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This first post is mostly information. My only question is about stopping biting.

I got two birds about a month ago. Mango (IR) appears bonded with the cockatiel that he came with.

Mango is tame, but he seems aggressive to me. He will lunge at the cage when I come near it. He readily comes out of the cage on his own, and he has flown to my head a couple of times and to explore different parts of the room. Once he landed on the chair back and when I turned toward him, he clicked his beak once, which I also think is aggression. He is very protective of the cockatiel. He won't let me get near her and seems to have a distinctive, loud warning sound in that case. If I try to pet him, he will try to snap at me. He has the meanest scariest stare too.

The first time I handled him, out of his cage, he stepped up readily, but within moments he casually reached down and gave me a couple of bites that bled. I think he was not satisfied with the first and wanted a better grip. I just said owe and then for some reason I gave him a nut, and then put him down before he finished it. I guess I was thinking it was more important that he starts to trust me.

But now I'm having a hard time trusting him and I'll wear leather gloves to pick him up. When I put them on, his attitude changes and he will run away, but he will step up if I chase him down. He then wants to climb my arm, so I get nervous that he will bite my ear. I am working on building more trust and figuring out how to discourage biting. He has gotten me three times - just last night again since I want to get rid of the gloves. When he bows to bite, I turn my wrist or wiggle my hand and calmly say no biting. He'll stand up and look at me, then I'll wait a moment and give him a nut and praise.

I like that he will eagerly sample just about anything I give to him. He is very interested in what I'm eating too. He gets chop and ate quite a bit of it the first time - mostly baby bell peppers, baby cucumbers, some broccoli, and brown rice. He's gotten a bit more picky lately though. He really seemed to like scrambled egg.

He makes some interesting sounds. One sounds like a mocking "ah ha" and another "what!" Another is a kind of knocking sound, more like a woodpecker. Maybe that is what he is mocking or it is a typical IR sound? He will scream loud enough to hurt my ear too. He does this some times and I think he is calling, maybe for his former owner. He also does it a lot if I separate him from the cockatiel.

I don't know how old he is, but is at least five years old. I don't have any concerns for him, but do about the cockatiel, because Mango dominates her so much - not really in a mean way though. He will groom her and they seem to snuggle next to each other often, but I've seen Mango yank the cockatiel out of the food dish by the scruff of her neck. Sometimes I think of separating them, but that is more because I see the cockatiel being very aggressive toward Mango at times, like she wants him to leave her alone, and also because of his protective attitude with her around.

That's probably too much for now...
 

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If Mango has been with your cockatiel for a long time I wouldn't separate them as it may cause distress to both birds. You will have a long haul ahead of you building a relationship with Mango. From my limited knowledge of IRN I believe that a month with a 5 year old is but a drop in the ocean when building a relationship. I have heard of people taking as much as 2 years with rehomed IRN to gain any trust. So it seems you are doing very well so far. Just be prepared to go slow and invest a lot of time.

So far it sounds like you are doing OK. Wearing the gloves is fine but chasing him down to make him step up is probably not a good idea. Sounds like he is unsure about the gloves so is a little scared. I would suggest that you put him on a perch, back of a chair or back in his cage if he bites and ignore him for a while. Then try again.

You may never build a great relationship as he has a companion in your cockatiel and may only learn to tolerate you. Something to take on board as you progress.

I am new to keeping IRN but I have kept other birds before. Hopefully someone with better knowledge with IRN will come along and clear things up better than I can.
 

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I have never owned an IRN, BUT.....

1.) Never ever give anything positive following a bite! Giving him a nut was like saying, "hey, you failed your math test, let's celebrate! Here's $100!"
2. )If you got bitten when you went to pick your fairly new bird up, you probably rushed into things and weren't reading his signals....He is VERY new to you and your home, which means he is likely quite nervous still.

I would advise not to use gloves and to go back to building trust--my bird is scared of gloves and gloves prevent you from learning from your mistakes too. If when you try to pick up your bird they bite you (and it has been a short time since you got them--as in your case) then you should take that as a sign not to push further and evaluate your actions (in the case of a new bird in its cage). The more they bite, the more practice they get...The more you scare them, the more they bite. You don't want to test the waters constantly because if you are bitten and back off it teaches them what works, but if they bite and you keep pushing, then you create fear.

That is why you shouldn't make a move until you are fairly certain that your relationship is at a point where you will not be bitten.

