Maxwells Behavioral problems

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Around spring time Max randomly became scared of me..I don't know why but he wont come close to me unless I have food. I treat him the best I can, give him the best food, keep his cage clean, keep his food fresh, and try to spend time with him everyday, He seems so different than every other bird, He has become fairly quiet since he became scared of me, He is less happy, he doesn't dance to music any more, He doesn't like anyone anymore unless they have food. He doesn't bite very much which is good, But I know he is not supposed to be quiet, barely makes a sound anymore. He only comes to me once or twice a month. He never gave me the chance to try training him, So I really want to sort out his behavior, so I can try training him again..Is there any hope?

Any suggestions would help...I just want the little bird i brought home from the aviary back..
 

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How old is Max? Late winter/early spring can herald the time of year when Max’s hormones are telling him it’s mating season which can bring out all sorts of new and “interesting” behaviours. Happily this will generally only last for a few weeks then he will revert to his everyday personality. When was the last time Max had a health check up by a specialist bird vet? That could be worth doing anyway if he has suddenly become “randomly quiet”. A good bird vet will help you understand the behaviour plus testing blood and poop will rule out any underlying health issues.

Also make sure Max doesn’t have one of those “Happy Hut” snuggle hut type things that seem to be so popular. Not only do they absolutely not need them, but they can encourage hormonal behaviours and aggression in a bird and they can and do often prove deadly to the bird. I don’t know if you’re familiar with the reams of information on the internet about this but hundreds probably thousands of pet birds have been injured or killed either by being hung/strangled by loose threads or have had their intestinal tracts completely blocked by ingesting the tiny synthetic fibres which do not pass through their systems. - so if Max has one, toss it and quick!

PS it’s also helpful if you say where in the world you’re located so we can understand local conditions or even help you find a good vet.
 
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You need a Avain specialist veterinary visit. There are many health issues that could be causing this. Birds hide being sick. That's the very first thing you need to do! Blood work, and fecal gram stain to start with. You need to get a kitchen gram scale and start keeping track of weight. I aslo recommend in warm weather three times a week spending time outside with the burd in a safe travel cage for at least 15 miniuts each time, light shade is ok you don't have to sit with the bird in bright sun. Feed veggies, feed hot chili peppers, bell peppers, romaine lettuce. Do you have other pets in the house? Could a pet, and sadly sometimes a person be harassing him?
 

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He needs time outside of the cage at least four hours a day, if won't sit with you, set up the top of his cage with rope perches and other perches abd toys, abd a food and water dish and let him climb out and explore on his own. Sometimes it's easier to work on training outside of the cage. You can set up a separate area maybe by a different window as a play station/stand as well for him to hang out at. Birds live to be part if the flock, mine have hanging hoops that I attached with a screw in the ceiling and use fishing line to hang down over the breakfast bar. Then we all eat breakfast together, and I allow stealing eggs and toast from my plate, and they have a plate of fresh veggies to eat. You can also do a reboot, and pretend you just brought him home for the first time. Start all the bonding all over again sitting next to the cage and reading your text , the news, or a book out loud to him. Have a certain time you put on the radio band sing and dance with him. Make forage toys. Do you offer baths or spray bottle of baths? But first off as we have said need a veterinary visit!!!!!
 
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I live in Idaho and I have a little dog, she is not causing the problem because he has no issue with her what so ever, He was at an aviary for a week while I was gone on a vacation and he had a health checkup then, He is extremely healthy they told us.
(it's also a very good aviary with extremely knowledgeable people)
He is out of his cage all day, way more than 4 hours, he is allowed full freedom to wander around his cage area, he goes in and out as he gets hungry/tired. it's too cold outside in Idaho right now for him to be out. He had a pretty serious injury at the beginning of last year and has been different ever since. He is not entirely quiet, he squeaks an chirps a little bit every day. I didn't change anything about his surroundings. I am completely confused on to why his behavior changed.


Oh and he is about oh and he is all most three, Can you train birds later in there life? or does it have to be done early in there life?
 
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his bed is a big cylinder plenty big for him to move around, but not too small to make a problem. His cage is pretty big gives him a bunch of room, he usually chills out on a kitchen chair and the couch, he has vegetables and fruit everyday, He would die for safflower and chia seeds, He loves to burrow into blankets. I think this is all normal for birds except the whole being scared of me thing.
 
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He steals our drinking glasses to take baths, he gets a shower on the rare accasion he comes to me, but all in all he gets 1-3 a week.
 
