A month or so ago, I got a rose crowned conure, Tristan. I got him for us and also as a buddy for my GCC, Libby. So far, they have gotten along OK. They preen, but eventually fight, so we keep them fairly separate most of the time. We are hoping that they will grow out of that eventually.
Unfortunately, Tristan doesn't like me that much. He will hang out on my shoulder and accept rubs sometimes - usually only if my husband is too far away for Tristan to flutter to him. He much prefers to be around my husband although he still will not step up for him, and will only come out of his cage if he feels like it, and only by stepping onto a shoulder.
Usually he just runs away from me or flutters away from me (he's half clipped). I try not chase him, but sometimes I need to get him. And I don't want him to become 100% dependent on being with my husband, either. I don't mind if we don't end up as best buds, but I want to be able to pick him up, have him step up, give him a treat, and so on, without him freaking out.
I'm not sure what else to do. Tristan is not particularly food motivated so bribing him is difficult. Compelling him to spend time with me seems too stressful to him to be worth, and my husband is not particularly helpful, choosing the path of least resistance.
Unfortunately, Tristan doesn't like me that much. He will hang out on my shoulder and accept rubs sometimes - usually only if my husband is too far away for Tristan to flutter to him. He much prefers to be around my husband although he still will not step up for him, and will only come out of his cage if he feels like it, and only by stepping onto a shoulder.
Usually he just runs away from me or flutters away from me (he's half clipped). I try not chase him, but sometimes I need to get him. And I don't want him to become 100% dependent on being with my husband, either. I don't mind if we don't end up as best buds, but I want to be able to pick him up, have him step up, give him a treat, and so on, without him freaking out.
I'm not sure what else to do. Tristan is not particularly food motivated so bribing him is difficult. Compelling him to spend time with me seems too stressful to him to be worth, and my husband is not particularly helpful, choosing the path of least resistance.