Forcing unwanted physical contact with a bird gets you nowhere- You are seriously doing no good chasing him around etc.
Until he is step-up trained, he also should no be climbing up your arm, which means that even if he does step up, you (in theory) have to trust him enough to used your non-gloved hand to prevent him from running up to your face--and if you can't even do that yet, then you definitely shouldn't be picking him up (because he wouldn't be biting constantly if things were okay between the 2 of you). I am not saying don't let him out of his cage, but I would stop forcing the issue of physical contact all of the time.

NOTE: I am also not saying that in every biting situation bird owners should back off. For instance, if a bird with whom you have a solid bond bites you every time you try to put it back in the cage, then that bite is INTENDED to get you to stop what you are doing and fail at the task ---in that case, follow through is key... This is not the same though.

In bird time, a month is nothing....It took 3 months for my adopted (but tame and step-up trained adult cockatoo) to step up on me (excluding day 1 when she stepped up readily because I was less terrifying than her new surroundings)...It took about 1- 2 months before I could touch her without getting bitten every time. After about a month of her living with me (and me not knowing how/when she would go back in her cage each night), I got impatient, pushed my luck (despite her head-jerks) and got bitten/bled a ton... I had erroneously assumed she was ready because she would call to me and eat from my hand (and she knew how to step up).
The thing is, she wasn't and I had to start back at square one when I realized that this was all going to have to happen on her terms. Forcing things just drove progress backwards... A new environment and the loss of a previous flock member/person (even a crappy one) is a serious, earth-shaking experience for even the sweetest of birds.
WE ARE GREAT NOW, SO THERE IS HOPE HAHA!

You need to read signals so that you can avoid being bitten altogether. You don't want to trap yourself in a catch-22 where you reach in, bird bites, you back off and then bird thinks "oh, biting is the way to communicate that I don't want to be touched"...Conversely, if you do persist in trying to touch them after a bite, then they learn that you are a scary person and they fear you (because neither their signals nor their bites stop you)...

Also, reaching inside of a cage can be perceived as very invasive (it is their territory--and it sounds like they are even territorial among themselves), so if you can allow your bird to safely exit the cage, you may have better luck elsewhere (although not right now, as you probably have -100 trust....it can be built up, but it will take time).

The other issue is that you have 2 bonded birds (potentially) which makes you the 3rd wheel...Are they in the same cage? Is the cockatiel around when all of this is happening, because if she is in the cage and you reach in, he could easily be defending her against you.

Do you ever just let them hang out outside of the cage without taking them out of physically putting them back in? I couldn't touch my bird for months, but she was out of her day everyday from day 1 just because she doesn't like flying much and she needed to be out and about...It comes down to safety, but I can't imagine what Noodles would have done if I had waited for her to be tame enough to touch before allowing her out of her cage.

Consider researching ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) for parrots- It is very effective in humans and parrots when it comes to teaching and getting rid of behaviors. That having been said, trust is going to have to come before any major training.
 
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Thanks all for the feedback and encouragement. To some of the questions...

I had the birds for a couple of weeks before physically interacting with them. I spent a small amount of time with them daily just talking and observing.

Someone (else) asked why he bit me and I initially thought it was because he wanted to test my reaction. It was hard to tell because I felt Mango was rushing me by flying onto me and expressing so much interest. I would not put my hand in the cage as that was an obvious invasion, so only offered my hand when out of the cage and he seemed to want to engage.

I open the cage every day and they come out on a long perch extending away from the cage - it's an 8 foot bamboo stick that I've wedged between the bars.

[ame="https://youtu.be/1rArCspHKpY"]Mango and Peach - YouTube[/ame]
 

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Is the tiel visible when the biting is happening?

It sounds like there is a lot going on--
1.definite newness, 2.possible mate defending, 3. possibly some limit or reaction testing, 4.possible territorial issues and 5. possible hormones.. Even with #3 though, you don't want to chase your bird or strong-arm your way through a situation. In 90% of cases when you don't know why you are getting bitten, it is best to A- avoid being bitten by reading your bird/avoiding triggers and B- not reacting at all to the bite if you are bitten...if you know why it is happening, then the approach is a bit different, but in this case, you do not.

I you are just standing there and the bird flies over and bites you, that is very different than if you go to pick up your bird and are bitten.
Which one of this happens more?

Also- if you have any dark spaces/shadowy areas/huts etc in the cage, remove them. That cage looks a bit shadowy right now and shadows are hormonal triggers. Can you get it away from that dark wall and make it less cave-like in there?
It looks like they are in your bedroom, but birds are highly social, so I would strongly suggest that you move them to the room in the house where people spend most of their time...Living rooms are a good start usually...Plus, tiels are powder down birds and breathing that all night is not good in a small space.