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On a terrible Sunday morning last year we were dog sitting (the last time we ever will)


He tried to fly but his wings had just been trimmed so of course he went plunk onto the ground and the two dogs went for him one big him and picked him up in its mouth and ran out side max was dropped in the grass and I was able to get to him he was losing blood really fast, We were able to stop the bleeding as we called the animal hospital, he had to stay there 24 hours in an oxygenated warmed chamber, once he got home we had to give him a bunch of meds for weeks, and take him to the vet twice a week so his bandages changed, He had to deep puncture wounds from the dogs teeth under his wings. He became scared of me around the same time it happened the year later.
 

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Ooooh poor Max he must’ve been terrified! And you too it probably gives you the horrors just thinking about it! You were lucky not to lose him!

If Max is about three years old he may also be experiencing puberty which can alter a bird’s behaviour. You also mention he has some kind of cylinder as a bed ... really they don’t need a bed for sleeping as such and those kinds of sleeping arrangements can feed into undesirable hormonal behaviours, so it still may be worth your considering getting rid of it.
 

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Just to start the wrong way around ( I always mix up things, most people here are more organized)

* ANY age is a good age to start training a bird.
So do not worry about that. :)
With three years old he is a rather young man.

* Are you sure Max is indeed a male?
(did you do a DNA test)
I am asking because in certain situations males react a bit different from females.
(my male grey tries to feed my ear, my female grey tries to steal food from my mouth when they are hormonal)

That was some scary thing- those injuries.
* Are you sure he has healed completely?
Sometimes (deep) scars can still be painfull, of he may still have a slight infection somewhere-- maybe his digestive tract is still out of whack because all the medication. (Then you could feed him probiotics. They really work well - I had never heard of them , for birds anyway, before I got here. My plucker gets them now.)

Is he still clipped? Of can he fly a bit?

* I agree with LaManuka and probably quite a few others: is he is trying to nest in blankets etc. get rid of that sleeping-cilinder completely.

Nesting behaviour is wonderfulll and quite natural to the bird: but it is really hard to handle/interact with somebody who has sex-on-the-brain 24/7 and may be territorial, not interested in interaction much and, if a female, can get herself eggbound as well.
(one of the reasons you should always try to find out if your bird is a boy or a girl)


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to-do list: find a *real* CAV and get him checked (while you are at it, do a DNA check if you need one), chuck the nesting/sleeping cilinder and just go with the bonding-sticky here on the forumpages.
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You can always claim "reset" and start wth your bird like you 2 have *never* met.
I know is sounds silly, but why not? It is all about changing habbits (what a lot of humans will try the 1st day of the new year anyway ;) )
 
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You're getting good ideas!

Wow... yeah, what an accident! Parrots are so smart and sensitive, and they remember everything! I wonder if he is still traumatized by that horrific dog attack! In which case, it will take time, time and more time to help him trust again.

Great idea about the vet. I forget if I gave you these links already. I hand them out a lot! :) Certified Avian Vets
https://abvp.com/animal-owners/find-an-abvp-specialist/
If none are near you...
Avian Veterinarians
http://www.aav.org/search/custom.asp?id=1803
In my opinion, any of the vets listed here should be better than a regular vet.

Also, here are some basics that a lot of people enjoy and recommend...
http://www.parrotforums.com/general-parrot-information/49144-tips-bonding-building-trust.html
General Parrot Information - Parrot Forum - Parrot Owner's Community
http://goodbirdinc.blogspot.com/2012...n-parrots.html
 

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I guess I missed this, lol...What species of parrot is Max? I skimmed through here but didn't see it mentioned, only that he is 3 years-old. Also, was Max ever DNA-tested for gender, or are you only assuming he's a boy? It does make quite a large difference with regard to hormonal behavior, that's why I ask. Also, were you his first owner? Was he hand-raised and tame/able to be handled when you first brought him home? Did he used to interact with you differently before this sudden change last spring? And as far as the "dog incident" and what time period that occurred with relation to when Max's personality changed, which came first?

