Cockatoo ruined my week.

saurian

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I know what you're thinking. No, I didn't get a Cockatoo.



My brother's girlfriend's family did. And I think it may have put an end to my hopes of getting a parrot. Now, my mother wasn't keen anyway. She kept repeating that she doesn't want anymore pets in the house- but she told me to ask my friend Chris where he got his cage a while ago. She also wanted to know things that you couldn't have in the house with a bird, because she had forgotten. She was impressed with my knowledge and very impressed with me telling her not to get a cage with zinc in it, if she gets one. Things actually seemed to be going my way for a while, until this weekend. Now, I think it was a mixture of me constantly frowning and shaking my head at scented candles, and the aforementioned Aussie bird. I have been told that it is now mimicking their dog's bark. She didn't like that. My mother also put forward the argument that we don't have the room- she is under the impression that you need an aviary or a huge expansive space. We live in a five bedroom house. I explained that birds are like babies. You keep them in their room all the time, sure, you don't have the space. But if you let them wander around like they're meant to, then you'll be fine. Then she said something that really upset me for some reason. "They should be free in the wild." I replied by saying, "Then why did we have Mister?", which I thought was a good reply. I also explained that not only does every species have its own personality traits, but every individual.



I don't understand why a Cockatoo is being used as leverage against me when I talk about African Greys. I even acknowledged I couldn't handle a Cockatoo, but I have asked if I can see the bird, because Parrots are great.



On the other hand, my dad enjoys talking about Parrots. It helps him relive childhood memories of his grandmother's budgie, who could talk and sing. He seems genuinely interested and quite amazed whenever I go to him with facts and things I've found out. I showed him a video of a talking Grey, and then I showed him a video regarding essential care. He was laughing and taking notice. He was left speechless by their intelligence and ability. But, he can't go against my mother, obviously.



However, I am quite excited to be meeting some Parrots soon. (I do take your advice, see?) I'll be learning lots about them, along with things I absolutely need to know. How have you all been?
 

Scott

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RIP Gandalf and Big Bird, you are missed.
You face the daunting task of reversing your Mom's preconceived notions and possible aversion to acquiring a Grey. You'll have to leverage your Dad's apparent interest with superb oratory and logic skills!!

Cockatoos are among the most viscerally challenging parrots and ought not be deemed goodwill ambassadors! One can reasonably build a case for "they should be free in the wild" with these species. Greys are quite different and a bit easier to manage in captivity.

You are at the precocious age of observing your parent's divergent views yet remain under their purview as minor. If anyone is capable of winning your Mom's approval, it may be you!
 

noodles123

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Umbrella Cockatoo- 15? years old..I think?
cockatoos are literally the most challenging among parrots---now, all parrots require special care (no scented candles, no Teflon/PTFE/PFOA), scented cleaners etc LOTS of attention....
BUT cockatoos are rehomed very frequently (I have one and I love her to death, but other birds are a bit easier). They are all like kids though to an extent-but cockatoos have the ability to grind down even the most patient of bird owners lol---I have had mind for many years, and I am her 4th home.
 
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Scott

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Aug 21, 2010
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Goffins: Gabby, Abby, Squeaky, Peanut, Popcorn / Citron: Alice / Eclectus: Angel /Timneh Grey: ET / Blue Fronted Amazon: Gonzo /

RIP Gandalf and Big Bird, you are missed.
cockatoos are literally the most challenging among parrots---now, all parrots require special care (no scented candles, no Teflon/PTFE/PFOA), scented cleaners etc LOTS of attention....
BUT cockatoos are rehomed very frequently (I have one and I love her to death, but other birds are a bit easier). They are all like kids though to an extent-but cockatoos have the ability to grind down even the most patient of bird owners lol---I have had mind for many years, and I am her 4th home.

I must have been born under a lucky star - either that or have the most unique cockatoo family! My Goffins are challenging at times but overwhelmingly wonderful companions. Fundamentally, they reinforce my notion cockatoos are best kept in pairs or small flocks. Their dual nature allows natural interactions while remaining closely bonded to me and other family members.
 

noodles123

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Umbrella Cockatoo- 15? years old..I think?
I also do believe that the type of cockatoo makes a difference to some extent...I generally hear the worst things about Umbrellas and Mollucans. You also are probably lucky and with certain types, there may be some truth to the flock idea.
Mine is great compared to some, but she is just really a full-time-job...and she used to be a lot worse (it took a long time to get her where she is).
 

Scott

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Goffins: Gabby, Abby, Squeaky, Peanut, Popcorn / Citron: Alice / Eclectus: Angel /Timneh Grey: ET / Blue Fronted Amazon: Gonzo /

RIP Gandalf and Big Bird, you are missed.
I also do believe that the type of cockatoo makes a difference to some extent...I generally hear the worst things about Umbrellas and Mollucans. You also are probably lucky and with certain types, there may be some truth to the flock idea.
Mine is great compared to some, but she is just really a full-time-job...and she used to be a lot worse (it took a long time to get her where she is).

Goffins are known as "clowns of the cockatoo kingdom." They match my personality, so our harmony may be more serendipitous than characteristic of the species. You are correct that the larger U2 and M2 tend towards increased neurotic behaviors.
 

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