Is there any way that you can give them more toys and perhaps their own food/water dishes? It is going to be very hard to tell whether both are eating and drinking if they are sharing the same dishes---I don't know if getting them their own would help with some of the scruff pulling etc that you mentioned...it could become a new point of contention ..just throwing things out there.

Another thought/question--- have you tried removing the rod to see what happens if they just have to hang out on the semi-boring cage-top? Part of the incentive to go exploring and see new things can be you if they know that they can't really get there any other way (I guess it depends on if they are clipped). My bird was never clipped, but she still realized that she would have to step up if she wanted to go around the house (because she chooses not to fly unless scared lol). I am not sure, but by extending it from their cage, you may be making that room seem like one big extension of their cage (could be wrong)...just thinking...

How much sleep do they get nightly and do you cover and uncover around the same time each morning and night?

Last thing--This isn't a criticism either--just a strong suggestion. Try to buy them some perches that are more natural in texture and varied in thickness. Dowel perches like the ones you have in there can cause bumble-foot and arthritis over time.
"Sweet-feet" pumice perches provide a safe surface for nails and beaks and they come in a variety of widths. The sand paper perch covers are not considered very safe, but you need something for them to grind down their beaks/nails.
Parrot Wizard sells a bunch of wooden perches and you can even customized them to fit any length..granted those are more pricey.
Avoid any perch that is perfectly smooth and round...
Here are some examples and non-examples on Amazon (manzanita and dragon wood are two common types of perch materials for parrots).
**I would advise against the rope perches because they can be very dangerous and birds can get intestinal blockages from chewing them, or get their toes tangled in them**
 
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The tiel was visible the first bite, but I do not recall if she was still in the cage or out on the perch. Mango was on top of the cage and seemed just fine with me standing there. He stepped right up on my hand that time and then casually bent down for a couple of bites. I know they were not near his full strength, but that is a sharp beak. The second time I had him in a different room and that is when I would rock my hand a bit if he went down to bite - it was just a glance. He stopped doing it after a few attempts and I then walked him around the house and sat with him in the living room for a while. He eventually got bored and flew to a chair. I let him sit there for about 10 minutes and then picked him up again without an issue. I put him back on his cage with the tiel then. I've noticed he has not lunged at me from the cage for a few days, so perhaps he is getting more comfortable with me around.

The cage is in my den where I spend most of my time at home. I've been considering moving it to the adjacent wall to the left. That is a bay/dual pane window and would be the only other place it could really go in that room. Other rooms are too dark, even with blinds open. The cage is also easy to wheel into the living room, but that cannot be a permanent location for it. The only concern there is that Kiwi (my daughter's budgie) has an open perch/play area there and I'm concerned there will be trouble for him. His cage is in her room, but she is in the living room most of the time and takes him out there. Kiwi once flew on top of their cage and Mango started heading toward him. I feared he'd loose a foot so rushed over and picked him up. I plan to make a larger perch/play area for these birds too, so will be able to see how they get along in the same room. I'll make it so it can also sit on top of their cage and both play areas will be easy to move around.

I added a second food dish. Mango likes to be near Peach and they end up sitting on the same dish. He will nudge her around the cage to where he wants her, but she will occasionally get temperamental with him and start hitting him with an open beak and hissing. I don't see any real biting between them and Mango mostly preens Peach and makes a sort of grunting noise as he does. Without the rod they will either climb to the cage top or sit at the door. Their wings are not clipped, but Kiwi's are.

I was reading they should get at least 10-12 hours of sleep. I usually go to bed early and leave the house at 5 am, so they wake themselves up. I stopped covering the cage because to uncover it meant I disturbed them too early.

I made the dowels from a pine board, so they are not all that straight. Mango has been ripping the wood apart so they won't last too long. The others are PVC that I roughed up. I can warm them up and squeeze them into various lumpiness. I saw that in petco's cages the other day.
 

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Mango lost his longest tail feather the other day. His tail is as long as the cockatiel's now, but not as wide. Both birds have shed about 5 larger feathers each over the past couple of months.

Mango is dominant and likes certain things while not others. If I eat in the room, he will often fly to me and press his beak on my cheek, demanding a piece. I try to share the good stuff with him.

In the photo above, what are the whitish lines on his beak?
 

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The white "scratches" just look like scratches..like he was biting at the wires of the cage walls..I wouldn't be alarmed with them. And I see a COUPLE fresh BITES on your hand! OUCH!!! :eek:


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Thanks! Scratches they may be - he does rub quite a bit on the wires.

