So I've had my bird for a little over a month and a half and got a bit frustrated that she wasn't showing any signs of improvement when it came to her fear of hands. I was able to get her to eat millet from my hands, but only when held in a very specific manor, and if my hand moved at all, she would bite it. This continued for a while until I remembered in a comic when someone held a stick to their parrot and got them comfortable with stepping up that way. So I got a tiny latter that I had yet to put in her cage and coaxed her onto it with some millet, I then slowly moved her over to the couch (which is only a few feet from her cage) and sat the latter down on my lap. She seemed a bit cautious, but she's fully flighted so I assumed she would return to her cage if she felt uncomfortable. After a few minutes she seemed to get comfortable. She would step up on my finger voluntarily, and she would even preen herself while on my hand. However, once I returned her to her cage she immediately returned to her former habits. So I'm wondering, have I messed up my relationship with my bird? Is she now more afraid of me than before? What can I do to get her to trust me?