Literally everything is deadly?

July

New member
Jan 7, 2020
6
7
Hi there, new birdie mom and new to the forum. We recently adopted a seventh month old green-cheeked conure and I was reading through posts about the toxicity of virtually every single common household item, and now I’m in a bit of a panic. According to everything I’ve read, nothing is safe. I really have to buy all brand new, bird-safe pots and pans? Where would I even find those? I can only clean my bathroom and kitchen with vinegar? I can’t ever burn a candle again? Can’t ever use perfume? Can’t shampoo my carpets? I’m aware that birds have much more fragile respiratory systems than humans, but considering the amount of constant pollution, smog, and exhaust that happens outside to “wild” birds, is there honestly no threshold for household pets?

When my husband was young, he had three parakeets for roughly 12-15 years, and his parents absolutely never “bird proofed” their home. According to them, they never did anything different and the birds were fine.

A high school friend still has her cockatiel, now about 11 years old. Their household burns incense, candles, uses cleaning products, etc.

I know I shouldn’t judge based off anecdotal evidence, and I’m very sure the common answer will be “well, if they didn’t use that stuff, then their birds would live longer.” Which is acceptable. I guess my question is, realistically what is the actual likelihood of our bird dropping dead because I mopped the floor with Lysol? Would opening the windows during cleaning help?

Thanks in advance!
 

chris-md

Well-known member
Feb 6, 2010
4,349
2,119
Maryland - USA
Parrots
Parker - male Eclectus

Aphrodite - red throated conure (RIP)
Hello and welcome!

Let’s start by not hyperbolizing the situation. Not everything in the house is deadly to the birds. Let’s set that out of your mind so you can understand more clearly.

we must understand that personal standards of animal care and husbandry have increased from when your husband had parakeets. Back mid 20th century many people were keeping dogs outside a lot of the time, with just dog houses for protection. We learned and grew. They weren’t quite the baby replacements we project them to be Nowadays. We also didn’t take the for annul exams like we do today.

Smoking isn’t addictive, right? Second hand smoke doesnt cause cancer, right?

When you know better, you do better. Learn and grow.

That said, yes, a lot of stuff truly is dangerous. Whether it’s imminent threat or longer term danger of repeated, oconstant exposure is another question.

However, compromises can be made, just be cautious and judicious about what compromises you make and how you make them. I have no compunction using harsher cleaning chemicals so long as the bird is in another part of the house. And don’t let him around where I cleaned until the smell has dissipated.

That said, I won’t use harsh chemicals on bird related items like toys or cage.

Candles? I’m sure once a month is fine. We occasionally burn incense, once or twice a month with no ill effects. Daily? Absolutely not.

Where you absolutely need to be careful with are with Teflon fumes from nonstick cookware and other sources. I wouldn’t compromise there, that can kill your bird in 3 minutes from 40 feet away. Dangerous and deadly.
 
Last edited:

noodles123

Well-known member
Jul 11, 2018
8,145
472
Parrots
Umbrella Cockatoo- 15? years old..I think?
No, literally NOT "everything" is deadly. Healthy, natural things without chemicals of artificial scents or treatments are fine for the most part..UNLESS we are talking about scented oils so strong that they impact a human nervous system..

You are referencing AN experience.
1. This is flawed logic...
2. Many birds have died from less...
3. Just please understand that it is serious...Don't get a bird if you can't- a mammal is easier in terms of lifestyle and behavior and a bird is FAR LESS convenient. Love candles so much that you can't give them up? There is no way you are ready for the commitment required by a bird.

Have you ever met a 90 year old who smokes a pack a day an drinks heavily? I have...They are lucky.

I can't.....Please understand that I hate the word "triggered" but this question takes me there .... I know you don't know me or any of that and this was probably innocent--
honestly, it isn't you--it is this same mindset that seems to predominate uneducated bird-ownership (my parents were guilty too)...This mindset is why so many of these sad birds suffer---I literally just posted about this mindset this morning (and then people use childhood experiences to continue to neglect). <--- I am not saying any of it was intentional, but it was NOT OKAY.