Those bites are from the first time I picked him up a couple months ago. Per the advice here, I've tried to avoid the possibility of that happening again. Mango has been great and lets me do about anything I want, when he says it's OK. He's grumpy in the morning when still in his cage and will lunge, but when he comes out will play just fine.

And don't mess with his girlfriend, Peach! I do anyway even though Mango puts up a ruckus, and will come for blood. It's just that initial interaction. Once I have Peach, Mango will come right along without fuss, just don't get too frisky.
 
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Just molting? First pic is May, middle ones are end of July, last one is from caregiver in early August when I was away. I think the last one Mango just bathed himself but I was out of town for a couple weeks. He looks like the middle ones now, but not as smooth as earlier months. He also seems to be cycling his tail and wing feathers. His tail is short now, but does not seem to be missing feathers. It is summer here.
 

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Does this look like molting or something more? He is rubbing his beak and face a lot on perches.

How many tail feathers should he have? I counted 10, but his tail is as short as the cockatiel, Peach. Peach looks the same as when I got her. Both birds behave the same, which seems normal to me. Mango eats chop almost every day and lately have been giving them cantaloupe, but they regularly have a parrot/cockatiel seed mix available that has a variety of colorful pellet/chip looking things.

He's been a little ragged looking for over a month. I don't see it getting worse or better.
 

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Sorry I did not update this thread. I'm sure I had some other posts about Mango, but wanted to clarify that Mango had returned to his silky smooth self and we have been progressing very well.

Actually, since I've been practically confined home for a couple weeks, dare I say he has gotten a bit clingy!? For an IRN, mind you, but still seems to want to spend the majority of the day on my shoulder. He's even flown out of his room (my den) a few times to be with me in my make-shift home office in the dining room. It's not a big leap since he can see me from his cage.

I've learned that his Ah Ha sound is a bit of an ask for scritches. He'll be on my shoulder and dip his head as an offer to scratch his neck and head. He'll cluck like a chicken as I ablidge, just as he does when preening himself or Peach, his cockatiel friend. And he won't stop before I wear out on it.

I take no credit for this. Obviously, his previous owner spent a good deal of time with him and did a lot of things right.
 
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It there such a thing as too much shoulder time?

Well, it happened this morning while I was making breakfast. I had started whistling the trololo song, and when reaching overhead to get a black bowl, he hit my shoulder and then got hold of my neck. It was a good bite and I had to react, so he flew away into the livingroom. I wasn't thinking but I recall he has reacted to steady whistling before by issuing his discomfort calls.

I got him back on his cage and he was eager to be with me, calling for me out there, then calling more when I left him on his cage. I came back and figured I'd not whistle anymore.

Well, I was beating some eggs in that black bowl and picked it up to move it and hit me again then grabbed hold of my cheek. That time he got me better, enough for a stream of blood to come dripping off my face. Repeat him back to his cage and he wants to be back with me again.

Now I'm thinking he doesn't like that black bowl. He also seems to attack his Cockatiel when some uncomfortable activity happens, probably trying to get her to move to a safer place and he will position himself in the way of the perceived threat. An example will be if she flies to my shoulder with him there, he will come and bite her and get between my and her (he's been relaxing on that though).

He hasn't even tried to bite me in several months. If anything, he's given me a squeeze on my fingers when I'm trying to hold him by the body to examine his feet or whatever.

He's been hitting his down feathers that stick to my shoulder and this is how these bites started, so now I'm worried about having him on my shoulder. I knew the second one was coming but he was quicker than me.

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Well, now I'm having a hard time with this new biting. Mango was insistent on being with me again this morning. I was trying to keep things normal with his morning breakfast, but a bit less handling. He was practically falling off his cage wanting to come to me. He started getting more insistent with screams and flying around. He flew to me and wanted to sit on my shoulder, would not step off, but honestly I was fearful of having him there.

I figured I'd just proceed cautiously as he was up to his usual preening and sounds of content. I was walking around doing little things slowly and then just standing at the counter when he hit my collar, and then again hit my neck a couple times. As this started I proceeded towards his cage and on the 3rd hit I panicked and ducked so he flew off into his den.

I'm at a loss as to what is going on here now as he's never tried to bite like that on my shoulder, not ever since I've had him, only hands early on. He would only chew on my clothes but these now are hard and quick hits.

This is really kind of devastating for me (us) because I was perceiving good progress and this has really changed my feeling about Mango. I know if he does not receive constant attention he will just get more aggressive and bitey.
 

