and Cally looked the worst so they were the ones we wanted to bring home. She was wild caught, we were told she was between 50 and 60 when we got her. They were living in a shed attached to a barn, it was so cold in there you could see your breath. They were in a galvanized cage, with 2 perches that were more like tree stumps they were so big.
Cally was a DYH and Ki a RLA, they had been put together when both their mates died, and were inseparable. Ki was so attached to her that when we would take her out of the cage to trim her nails, he would throw himself at the bars trying to get to her.

Everything was normal Tuesday, they had their baths and enjoyed them like usual, Cally had some birdie bread with her morning chop. My husband went down to change cages that evening, and she was fine. They were in a huge corner cage, and he had to almost crawl into the cage to change the papers on top of the grates, and she made her way to the back of the cage while he was doing it, just like usual. As soon as he finished, she was heading back to sit by the chop dish, knowing that chop was the next step. He took the chop in 10 minutes later, and she was on the bottom of the cage, under the chop dish…gone.
Ki was sitting with her, trying to preen her head, and muttering to her. We left her in the cage overnight with him, as he did not want to leave her side.

We are devastated that she is gone, and that Ki is now alone. She came a long way with us, and I am so thankful that she lived her last years in a warm place, with good food and love. The pain we are feeling made us question whether we can take the pain from these losses, and whether it was a good idea to take in older, challenged birds. The answer is that we are doing the right thing, and if we can make their lives better, even for a short time, it is worth the anguish we feel at losing them.

Ki is doing a bit better now, he wasn’t really eating, and for the first time, I heard him scream the day after she passed. Yesterday, he tore down the toy that she loved…I’m not sure if he was playing with it, or if he didn’t want to look at it. So hard to know what they are thinking. We added more wood to it, and made it look different before rehanging it, and so far he has left it alone. He enjoyed his bath today, and I think he is going to be okay.

My heart aches for her loss, but I am comforted to think of her once again flying free, like she always should have been.

Cally, you are missed desperately...and you were, and are, loved. Thank you for allowing us to share your last years, Baby Girl. You changed us, and we will be forever grateful.

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Terry, so sorry to her this news, we ( Geri, Salty and I ) feel your pain and sorrow.

Donation to Cornell Vet College Avian Science program made in Cally's honor.

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Sweet words and comfort for you and your family!

Passing of a Feathered Friend

“All of us feel such deep sadness when our Parrot friends die, and because they are Animals and not Humans, we are at a loss for words. Often, it is only other Parrot owners who can understand the depth of the loss that we feel with this complex, loyal, and loving creature. Resulting from such a loss, I have placed feelings and emotions into words and found verse to console the loss of my Cleo and since her, other sweet Amazons, in turn; I hope it will speak for all of you.” - Steven


You left this world so quickly. I can hardly comprehend your leaving. Yet there, in my hands, your still body rested — no longer your home. So much I have learned, so much you have taught, your purpose a full measure beyond your size. Comprehensions of your loss still a mist but yet, I know you are whole and happy - now beyond Rainbow Bridge. And so busy you must be upon your green wings, guiding angles to those of us yet to cross. With in my ear, I still hear you, those special sweet sounds of comfort and contentment:


“Do not stand by my grave and weep my friend.
I am not here. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the gentle summer rain.
When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry my friend.
I am not there. I did not die.”

My pray for you my beloved feathered friend:

“May your body nourish this earth.
May your soul find release and contentment.
May you fly high and free upon wings of spirit.
Rest in peace little green one.”


The love and tender warmth of you is a un-full-fill-able void.
I do so much thank-you for creating a space for another, a special place next to yours’.

In remembrance of Cleo, (Estimated) Spring 1959 - May 2003


Amazon’s Have More Love!

Sources: Cheyenne Warrior Blessing, The Amazona Society’s Forum, Steven (SailBoat)
 
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Terry, so sorry to her this news, we ( Geri, Salty and I ) feel your pain and sorrow.

Donation to Cornell Vet College Avian Science program made in Cally's honor.

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Al, tears are streaming down my face at your incredible tribute to Cally. I have no words except for thank you.

Sweet words and comfort for you and your family!