Ask any CAV and they will tell you that he lucked out..and, also---a lot of that stuff is really bad for you too. Watch "STINK!" on Netflix and then conduct your own research if doubt remains.
I am not a hippie and I LOVE chemicals, but I don't use them with my bird in the same house (wish I could)-- that is like knowing you have a kid with asthma, smoking in their face and being like, "hmmm girl, you gonna make it today?!"
YES- scented products are deadly and my teachers' aide just lost a bird from air freshener and a 2nd from carpet shampoo (no joke)..

When it comes to Teflon/PTFE/PFOA/PFCs-- that stuff is THE BIGGEST THREAT to birds in a home (on any floor, doors shut or not, pan used before or not----there are FAR too any variables--but there are documented cases in academic settings of deaths that occurred BELOW temperatures of 375 F)
 
Last edited:

birdy.929

New member
Jan 7, 2020
9
1
Parrots
Birdy - Lovebird, Salem - Green Cheek Conure
Keeping the birds away from candles, cleaners, and incense is the important thing. You can still use these products but you must use precaution by ventilating and keeping them away. They can all be dangerous but as long as you make sure your bird can't be exposed to it he should be fine. When you use cleaners, candles, etc. , just make sure that there aren't any traces of it if you bring your bird into that room. Lastly, as long as your pots and pans aren't coated with PFTE or Teflon they are bird safe. If you need to, you can look up "bird-safe cookware" and you can find articles on the best ones to use.

I hope this helped!
 
OP
J

July

New member
Jan 7, 2020
6
7
  • Thread Starter
  • Thread starter
  • #5
Interesting that already there are conflicting answers. Precisely why I asked in such a candid manner. I assumed beforehand that it largely depended on frequency and proximity, as with any pollutant effect on any creature. I certainly don’t plan on spraying Febreeze in the bird’s face or soaking their toys in bleach, I just wanted to get a better idea of what kind of limits to establish. For example, the candles. If I burn a candle for two hours in the living room while we have guests over and the bird is in his “hideaway” cage down in the basement... I have some people saying, “No, absolutely not” and some saying it’s fine. (Across different websites and forums, etc.)
 

noodles123

Well-known member
Jul 11, 2018
8,145
472
Parrots
Umbrella Cockatoo- 15? years old..I think?
You will find that a lot-- PLEASE call a board-certified avian vet (not just an exotics vet who sees birds) and ask them.

Yes, you will find varied opinions (all of which can be clarified by consulting a TRUE board certified avian vet-CAV)...BUT, the thing is, all of these unhealthy practices wear them down and cause them to be more open to illness/infection or even death. Certain killers are deadly within a short time. Others (incense, candles etc can---but don't always-- take years---like human drug/alcohol abuse).
 
Last edited:

noodles123

Well-known member
Jul 11, 2018
8,145
472
Parrots
Umbrella Cockatoo- 15? years old..I think?
Last thing-- just because someone survived something or others did it before doesn't make it okay when evidence/science stands in opposition:
For instance--
"The 'rule of thumb' has been said to derive from the belief that English law allowed a man to beat his wife with a stick so long as it is was no thicker than his thumb.

In 1782, Judge Sir Francis Buller is reported as having made this legal ruling and in the following year James Gillray published a satirical cartoon attacking Buller and caricaturing him as 'Judge Thumb'. The cartoon shows a man beating a fleeing woman and Buller carrying two bundles of sticks. The caption reads "thumbsticks - for family correction: warranted lawful!"

Children also should be "seen and not heard".
 
Last edited:

chris-md

Well-known member
Feb 6, 2010
4,349
2,119
Maryland - USA
Parrots
Parker - male Eclectus

Aphrodite - red throated conure (RIP)
It’s not conflicting, per se. It’s simply how you approach risk.

It’s like I said: somethings are immediate risks, Teflon being one of them.

Others are moderate risk like burning essential oils.

Yet Others are of long term concern, like candles or anything burning (wood or incense).long term so long as it’s uncommon. If you’re burning open fires daily with your bird in the room, or are constantly burning many candles a day, then it becomes a bigger problem.

Where you’ll get disagreement is what constituted an immediate danger. Purists will always argue burning anything is an immediate threat because bird respiratory system is so sensitive.

