Extremely possessive Eclectus

Heisenburd

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Hey all! I know some of you are familiar with my story about Louie the neglected Eclectus. He's settled in very well and has bonded to me heavily. It feels like he KNOWS I'm the one that saved him.

I have had a few possessive birds before, and our African Grey is the same way over my husband. So I just give her space, especially when they spend time together. It's never been an issue for me, but my husband tries to keep certain behaviors at bay lest she lay eggs. (He's afraid she'll egg bind)

Luckily, Louie is a male. But since I brought him home, I've made sure to give him quiet time to settle and I'm bringing him out a few times a day for a few hours and he just clings to me. He wont leave the area I'm in and he has already started to exhibit courting behavior toward me. He's bobbing, trying to allofeed me (leaving puke hunks in my eyebrows rofl) and he has become VERY possessive of our space. If my husband or roommate come anywhere near me, he growls and lunges at them. He even punished me once for my husband coming too close. Now, he's only been here a few days and these are very bonded behaviors. I can only imagine what he'll do if I don't find a way to deter it a bit.

I'm honored he likes me, but what should I do to curb some of this behavior? He is my first Eclectus. He was born in 1990, if that matters. I figured he was done with his wacky teenage hormones. Lol.

Any advice would be appreciated!
 

solrac13

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Electus vosmaeri, male
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Hey all! I know some of you are familiar with my story about Louie the neglected Eclectus. He's settled in very well and has bonded to me heavily. It feels like he KNOWS I'm the one that saved him.

I have had a few possessive birds before, and our African Grey is the same way over my husband. So I just give her space, especially when they spend time together. It's never been an issue for me, but my husband tries to keep certain behaviors at bay lest she lay eggs. (He's afraid she'll egg bind)

Luckily, Louie is a male. But since I brought him home, I've made sure to give him quiet time to settle and I'm bringing him out a few times a day for a few hours and he just clings to me. He wont leave the area I'm in and he has already started to exhibit courting behavior toward me. He's bobbing, trying to allofeed me (leaving puke hunks in my eyebrows rofl) and he has become VERY possessive of our space. If my husband or roommate come anywhere near me, he growls and lunges at them. He even punished me once for my husband coming too close. Now, he's only been here a few days and these are very bonded behaviors. I can only imagine what he'll do if I don't find a way to deter it a bit.

I'm honored he likes me, but what should I do to curb some of this behavior? He is my first Eclectus. He was born in 1990, if that matters. I figured he was done with his wacky teenage hormones. Lol.

Any advice would be appreciated!

i AM AFRAID that is the way they are please keep posting,,,,, :green2:
 

Anansi

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It will take time and patience. All you can really do is work exhaustively on socialization and make sure not to encourage any courting behavior. Any time he starts actively regurgitating for you, you should put him down (on a stand or something near you) and step away for a bit. Basically giving him time to cool off.

Whenever he lunges at your husband or roommate, you should tell him "no" in a firm and even voice. If he persists, you should put him on timeout. (You specifically.) And after 10 or 15 minutes, allow either your husband or roommate (whoever was the intended victim of the lunge) to be the good guy and let him back out of the cage. If Louie steps up nicely, the "good guy" should reward him with a treat.

Another thing is to give your husband and roommate lots of time with your ekkie while you aren't in the room. This time should be filled with lots of bribery in the form of his favorite treats.

I see that your original post was from over a month ago. I'm sorry no one saw it before it was bumped up today, but if you still need the advice I hope this helps.

The process will take time, but you have to make sure and be as consistent as possible.
 

Mariss

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I have the same problem with my 13 year old Senegal, I rescued her 2 years ago.
And well. I have to keep her feathers clipped, because she attacks EVERYONE who comes in the room where I am.
I still live at home, and my parents and my sister are seriously scared of her.

Let's give an example why they are scared of her.
I had the extremely smart idea that my dad was going to hold her with an oven glove, because, she can't get through it, right?
Well. I was right. But that little bugger knew it... So she jumped (She is a far jumper) to the other arm, and tried to bite him.

I am so sorry that I am not any help. But you are not alone haha
 

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