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kq_fan

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I am so sad and with a heavy heart have to say we will be getting rid of Sonic and a few other pets due to family health problems. I will probably not be attending the forum for a while, I will be busy taking care of my mother. Cancer is so hard to deal with, but I will have Lilo and she will comfort me in this time of pain. Thanks for reading and have a good day.
 

Taw5106

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Hugs your way. I know this is extremely hard for everyone involved.
 

Allee

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I'm so sorry to hear this. Cancer is devastating, not only for those who have it but for everyone who loves them. Have you considered a support group, they aren't right for everyone but sometimes it's nice to talk with those who understand.

I'm sorry you had to make such a hard decision about your pets, I hope you find good homes for them. I'm glad you are keeping Lilo. Hugs and best wishes to you and your family.
 

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Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. You have friends here if you need them.
 

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I'm so sorry to hear this :(. That is devastating news about your mother. Big hugs to you, stay strong for her. I'm glad Lilo will be there to comfort you.
 
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Thank you so much everyone. I will be around but not too active due to all the work. Allee: Thanks, we are in a support group and it is so good to have them there :)
 

SilverSage

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I wish I could hug you and tell you it will be alright. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I know how dedicated you are to sonic, and I just want to say GOOD FOR YOU for helping him work through his challenges. Sometimes we want to be the forever home, but we are really just getting our babies ready for the next good home. The work you have done with him will protect him as he moves on, because he has learned how to better interact with humans. I will be praying for your family. Feel free to reach out to me via private message if you ever have any questions but don't feel like posting a thread.
 

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I am sorry you have to go through that. My daughter is growing her hair out for locks of love for the second time. I am about to have my tail cut off for the third time.
 

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*hugs* I'm so sorry.
 

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I am so sorry to hear your bad news. I know in what place you are mentally and emotionally. Both my parents had cancer and I took care of them in my home until the end. You will have many questions; ask your health-care workers, ask me. Unfortunately I will know just about all the answers. I wish you courage and patience. Can someone care for your pets? I'm too far away or I would. It would be nice if you could get them back! Hugs. Many.
 

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I am so very sorry for what you are going through. My father had cancer, and I know how difficult it is watching a loved one go through that struggle. The fact that you are there for your mother and doing all you can to help her through this will likely do more to bolster her resolve than even you realize. So much of the success in fighting cancer comes from the patient's state of mind, and it's easier to fight hard when you know you're not doing so alone.

I'm sorry you're faced with rehoming some of your pets, but under the circumstances I completely understand why you have to.

I'll be keeping you and your mother in my prayers.
 
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Thank you everyone, you are all so comforting. I am so sorry to hear about how many of you have had parents or family members go through cancer! Im so sorry for those of you who have lost someone dear to them to this sickness. This weekend Sonic will be put on Craigslist! I am horrified to say Craigslist but he is not my parrot, so I have no say in the matter. So I pray he gets a good home eho will keep him. He is a hard bird to have and only someone who loves parrots and understands all he needs is love and TLC, then they will be the pest Parronts for him. But thank you everyone who is praying and thinking about us, that makes us comforted :) If I will be around and have questions, I will contact you guys who said I can ask them questions. Thanks so much!
 

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I am so sorry for what you're going through. Sonic could get a wonderful home from CL...lots of people who are wonderful parronts get their birds form CL.
Sending you prayers and hugs.
 

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I'm so sorry you and your family is going through this :( my heart and prayers go out to you, and I hope your babies find good homes [emoji173]️
 

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I'm very sorry to know your mother and family are terribly challenged by such a malevolent disease. You are on the right course for the best reasons. One day you will look back and at least feel comfort for your selfless sacrifices.

I hope your mission of rehoming goes well with loving homes for all.
 

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Thank you everyone, you are all so comforting. I am so sorry to hear about how many of you have had parents or family members go through cancer! Im so sorry for those of you who have lost someone dear to them to this sickness. This weekend Sonic will be put on Craigslist! I am horrified to say Craigslist but he is not my parrot, so I have no say in the matter. So I pray he gets a good home eho will keep him. He is a hard bird to have and only someone who loves parrots and understands all he needs is love and TLC, then they will be the pest Parronts for him. But thank you everyone who is praying and thinking about us, that makes us comforted :) If I will be around and have questions, I will contact you guys who said I can ask them questions. Thanks so much!

what if there is someone closer to you who could take him, would you consider it? Not me, I'm in San Diego, but I may know of someone.
 

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Thank you everyone, you are all so comforting. I am so sorry to hear about how many of you have had parents or family members go through cancer! Im so sorry for those of you who have lost someone dear to them to this sickness. This weekend Sonic will be put on Craigslist! I am horrified to say Craigslist but he is not my parrot, so I have no say in the matter. So I pray he gets a good home eho will keep him. He is a hard bird to have and only someone who loves parrots and understands all he needs is love and TLC, then they will be the pest Parronts for him. But thank you everyone who is praying and thinking about us, that makes us comforted :) If I will be around and have questions, I will contact you guys who said I can ask them questions. Thanks so much!


I got my Sydney from craigslist, so let's just pray that someone who really loves birds will take him. Just because it's craigslist doesn't mean it won't be a good home. I'd argue that a good portion of us on here peruse craigslist.
 

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