Pragmatists such as myself will tell you repeat this experiment as many times as you want: burn a candle with a bird nearby. 100% of the time, repeated thousands of times with thousands of birds, it won’t kill or hurt the bird; once a month occasional burning a candle in a ventilated living room? You’ll never find anything to support that to be an imminent threat to life.

It’s merely a question of which camp you fell into: abundance of caution or pragmatism. Theres Nothing ever wrong with risk aversion where it comes to the life of an animal - the purist view. Many of us believe that A more pragmatic, judicious risk management tactic gets you the same results if you know what you’re doing.
 
Last edited:
OP
J

July

New member
Jan 7, 2020
6
7
  • Thread Starter
  • Thread starter
  • #9
Thank you for your patience, everyone! As well as the speedy replies. This was an enlightening experience and we will definitely take it to heart. Our cheeky little boy thanks you greatly!
 

Laurasea

Well-known member
Aug 2, 2018
12,593
10,702
USA
Parrots
Full house
The thing with candles is that wax and toxic stuff can build up. They even warm humans if this, and your bird is made of air, air in hollow bones, airsacs through out the body, so more surface area for all those chemicals to come in contact with in a very small body. Purfume and lotion can leave traces on their feathers irritating them, getting preened off and ingested by them, putting strain on their liver which processes toxins.... Their can be an accumulated effect over time.... Trace pesticides on fruit and veggies can kill birds..
Their are so many birds that are just found dead in cage..... Are some of them from households toxins I think yes. Melted plastic on a burner all most killed my birds.....

I do use cleaning products in the bathroom, with ventilation and door closed.

You really do have to be so careful
 
Last edited:

Kiwibird

Well-known member
Jul 12, 2012
9,539
111
Parrots
1 BFA- Kiwi. Hatch circa 98', forever home with us Dec. 08'
IMO, the biggest and most non-negotiable risk is non-stick pots, pans, bakeware or other products that contain teflon (including some appliances). Teflon toxicosis is deadly and there is no way to tell if a pot/pan/other is off gassing until the bird drops dead. Even if you've been using the item for years without issue. Finding bird safe cookware is as simple as switching to uncoated stainless steel (numerous options in all price ranges) or cast iron (can go from dirt cheap to the fancier and costly 'Le Creuset' enameled type). Some people use the newer ceramic coatings, but I personally don't want to replace my pots and pans every few years due to chipped coatings, even if they aren't harmful to birds. A quality set of stainless or cast iron will lat a lifetime.

Honestly, I've not heard of birds dropping dead immediately from a candle or room spray type product, but using them often around your bird can cause long term respiratory issues. Just like smoking one cigarette won't give you cancer or COPD, but smoking a pack a day for 60 years probably will. Candles, room fresheners and other strongly scented products are the next major items of concern IMO. I think most people are smart enough to move their bird out of the room if they need to use strong, unpleasant smelling chemicals like bleach etc... every so often (you should be able to do most tasks with vinegar/water/baking soda though:)) but the stuff that is meant to "smell good" is used constantly and is dangerous for birds to be exposed to constantly. Theres no telling what chemicals are in products like fabreeze or a chocolate cupcake scented candle or whatever. In fact, I argue humans need to be wary of such products too. There is a reason they used to use canaries in coal mines- they'd drop dead of toxic gases before humans would giving people time to evacuate. Consider smelly products being harmful to birds a modern day canary in the coal mine situation.
 
Last edited:

charmedbyekkie

New member
May 24, 2018
1,148
82
US/SG
Parrots
Cairo the Ekkie!
I remember I read what the Association of Avian Vets shared about how birds die from exposure: their lungs start bleeding and they die within 20 minutes, so by the time you see them react, it's already too late.

I'm quite risk-adverse, tbh. I know people who have used products that are listed as dangerous, but anecdotally have no problem. Until one day years down the road, their birds (plural) die from something they did every single day.

I know I couldn't handle that feeling of guilt.

I honestly clean most of my house with F10 (veterinary-grade disinfectant that's safe to use around birds). Anytime we actually use man-made chemicals (we're talking mopping the floor), Cairo is out of the house for the full day (and that's including hours after I have rinsed the floor multiple times). So that's my level of risk management.

