Russell's Story (Trigger Warning: suicide)

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While looking through Kijiji ads one day, I stumbled across an ad for a budgie who was being given away. The ad said that the owner had died and he desperately needed a home. There were a couple of blurry pictures of a blue budgie in a filthy round cage, and I immediately emailed them.
We had to drive about 40 minutes, and we got more of the story once we got there. The owner had committed suicide, and it was a week before he was found, leaving multiple animals behind who had been without food.
The man we were talking to was a friend who was taking care of the estate.

We walked into the house, and I have never seen anything like the cage that the budgie was in. It was tiny and round, and the poop on the bottom was at least 5 inches deep, and was covering the one dowel perch in places. He said he didn't know what happened to the other budgie, that there had been two, but soon we saw a wing poking out from under the poop. We could also see part of the body, and it was bones and had been dead for quite awhile. The man told us that he had not had a chance to get food for the budgie for 3 days after he was found, but that he was eating from the bottom so should be okay. The water dish was slimy with mould, and had a skim of green covering the top.

We could see the bones through his skin, and he was so weak that when my husband reached in to pick him up, he simply fell off the perch and laid in the waste.

We didn’t take the cage, and just transferred him to the cage we had brought with us. We had to place him on a perch in there, and he held on for dear life.

On the way home, we hit a small bump and he fell off the low perch and just laid on his side on the bottom of the cage. I told my husband he could name him, and he chose the name Russell, from the show Survivor. Seemed fitting.

It was a holiday weekend, and we could not get him in to see a vet, so we took him home and I called a couple of women from my bird club for advice. Following that advice, we bought some Pedialite and used in place of his water, and fed him millet and steel cut oats as well as his seed. We had to keep the perch in his cage low so he wouldn’t hurt himself if he fell, and we had the water and food right in front of the perch.
I expected to find he had passed every time I looked in the cage…but he survived.

We called the vet on Monday, and she suggested waiting a couple of days to let him get stronger before bringing him in. When we took him in, we weighed him, and he weighed 17 grams. Only thing wrong was long term starvation.

Russell did survive, and slowly gained weight. We were thrilled with every small step…the first time he switched perches, the first time he ate veggies, the first time he flew.

After he had regained some of his health, we added a friend for him, and almost lost him again. I noticed he seemed to be losing weight again, and realized she was keeping him from his food dish. That was the last time I ever had two birds in a cage without having two food and water dishes on opposite sides of the cage.

Russell lived for a year and a half, and I believe it was a good year and a half. The day he passed was a Saturday, and he started having seizures, one right after the next. I called the vet and was waiting for a call back, and he had one last seizure and crossed the Rainbow Bridge.

I will never forget Russell, and I feel so lucky to have had him in our lives. He taught us so much about survival, true strength, and what a will to live can do. He will be forever missed, and forever in our hearts.

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Thank you for sharing Russell's story. I'm sure he thought he won the lottery when you found him.
 
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Thank you for sharing Russell's story. I'm sure he thought he won the lottery when you found him.

Thank you so much for your kind words...we also felt like we hit the lottery when he joined our family.
 

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He was a fighter and you brought him back from death, you should be proud at how far he came from such a near death experience. To be starved like that and living with a dead mate in a filthy cage....i can't even imagine the psychological trauma he endured before you guys. God bless you for being there for him when he needed you so badly. His story made me cry ��
 

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It was an honor to 'meet' you, Russell.
Big Patagonian hugs to you AND your rescuer(s)!
 

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Thank-you for Russell's Story!

The depth of Love our Parrots find for our Hearts to travel is what keeps us caring for and Loving our special Loved Ones!
 

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That's a terror-tale of awful proportions. I'm freaked by imagining Russell's horror as he watched his buddy disappear. Jesus. Thank you for saving a few good times for him.
 

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Terry, I feel like I knew Russell personally. Such a beautiful little trouper. I've heard his story but to read it start to finish is to truly understand what these little creatures are forced to endure at human hands. Every day that you gave him must have been the best of his life, a clean home, filled bowls, attention, love and a kind touch. I've always seen Russell's story as a success story. Thank you for sharing your sweet boy with us.
 

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What an incredible tale of redemption. The memories Russell carried must have been so outweighed by your kindness and dedication!
 

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How do you bear it? I loved that he made it to the good life ...but I don't know how to make peace with that image in my head, of the wing and the poop and the "he's eating from the bottom so he's OK". I keep reading these stories, of birds rescued from horror, seen the videos of parrot hoarders' houses with cage upon cage in dark unventilated rooms. I think, five minutes ago I didn't know such a thing could exist, wing and bones under filth ... And it grieves me to think of the numbers of other birds, suffering in obscurity. I feel so helpless and I can't stop stop crying.
 
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It is hard to bear sometimes...the stories, the images conjured by the stories...
But seeing how far Russell came, watching him have a happy, though all too short life...that makes the pain worth it.
 

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How do you bear it? I loved that he made it to the good life ...but I don't know how to make peace with that image in my head, of the wing and the poop and the "he's eating from the bottom so he's OK". I keep reading these stories, of birds rescued from horror, seen the videos of parrot hoarders' houses with cage upon cage in dark unventilated rooms. I think, five minutes ago I didn't know such a thing could exist, wing and bones under filth ... And it grieves me to think of the numbers of other birds, suffering in obscurity. I feel so helpless and I can't stop stop crying.

It is hard to bear sometimes...the stories, the images conjured by the stories...
But seeing how far Russell came, watching him have a happy, though all too short life...that makes the pain worth it.

A tremendously relevant point - companion birds are too often mistreated more ways than you can count on one hand. One of the many reasons this new forum can serve to balance the unthinkable with the wondrous.

I would never speak for Terry, but she savors victory many birds at a time!
 

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Terr, what a heart-warming story! I've always been equal parts impressed and amazed with your capacity for love. So many birds from terrible backgrounds have found succor in your home, growing and even thriving under your care and loving ministrations.

Thank you for sharing Russel's story, my friend. His time with you was all too brief, but you gave him the happiness he'd been too long denied. He was a little fighter, and I wish I could've known him.
 
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Thank you all for your very kind words. Russell was small, but he was mighty, and it made me happy to tell his story, and remember his strength. I try not to dwell on the terrible start he had, but how he came to trust and enjoy his life. I will never forget him.
 

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Terry, people like you KNOCK ME OUT!
You're all heroes of the highest order.
I'm just so grateful to participate vicariously; I could not DO what y'all DO.
Thank YOU for doing it! And sharing it!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Terry, Russell's story is amazing. He had a great couple years with you. To see him come that far and thrive and be happy for even a short time made it worth it.
 

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How do you bear it? I loved that he made it to the good life ...but I don't know how to make peace with that image in my head, of the wing and the poop and the "he's eating from the bottom so he's OK". I keep reading these stories, of birds rescued from horror, seen the videos of parrot hoarders' houses with cage upon cage in dark unventilated rooms. I think, five minutes ago I didn't know such a thing could exist, wing and bones under filth ... And it grieves me to think of the numbers of other birds, suffering in obscurity. I feel so helpless and I can't stop stop crying.
I know how you feel- I wont be able to get that out of my head. The horror and sadness Russel endured before the rescue!!
 

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