Grenage
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Advice on dealing with the loss
We had our GCC for seven years; he was so cuddly and affectionate, always wanted to be on us or asleep under our t-shirts. We were always so careful with diet and environment.
After a week away we came back to find him hanging dead from the bars. His food bowl was empty; he'd starved to death. The person looking after him had got the dates wrong despite an explicit note confirming the day - he stopped visiting 4 days before our return.
I am not an emotional person - I haven't cried since I was a child, and was very stoic when we realised my dad wasn't going to make it. That said, it was undoubtedly the worst moment of my life, and I haven't stopped breaking down in tears for the last few days.
The thought that our beloved parrot spent two or three days starving to death, alone, with no idea of why is completely unbearable. He didn't deserve that.
I keep wishing I'd checked in each day with the carer, or done something differently. But I guess that's normal. I have no anger towards the friend.
I would appreciate any tips on how others moved on, as it's all a bit much.
We had our GCC for seven years; he was so cuddly and affectionate, always wanted to be on us or asleep under our t-shirts. We were always so careful with diet and environment.
After a week away we came back to find him hanging dead from the bars. His food bowl was empty; he'd starved to death. The person looking after him had got the dates wrong despite an explicit note confirming the day - he stopped visiting 4 days before our return.
I am not an emotional person - I haven't cried since I was a child, and was very stoic when we realised my dad wasn't going to make it. That said, it was undoubtedly the worst moment of my life, and I haven't stopped breaking down in tears for the last few days.
The thought that our beloved parrot spent two or three days starving to death, alone, with no idea of why is completely unbearable. He didn't deserve that.
I keep wishing I'd checked in each day with the carer, or done something differently. But I guess that's normal. I have no anger towards the friend.
I would appreciate any tips on how others moved on, as it's all a bit much.
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