Cut to the chase: I had a conure that went from love bug for 3 months to terrified of me. Is this normal? I really want to get another bird but I'm afraid that this is REALLY common?
Here is the back story:
So, I got a wonderful hand fed turquoise green cheek conure from a local breeder as a baby. He was very very sweet and came to me easily the first day we drove an hour to pick him up. I say him but I am not sure what sex he was. He was FANTASTIC!! Finally the perfect bird for our family!! I work from home so I always had him out of his cage either on a perch or his cage playing and interacting with me. He would get so excited to see me each morning when I'd open his cage. He would play with my earrings and snuggle into my hands like a nest. He was loving and adorable. WELL, that didn't last. One day, happened to be the day after my son's 6th birthday he changed 180 degrees. He was terrified of me! He wouldn't let me come near him and would cower in his cage. For 3 months I tried to regain his trust thinking something had spooked him. Nothing worked. And the other strange thing is that he was fine with my husband where he hadn't been before. My husband could pick him up off the ground when he'd fly off his cage, I couldn't not matter what I tried. He even let my husband cuddle him. I would spend pretty much all my waking hours with this lil guy, talking to him, giving him treats etc. and my husband would come out of his office for 15 minutes at a time a couple times a day. But he hated me. I was heartbroken. I went to all the forums and even contacted some big name parrot behaviorist but all they could tell me was that "this happens sometimes". They couldn't tell me why or how. We found him another wonderful home, a couple who had another conure so I know he was going to get a lot of attention.
But my question is, is this radical 180 degree change in behavior normal? I sooooo want another conure that will let me interact and love him!! But I'm so afraid something will happen again. I'm not asking for guarantees but I'm just wondering if this was a fluke or if this is VERY LIKELY TO HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE? There is a green cheek at the Petsmart I've seen there for about 2 months now. Every time I go in he goes nuts and wants so much love!! I heald him today and he actually turned over on his back and laid in my hand, playing with my fingers! Then he tried to regurgitate to me!!! The lady who works their said he doesn't do that with anyone and that the other sun conure got all the attention. That normally their greencheeks are pretty friendly but this particular one wasn't as much so she couldn't believe how he was acting with me! I know it's probably too good to be true, she could be saying this just to make a sale. But I need other bird owners' advice! Is it a pipe dream that I can own a bird that won't hate me?
P.S. I got a parakeet for my son last april and I spend all my days with him. He is quite the talker and says a ton of cute stuff he learned from Disco the Parakeet. He is a handfed but doesn't like hands. I've been working with him to get more comfortable but he prefers to be left alone and talked to all day - he loves attention just not affection. I miss it! I want a bird that will let me cuddle! Here is a picture of my GCC before he decided I was scum!
Here is his snuggling on his shoulder that I couldn't get him off of!
Here is the back story:
So, I got a wonderful hand fed turquoise green cheek conure from a local breeder as a baby. He was very very sweet and came to me easily the first day we drove an hour to pick him up. I say him but I am not sure what sex he was. He was FANTASTIC!! Finally the perfect bird for our family!! I work from home so I always had him out of his cage either on a perch or his cage playing and interacting with me. He would get so excited to see me each morning when I'd open his cage. He would play with my earrings and snuggle into my hands like a nest. He was loving and adorable. WELL, that didn't last. One day, happened to be the day after my son's 6th birthday he changed 180 degrees. He was terrified of me! He wouldn't let me come near him and would cower in his cage. For 3 months I tried to regain his trust thinking something had spooked him. Nothing worked. And the other strange thing is that he was fine with my husband where he hadn't been before. My husband could pick him up off the ground when he'd fly off his cage, I couldn't not matter what I tried. He even let my husband cuddle him. I would spend pretty much all my waking hours with this lil guy, talking to him, giving him treats etc. and my husband would come out of his office for 15 minutes at a time a couple times a day. But he hated me. I was heartbroken. I went to all the forums and even contacted some big name parrot behaviorist but all they could tell me was that "this happens sometimes". They couldn't tell me why or how. We found him another wonderful home, a couple who had another conure so I know he was going to get a lot of attention.
But my question is, is this radical 180 degree change in behavior normal? I sooooo want another conure that will let me interact and love him!! But I'm so afraid something will happen again. I'm not asking for guarantees but I'm just wondering if this was a fluke or if this is VERY LIKELY TO HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE? There is a green cheek at the Petsmart I've seen there for about 2 months now. Every time I go in he goes nuts and wants so much love!! I heald him today and he actually turned over on his back and laid in my hand, playing with my fingers! Then he tried to regurgitate to me!!! The lady who works their said he doesn't do that with anyone and that the other sun conure got all the attention. That normally their greencheeks are pretty friendly but this particular one wasn't as much so she couldn't believe how he was acting with me! I know it's probably too good to be true, she could be saying this just to make a sale. But I need other bird owners' advice! Is it a pipe dream that I can own a bird that won't hate me?
P.S. I got a parakeet for my son last april and I spend all my days with him. He is quite the talker and says a ton of cute stuff he learned from Disco the Parakeet. He is a handfed but doesn't like hands. I've been working with him to get more comfortable but he prefers to be left alone and talked to all day - he loves attention just not affection. I miss it! I want a bird that will let me cuddle! Here is a picture of my GCC before he decided I was scum!
Here is his snuggling on his shoulder that I couldn't get him off of!