My Beloved Phoe

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My Darling, beloved Phoe passed away during the night.
I have talked so much about him being sick, but my baby deserves for people to know who he was before this.
We got Phoe just over 5 years ago from a Kijiji ad. He was 6 months old and already plucking, and the girl who had him had only had him for 2 weeks. She had gotten him from Petland and needed the money back to move, she said. His name was Phoenix, but we quickly shortened that to Phoe. He was already plucking, and despite our best efforts he continued to pluck until he was mostly bald. He was vet checked multiple times, all tests run, and he was completely healthy.
He was always full of conure attitude, and every other bird in the room was terrified of him, even though he couldn't fly. When we were given a GCC (Jax), we hoped they would become friends, and after a few months they became best buddies. They spent every waking hour together, even though they still chose to sleep in separate cages at night. We are leaving Phoe in his cage to give Jax time to say goodbye.
Phoe was fearless, the best eater we had, and so sweet it made our hearts sing. Every single time I called his name, he came running. My favourite pet name for him was Phoedle-Dee-Dee, and I said it every time I went into the bird room. I literally cannot imagine never saying that again.
At this moment, I can't imagine my life without him. I also can't imagine Jax without him. My heart is broken.
I decided to use a picture of the wonderful painting of Phoe & Jax that Gail did for us. Gail, this is more precious that I can even say.

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RIP, my angel, my baby, my friend. I hope you are covered with feathers and flying for the first time in your life. I hope you know how much you are loved, and how much you will be missed. I love you with everything inside me and can't wait to see you on the other side of that rainbow bridge.
 

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A wonderful tribute to a friend of the heart...hard to write as tears drip from my eyes....I'm so glad you found him, abd he had love and a best bird friend too...
 

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Oh sweet Phoe I’m so sorry, so very sorry. I’ve been following and hoping for an upswing. Sending lots of well wishes and heartfelt prayers to you and yours.


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Dear God...


Please take good care of Phoe at the Parrot Heaven.




I am sorry my Dear!!!!!! :( :( :(



 

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Nooooooooooo, oh I am so sorry to read this! :(


(I love the painting you shared, 2 loving little dinoos leaving footprints on everyones heart)
 

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I'm truly sorry for your loss. I lost my first GCC in an accident a year and a half ago, my heart stil breaks for her. Sorry.

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RIP Gandalf and Big Bird, you are missed.
I am so sorry, my deepest condolences, Terry. You redeemed Phoe and shared with him five years of love and companionship he richly deserved. Your heart is broken but I know his beautiful memories will prove healing over time, my friend.
 

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Oh dear Lord Terry! :17: Words can not express my deep sadness of you and Regs' loss. I was soooo excited when reading about Phoe's remarkable recovery,that I was even reading the thread to Amy and I swear it looked like she had a big :D on her face/beak as I read to her.

This is utterly shocking indeed. We as a "family" have been loosing way too many beloved family members recently.

My heart aches for you my dear friend...



Jim
 

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I’m so sorry for your loss of Phoe. My heart hurts for you, he was so obviously a much loved part of your family.
 

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Oh, Phoe, I really thought you were going to turn this around, but if you got tired, little love, and needed to make the change, we get it. I know you held on for Terry and Jax.
There was never another like you, and never will be.
I loved painting you, and I have that portrait displayed proudly in my galleries.
I had a nickname for Phoe, too... Phoester (Fee-ster)...
Good night, sweet Phoester, for now.
 
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Oh Terry, I'm just so sorry...I'm tearing-up right now, and I don't usually do that...I was so happy for you and for Phoe and thought he was going to be fine. Not much I can say except I'm truly sorry and if there is anything at all we can do, just ask...
 

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Awful news, Terry. Very sad news. I know Gail and I never grinned more than when she was doing that painting. Conure attitude, that was Phoe.
It was good knowing you, buddy.
Rest in peace.
 

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Oh no Terry, I’m so very sorry for your loss of precious little Phoe! I lost my heart-bird this year too and am still devastated by it six months on ... today I cry for both my baby Baci and your darling Phoe, both loved so deeply and both taken far too soon. I hope they can be buddies beyond the Rainbow Bridge along with all the other little feathered angels lost this year, until we meet up with them all again.
 

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Phoe... dear little conure love... fly straight to parrot's Heaven. There are no words that can heal Terry's heart now once you've flown away.. but you know you've been loved so much, I'm sure you knew that. You've also given back to Terry: lots of happy moments, plenty of heart touching situations... Let them stay deep in Terry's heart and memories. We all will miss you here.
 
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I can't stop crying long enough to answer each post individually like they deserve right now, so for now will just say how much your words of comfort mean to me, and to Reg. I am holding them close to my heart, right next to the place where Phoe will always live on.
 

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Oh terry my heart is breaking for you and your family:( I’m so sorry my friend! Hugs to you all.

Such a loving tribute, and that painting couldn’t be more precious
 

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May Peace find and stand with you as part of your loss my dear friend…With tear filled ears, I provide words that have consoled me during my losses.


Passing of a Feathered Friend
Provided By: Steven (SailBoat), November 2016

“All of us feel such deep sadness when our Parrot friends die, and because they are Animals and not Humans, we are at a loss for words. Often, it is only other Parrot owners who can understand the depth of the loss that we feel with this complex, loyal, and loving creature. Resulting from such a loss, I have placed feelings and emotions into words and found verse to console the loss of my Cleo and since her, other sweet Amazons, in turn; I hope it will speak for all of you.” - Steven

You left this world so quickly. I can hardly comprehend your leaving. Yet there, in my hands, your still body rested — no longer your home. So much I have learned, so much you have taught, your purpose a full measure beyond your size. Comprehensions of your loss still a mist but yet, I know you are whole and happy - now beyond Rainbow Bridge. And so busy you must be upon your green wings, guiding angles to those of us yet to cross. With in my ear, I still hear you, those special sweet sounds of comfort and contentment:

“Do not stand by my grave and weep my friend.
I am not here. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the gentle summer rain.
When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry my friend.
I am not there. I did not die.”

My pray for you my beloved feathered friend:

“May your body nourish this earth.
May your soul find release and contentment.
May you fly high and free upon wings of spirit.
Rest in peace little green one.”

The love and tender warmth of you is a un-full-fill-able void.
I do so much thank-you for creating a space for another, a special place next to yours’.

In remembrance of Cleo, (Estimated) Spring 1959 - May 2003
Amazon’s Have More Love!

Sources: Cheyenne Warrior Blessing, The Amazona Society’s Forum, Steven (SailBoat)


Warm Feather Hugs My Dear Friend.
 

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