Passing of a Feathered Friend

“All of us feel such deep sadness when our Parrot friends die, and because they are Animals and not Humans, we are at a loss for words. Often, it is only other Parrot owners who can understand the depth of the loss that we feel with this complex, loyal, and loving creature. Resulting from such a loss, I have placed feelings and emotions into words and found verse to console the loss of my Cleo and since her, other sweet Amazons, in turn; I hope it will speak for all of you.” - Steven


You left this world so quickly. I can hardly comprehend your leaving. Yet there, in my hands, your still body rested – no longer your home. So much I have learned, so much you have taught, your purpose a full measure beyond your size. Comprehensions of your loss still a mist but yet, I know you are whole and happy - now beyond Rainbow Bridge. And so busy you must be upon your green wings, guiding angles to those of us yet to cross. With in my ear, I still hear you, those special sweet sounds of comfort and contentment:


“Do not stand by my grave and weep my friend.
I am not here. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the gentle summer rain.
When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry my friend.
I am not there. I did not die.”

My pray for you my beloved feathered friend:

“May your body nourish this earth.
May your soul find release and contentment.
May you fly high and free upon wings of spirit.
Rest in peace little green one.”


The love and tender warmth of you is a un-full-fill-able void.
I do so much thank-you for creating a space for another, a special place next to yours’.

In remembrance of Cleo, (Estimated) Spring 1959 - May 2003


Amazon’s Have More Love!

Sources: Cheyenne Warrior Blessing, The Amazona Society’s Forum, Steven (SailBoat)

Thank you, Steven, these words bring comfort to a broken heart.
 

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I'm so grateful to allof you, for lettingme be part of your joys and part of your heartbreaks. I've never laughed o r cried more anyplace ever inmy life.
Terry, your courage confounds and uplifts me so. xoxoxo
 

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Terry, what a lovely tribute to your beautiful girl. My heart is breaking for you and Reg and for Ki. I wish there was something we could do to take the pain away but know that we are here for you and we understand. What you do for birds is not only appreciated but celebrated here.

Fly free Cally, forever in our hearts.
 
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I'm so grateful to allof you, for lettingme be part of your joys and part of your heartbreaks. I've never laughed o r cried more anyplace ever inmy life.
Terry, your courage confounds and uplifts me so. xoxoxo

Gail, you are such a wonderful person. Much love to you. I am so happy to have you in my life.

My heartfelt condolences, Terry.

Thank you, Rival...you are as amazing as your wife.

Terry, what a lovely tribute to your beautiful girl. My heart is breaking for you and Reg and for Ki. I wish there was something we could do to take the pain away but know that we are here for you and we understand. What you do for birds is not only appreciated but celebrated here.

Fly free Cally, forever in our hearts.

Sweet Allee, thank you so much for being there for me this week. I love you, my Friend.
 

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Terry, I am so very sorry to hear of your sudden loss of Cally. I know this is shocking and deeply painful. Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and Reg. All the best to Ki. I know he will be okay.
 

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I'm so sorry :( I remember you getting them
 

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My deepest condolences, Terry. You and Reg gave Cally her best years with Ki. She had the sweetest face and looked so happy with Ki at her side. Shared tears and hugs my Friend.
 

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So sorry for your loss. Im sure he appreciated his finals years with you!
 

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Terry, I remember how badly off Ki and Cally both were when you first got them. But you opened up a new world for them, and slowly they began to live again. Instead of merely surviving, they began to blossom under your care. They came to learn the joy of baths, clean living areas and a proper diet. You never rushed them, nor imposed your own sense of who they should be upon them. She was wild caught, and you respected that. You accepted and loved them for who they were. And because of that, they flourished under your care.

Life was not kind to Cally before you. But thanks to you and Reg, she finally found her flock. She finally had a sense of family. Your love made that possible, and I'm sure that she understood that to some degree. Her time with you was far too short, but it was rich despite its brevity. And full beyond measure.

Call is flying free, now. But in many ways, she found her wings the day you took her into your home. Sending my continued hugs and prayers your way, my friend.
 

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Haven't been on in awhile. Sooo sorry to hear of your loss. It's never easy. Sending you and ki and big hug.
 

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