FlyBirdiesFly
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So, in these past few weeks Kermit has really come around. He’s become much more trusting, looks forward to his training, and has even become a little cuddle bug. He now loves to sit on my shoulder and nuzzle up against my face and close his eyes. He crawls into my hand and nestles in comfortably while I give him scritches, inching closer if I pull my hand away. He lets me grab him by the body and pick him up, flip him onto his back while he clenches my thumb, and he lets me spread out his wings. This is tremendous progress given that just a couple months ago he didn’t like being touched at all!
Lately, I’ve been spending more time with Kermit than with Ducky. Ducky has been such a good girl and sits quietly on the tree stand preening while I give Kermit attention. However, I’ve noticed that she’s also become more distant toward me. Before I take Kermit out, I try to take Ducky out first to spend some one-on-one time with her. She’s been flying away from me recently and has preferred just doing her own thing. She doesn’t seem interested in sitting with me and cuddling anymore. She is starting to lunge at me and at times doesn’t even want to step up, and doesn’t ask for scritches very much. She used to do it all the time, but now she lunges at me when I try to put my hand near her. Or I’ll be scritching her one moment and she’ll lunge at me the next, and I’m not really sure what she wants.
Ducky always lights up when I have treats, and she’ll eagerly step up for me if she knows I have millet. But if I don’t have treats, she doesn’t want to go on me. She used to fly to me all the time and she was happy to step up because she knew she would get to spend some quality time with me. I don’t think she’s afraid of my hands because she’ll step up and fly to me on command for treats. I feel like I’m losing her bond and I want her old self back! What should I do?
Lately, I’ve been spending more time with Kermit than with Ducky. Ducky has been such a good girl and sits quietly on the tree stand preening while I give Kermit attention. However, I’ve noticed that she’s also become more distant toward me. Before I take Kermit out, I try to take Ducky out first to spend some one-on-one time with her. She’s been flying away from me recently and has preferred just doing her own thing. She doesn’t seem interested in sitting with me and cuddling anymore. She is starting to lunge at me and at times doesn’t even want to step up, and doesn’t ask for scritches very much. She used to do it all the time, but now she lunges at me when I try to put my hand near her. Or I’ll be scritching her one moment and she’ll lunge at me the next, and I’m not really sure what she wants.
Ducky always lights up when I have treats, and she’ll eagerly step up for me if she knows I have millet. But if I don’t have treats, she doesn’t want to go on me. She used to fly to me all the time and she was happy to step up because she knew she would get to spend some quality time with me. I don’t think she’s afraid of my hands because she’ll step up and fly to me on command for treats. I feel like I’m losing her bond and I want her old self back! What should I do?