If you feel comfortable with taking risks and can handle that feeling of anything goes wrong, then that's your personal decision. I can't do it personally.
 

noodles123

Well-known member
Jul 11, 2018
8,145
472
Parrots
Umbrella Cockatoo- 15? years old..I think?
IMO, the biggest and most non-negotiable risk is non-stick pots, pans, bakeware or other products that contain teflon (including some appliances). Teflon toxicosis is deadly and there is no way to tell if a pot/pan/other is off gassing until the bird drops dead. Even if you've been using the item for years without issue. Finding bird safe cookware is as simple as switching to uncoated stainless steel (numerous options in all price ranges) or cast iron (can go from dirt cheap to the fancier and costly 'Le Creuset' enameled type). Some people use the newer ceramic coatings, but I personally don't want to replace my pots and pans every few years due to chipped coatings, even if they aren't harmful to birds. A quality set of stainless or cast iron will lat a lifetime.

Honestly, I've not heard of birds dropping dead immediately from a candle or room spray type product, but using them often around your bird can cause long term respiratory issues. Just like smoking one cigarette won't give you cancer or COPD, but smoking a pack a day for 60 years probably will. Candles, room fresheners and other strongly scented products are the next major items of concern IMO. I think most people are smart enough to move their bird out of the room if they need to use strong, unpleasant smelling chemicals like bleach etc... every so often (you should be able to do most tasks with vinegar/water/baking soda though:)) but the stuff that is meant to "smell good" is used constantly and is dangerous for birds to be exposed to constantly. Theres no telling what chemicals are in products like fabreeze or a chocolate cupcake scented candle or whatever. In fact, I argue humans need to be wary of such products too. There is a reason they used to use canaries in coal mines- they'd drop dead of toxic gases before humans would giving people time to evacuate. Consider smelly products being harmful to birds a modern day canary in the coal mine situation.

Teflon/ptfe/pfoa/pfcs are insanely dangerous...the others are not healthy, but not necessarily an instant death sentence--although it is a REAL risk.
The thing is, with teflon and related chemicals, there is none of that wiggle room once it off-gasses. It is too unpredictable to trust and it is VERY potent.
 

Inger

Well-known member
Parrot of the Month 🏆
Mar 20, 2017
3,395
826
Everett, WA
Parrots
Bumble - Pacific (or Celestial) Parrotlet hatched 02/19/17
Interesting that already there are conflicting answers. Precisely why I asked in such a candid manner. I assumed beforehand that it largely depended on frequency and proximity, as with any pollutant effect on any creature. I certainly don’t plan on spraying Febreeze in the bird’s face or soaking their toys in bleach, I just wanted to get a better idea of what kind of limits to establish. For example, the candles. If I burn a candle for two hours in the living room while we have guests over and the bird is in his “hideaway” cage down in the basement... I have some people saying, “No, absolutely not” and some saying it’s fine. (Across different websites and forums, etc.)



Birds are flock animals-they need to be with their flock (you). Stashing him in the basement when you have company is likely to make him unhappy and bring on unwanted behaviors.

I used to burn smelly stuff in my house constantly. Loved it. Have not used any candles, wax melts, etc. since I brought Bumble home and I don’t miss it. In fact now I find that my eyes start to burn when I’m around strong fragrances.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
 

chris-md

Well-known member
Feb 6, 2010
4,349
2,119
Maryland - USA
Parrots
Parker - male Eclectus

Aphrodite - red throated conure (RIP)
burning candles or spraying febreeze constitutes a real risk of instant death?? Even on first exposure? You’d be hard pressed to support that statement. You even just said they were long term concerns?

One should be careful of such overarching, unsubstantiated claims.
 

JWF1602

Member
Jul 7, 2019
39
35
Fountain Hills, Arizona
Parrots
Cinnamon GCC - Camila
Cinnamon GCC - Izzie
Pineapple GCC - Ania
I personally have 4 GCCs. After the first, I ditched the no stick pans and bought stainless steel. I have never looked back.

If you are looking for alternative cleaners, look no further than Mrs Meyers. If you buy on Amazon, the prices are not bad. Especially for the price of mind.