I appreciate that you boarded him at an Aviary and they gave him a "health check", but whenever a sudden and dramatic behavioral/personality change occurs in a bird, the very first thing that needs to be done is a complete "Wellness-Exam" by either a Certified Avian Vet or an Avian Specialist Vet (no "Exotics Vets"), and this Wellness-Exam needs to include a Fecal Culture and Microscopy/Gram-Stain, and even more importantly it needs to include routine Blood-Work (especially if Max has never had baseline Blood-Work done ever before). Captive/Pet parrots should have a full Wellness-Exam that includes the basics (Fecal and baseline Blood-Work) once a year at the least, so that you have comparison blood values for when something like this happens...Also, what were the specific injuries that Max obtained from the dog-attack? This could be very important to specifically look at, because it's very common for permanent nerve damage to be the cause of chronic/constant pain, and it's very likely that Max did retain some permanent nerve damage from the dog bites/injuries. This could very well be the cause of his personality change, and the only way to really figure this out is to have a CAV prescribe Max some pain-medication/anti-inflammatory medication and see if his personality changes at all for the better while he's on the pain-meds. This isn't at all unusual to try, the same thing is often first tried with parrots who suddenly start plucking, they are put on a pain-medication and if the plucking stops while on the pain medication but then starts again once the pain medication is stopped, then they know that the bird is plucking due to physical pain and not a psychological/mental issue. And physical problems such as constant pain/discomfort/itching are much easier to treat then most psychological/mental issues in birds, such as depression. So you should also discuss with the CAV the possibility of prescribing Max a mild pain-killer, such as Tramadol, or a very effective anti-inflammatory, such as Metacam, for a trial-period to see if this changes his personality/behavior back to the way he used to be. If so, then you have your answer and can move forward from there, but at least you can stop the pain he would have been in since the Spring. Unfortunately they can't just tell us "Daddy I hurt" or "Mommy I'm itchy all the time", so it's necessary that we assume they are in pain/discomfort of some kind when they are acting differently than they usually are, because obviously the first thing we need to do is stop their pain...And with a dog-attack like Max endured, it's not unusual for them to suffer injuries that we can't see on an X-Ray, such as nerve damage, subtle spinal injuries, etc.

The big deal with having a CAV do a Fecal and routine Blood-Work is because obviously we all know that all birds possess an innate, natural instinct to hide any and all outward signs of illness and pain for as long as they possibly can, as a survival instinct. Usually by the time we as peope notice that something is wrong with our birds, they have been sick for a long, long time, often months and months...Something that is often forgotten or not spoken about is that sometimes when birds are purposely hiding outward signs/symptoms of illness and/or pain, it comes-out as a personality or behavioral change, rather than a clear sign/symptom of illness or pain, such as lethargy, loss of appetite, constantly being fluffed-up, etc. So it is quite possible that Max is suffering from some type of illness/infection/disease, or residual pain from a past injury, that is being expressed as a personality/behavioral change. The only way to know for sure is to have routine, baseline Blood-Work done to look for infection, anemia, liver function, kidney function,
nutritional deficiencies, etc., and then to also check his GI Tract for Fungi (yeast), negative Bacteria, a lack of healthy, normal Bacteria, etc.
You said his behavioral/personality change started suddenly, out of nowhere, and just this past spring, so that timeline is not at all out of line with some physical cause at this point. It's quite possible that Max is in some type of constant/chronic pain, discomfort, itching, etc., and this is why he suddenly started distancing himself from you/people,
not wanting to be touched, handled, or generally "bothered" because he doesn't feel well or due to pain/discomfort.
Routine Blood-Work is easy, non-invasive, inexpensive, and should be done once a year anyway, so even if they find nothing wrong physically with Max, you'll have normal, baseline blood-work for future comparison, and you'll also get the overall-picture of his liver and kidney functions, how his diet is treating his body, etc.

This should always be the very first thing you do whenever your bird starts behaving/acting differently or has a sudden personality change that doesn't correct itself, simply due to the innate survival-instincts that all birds possess, and the fact that it's not unusual for them to hide pain/discomfort/constant itching, etc. for months and months to well over a year.
Just think about how we would be acting if we were in constant, steady pain, discomfort, itching, etc. We wouldn't want to be touched or bothered by anyone either...