858386f1bba199641c142de60f138d4a.jpg


There are lot of things you don’t think of that can be harmful to the birds like burning dinner as well. Just use common sense and get the birds away until the odor dissipates. If you must burn candles or put on perfume, make sure they are not near. Use a little common sense and your little dinosaur will live a happy, healthy life.

f03ca781cd7fd1c4af37cc88f5af8c2e.jpg




Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
 

noodles123

Well-known member
Jul 11, 2018
8,145
472
Parrots
Umbrella Cockatoo- 15? years old..I think?
burning candles or spraying febreeze constitutes a real risk of instant death?? Even on first exposure? You’d be hard pressed to support that statement. You even just said they were long term concerns?

One should be careful of such overarching, unsubstantiated claims.

I also NEVER said a bird would DIE on first exposure..It is like unprotected *you know* or chain-smoking....Not even sure if you are talking to me.
I'd never suggest you try it with your bird....would you risk it?
If you would, we are very different in our life choices-- Noodles is like a kid to me. If I for 1 second thought that I may have caused her death (or gradual decline) I would be VERY upset...Understatement of the year.
I could volunteer a lot of information, but basically, I believe in protection of any kind--I do not take risks if the benefit would be less than the loss...That applies to everything in my life..

BUT--FABREEZE KILLED MY ASSISTANT'S BIRD!!!! NOT MAKING THIS UP!!! It was confirmed--she volunteered this to the class without me even knowing--all I said was, air fresheners can kill birds/make sure you know WHY a bird is dead when it dies.

It WAS the air freshener for her daughter's birds and it didn't even take a CAV to confirm it...

It took 3 years.
 
Last edited:

SailBoat

Supporting Member
Jul 10, 2015
17,646
10,010
Western, Michigan
Parrots
DYH Amazon
Truly great topic that is loosing its direction and its informational base!

The foundation of an argument for or against doing 'whatever' is just how quickly the effects display... The longer the time period, the less one believes after all it didn't cause blindness, skin irritation, loss of hearing, all the way to death that moment. But, we have found that time and exposure will combined to cause an effect.

The sad reality is that with few exceptions, most things take longer than a single moderate to light dose.

Over the last fifty plus years there has been vast changes in what and how we cook and what we eat. Our homes have undergone massive changes in construction and reconstruction to such a great degree that our new home 'requires' an air exchange system, whereas our past home leaked air to such a rate that still air rarely occurred...

So what!!!

Point being, the vast majority of the things that we know will cause death in birds can be, with little effort, simply avoided. What happens when we eliminate that long list of problem things?

Well in the vast majority of cases Nothing!

That all said, we are living in a heavy chemical world that like it or not, our Parrots and us Humans are not designed to deal with on a daily bases.

Once again; So What!!!

The vast majority we do not need and have because of marketing tricks that have us buying hundreds of dollars of Stuff!

Candles and other like products are the most common cause of apartment and home fires.

Etc, etc, etc...
 

GaleriaGila

Well-known member
Parrot of the Month 🏆
May 14, 2016
15,045
8,742
Cleveland area
Parrots
The Rickeybird, 38-year-old Patagonian Conure
I am appreciating this discussion... everybody is discussing openly and passionately, and nobody is taking their toys and going home in a huff. Thanks, all.

I am a self-acknowledged paranoiac when it comes to things I love: I am endlessly, obnoxiously worried and worrisome about hazards, risky behaviors, and things that go bump in the night. My ol' man is quite the devil-may-care opposite whose favorite expression is "nothing's gonna happen!" The bird takes after HIM!! And it's pretty much been YOURS TRULY against THOSE TWO, for a long time.

Anyway, I enjoyed reading this thread.
 

dhraiden

Member
Jul 14, 2015
603
23
Queens NY
Parrots
Green Cheek Conure (Mochi)
Gold Capped Conure (Mango)
The world is enough of a chaotic, confusing place without making it worse on yourself.


Don't use chemical laden sprays around or in the immediate vicinity of your bird. Ditto for burning substances that produce fumes and/or smoke. Don't bring them into areas where those things have been used recently. Wipe things down with hot water, salt, lemon juice, vinegar. Use the Meyers products, or 7th generation, or any of the other now innumerable brands that purport to be free of PFOAs/Sulfates/harsh chemicals/added scents/etc...and contact manufacturer's with your concerns. Live your life and enjoy the company of your avian companion.
 

Most Reactions

Latest posts

Top