***If the Fecal Culture and Blood-Work show nothing physically causing Max's personality/behavioral change, or if you try putting him on a pain-medication for a short period of time (Metacam would be the drug of choice because it's both a pain medication and an anti-inflammatory), then you have to assume it was some type of environmental issue/change that caused it...Since the change in Max's behavior and personality was so sudden and out of nowhere last Spring, and has continued since then, try to think back to right around that time, specifically the month that this change started, and try to remember if there were any changes to/in your home or with the people who live in your home. I know it's hard to remember every little detail that happened last Spring, but with birds even very tiny changes to their environment, their diet, their regular, daily routine, or with/within their "Flock" can cause exactly what has been going on with Max. Little, tiny changes that we as people would think of as being totally insignificant can totally up-end a parrot's world and cause this type of sudden personality change...So any changes that may have occurred to especially his cage, his stands, his toys, or any of his "territory" would be the first thing to think about, or a change of the location of his cage/stands etc. Then move-on to his daily diet, did you change food brands or types? Did you change the types of veggies/fruit he normally gets? Then move on to your household dynamic...Did anyone move-out, did anyone move-in, did you start using different cleaners, detergents, etc. in your house around that time, etc. Then how about to your personal schedule (I'm assuming you were/are Max's "person" in the house)...Did you change your work-schedule, did the normal time you spent with Max change, did you start spending less time at home, did you bring anyone new into Max's life (meaning into your life), etc. Did you add any new pets to your home? For example, even if you don't see the dog bothering Max, meaning the dog doesn't pay any attention to Max and Max doesn't pay any attention to the dog, that doesn't in any way mean that the dog isn't Max's issue. Parrots have the intelligence of a 3-4 year-old human child, and they possess the ability to reason and use logic. They are also extremely emotionally-driven,
just like people are. So just because the dog and Max don't outwardly "pay any attention to each other", that doesn't at all mean that the dog isn't the issue for Max.
Think about it in-terms of how we as people behave when something is bothering us. We often hide our true feelings about something for a long, long time, yet the people around us and close to us know that something is bothering us, just because they notice we are acting differently than normal. However, even though our loved ones know something is bothering us/wrong with us, they often have no idea what, and when we finally decide to break-down and tell them what it is that has been bothering us, they are often very surprised and would have never guessed that the source of our problem is what it is...The same goes for parrots, and emotions such as jealousy, envy, and the need for dominance and to be at the top of the pecking-order in their home and among their "Flock" often drives their behavior and forms their outward personality. This is why parrots often start plucking, self-mutilating, biting, attacking, etc. whenever a new pet or person is brought into their "Flock", because they are viewed as competition.
 
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ive been trying to sit down with him and give him his favorite seeds which he does anything for, unless im sitting with them.. :( after a few seeds he gets scared and runs away.. He is a flighted bird does that have anything to do with his behavior?
 
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Oh I didnt see the page 2, Okay yes he is Male for sure I was his fIrst owner, Brought him home at 8 weeks old He is a yellow sided green cheek conure, He would stay with me every moment of the day before the injury, then he stoped he started behaving this way about a year after the injury. Nothing has changed what so ever in his cage outside his cage or in the house, No one new has come into our life. The day he became scared of me, I had walked into the house after working out in the garage cutting some metal, I had a protective visor, big ear muffs and gloves on. I will try the blood test thing.
 

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I see 3 extremely likely issues converging into the behaviors you describe:

1. Residual pain from the dog attack and possibly a residual low grade infection. This MUST be checked out by a CAV (certified avian vet, not a general vet, not and exotics vet). A bird specialist can determine if there is ongoing pain or infection and determine the best course of treatment/pain management.

2. You say you were the one to stop the dog attack correct? Unfortunately, in the confusion of the attack, your bird may have associated YOU with the pain and fear he was feeling instead of the dog. He may also feel some form of anger/abandonment that you didn't protect him. Due to the continuing trauma and confusion of multiple vet visits, medications etc... this could have caused a delay in when he "started to fear you" and the attack. These kind of psychological scars can be very difficult to overcome in a bird and will likely require a huge abundance of work and patience.

3. Age 2, in late winter-spring is the average age conures experience sexual hormones for the first time. This is often an extremely difficult situation for owners (bird puberty) and compound it with a serious trauma and you have a recipe for all manners of unusual behavioral problems. You cannot discount the fact that nature likely plays a role here as your baby becomes a sexually mature adult bird.
 

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I would say don’t clip, as it would only distress him further. Clipping wouldn’t stop him retreating from you and could possibly injure his breastbone or legs if he is accustomed to flying and suddenly made a hard landing. That would distress you too to see it happen.

The injuries he sustained during the dog attack do sound pretty awful and he may indeed be suffering some kind of chronic pain or trauma from that. I agree your best bet from here is to take him to a CAV for a full assessment. I wish you and darling little Max all the very best!
 
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I will have him checked as soon as I can... I would hate for him to have been feeling pain and me not ever noticing :(
 

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I will have him checked as soon as I can... I would hate for him to have been feeling pain and me not ever noticing :(

Don't feel bad. Birds are extremely good at hiding pain and illness. As prey animals, showing any sign of weakness increases the chance they will be eaten by something, so instinctually they hide it. It typically has to be a pretty horrific injury or extreme illness to see any noticeable signs a bird is in pain or sick. My bird hid an infection so serious it damaged his kidney and the only sign something was off was he appeared to have an itchy butt (seriously, I felt so silly taking him to the vet for such a thing and my husband was convinced it was all in my head).

I wouldn't say you need to book an 'emergency visit but definitely get him in as soon as possible and be sure to explain to the receptionist the reason for the visit so the vet can determine how urgent of an issue it might be.
 
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Is it normal for conures to be aggressive towards strangers? When I have friends over he tries to attack them, same with really young kids.
 

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