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I'm not sure I can offer any help about that matter but I had experienced the same with mine. And I never let her on shoulder again. It was after she did it several times that I started avoiding her. When she tried to fly to me I would duck down to avoid her. First she bit my neck too I think. Then it was my ear 2-3 times. Then my lip while I turned to her while talking (2 times) and last time I gave it a shot by standing in front of fridge where I could see her reflection to know if she tries to lunge. And she did so after that I stopped having her on my shoulder. She's allowed on my hand or anywhere else that isn't around head. She attempted that few times with my bf but he gets his hands bitten more. She cuddles one moment and in next snaps at his hand and bites him. Also she runs away always when she does that, she knows it's bad but she does it anyway. So I believe your does know that too but is testing your limits. I wouldn't let him come back so easily or go to get him. Better give him time out in cage. Because right now you're acting like I did, out of fear, and that leads nowhere good. If you're ducking and letting him come back you might be giving him idea that he can do that unpunished. And also I'll note that behavior starts usually around this time in year with ours. Never underestimate their intelligence, they understand so much and have very visible emotions too.
 
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Thanks for the comments. I only ducked that last time in the moment he administered his 3rd hit on my neck. I should have just grabbed him and got him on my hand. Anyway, this is new in just the last two days. But like you say, he can be a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

I think I've gotten pretty good at seeing his emotions, and they change pretty quick. But perhaps during this past month I mistook his flying to me to be an advance in bonding. He has his Cockatiel so perhaps this was all part of his plan.

I've read SilverSage's references and read that it may be abuse to try and tame this breed once they've grown and become wild. His first owner died when he was 5 years old and while I've been able to handle him without him trying to bite me for the most part for a while now, I'm considering what would really be best. Today was a warm sunny day so I put him in his aux cage with Peach so they could get some sun, and I cleaned up their cage. I sat with them outside and Mango was not happy with me around. He would walk over and try to reach through the bars to chew on me, click his beak, issue his unhappy call, and that look he was giving me. I can see the angle of his head, the way his feathers puff up, especially the ridge along the back of his neck.

It turns out the first bite on my neck yesterday is becoming worse today. There is a swollen lump behind my jaw socket and the joint is getting sore. He can probably sense that I am sore, even though I'm trying to keep a happy face, and the cage doors are closed for the first time in over a month. I was concerned what was going to happen when we all return to work anyway.
 

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Oh dear, I hope that lump goes away fast and that it's nothing serious. Yeah it's true that they can be pretty wild and also selective with humans. How long do you have him? Ours was fine for let's say about a year before this started. But we're her first owners since breeder and she can still go nuts. We recently got another one that is same age and was not hand weaned like our first one and she changed few owners but she is so much more gentle and just normal lol our first one can act like someone on drugs lol but since we're observing them we also notice that our first one is quite smarter than new bird so I feel like that the smarter they are the more complexed they might be to handle unless perfectly tamed. What you're describing how he acts around you I can completely picture because that's how ours acts towards me lol. It could be something temporary why he bites and hates you now lol give it some time and let him notice his change of behavior effects his outside of cage time too. I would for now not let him be on shoulders but just hands like I told you. I let mine sit near elbow for example while I'm sitting down or she sometimes climbs on my knee. If she tries to climb more up I stop her. Just anything else other than shoulder. Give it s few days before letting him on shoulder again. Is he being normal when you give food? Mine entirely calms down when there is some food in hand lol other than that when I approach her pupils are shrinking, her head is puffed, she's shaping her wings in heart etc all other sings saying she's angry lol
 
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Most of the history is in my first few posts in this thread ~1 year ownership. Behavior has been a steady progression over that time starting with lunging as I walked by his cage and biting when picked up. That mostly went away in the first couple of months and he would usually put his foot out when I went into his cage to pick him up. I learned to come from the side or back.

I don't know what to say about behavior now inside or on his cage. He will be napping, preening, preening Peach, playing with his toys, or eating and making a variety of sounds that he usually does. He doesn't usually have much of a reaction when I come around. He will off/on watch me or just go about his business. I sometimes walk in holding out a treat so he'll look for that and get excited about it. Sometimes he'll come out and be leaning off his cage to me. If he wants me, he will usually scream. If he's agreeable, his feathers will be tight and he will come to me or, lately, just fly to me. Sometimes I call him and he would come and sit on my shoulder, nap, preen, play with my glasses a bit. But I can't eat with him on my shoulder or he would push his beak into my cheek, pull at my hair or nibble my ear. Then I would put him on his cage and give him some food. If I don't do that, he would start reaching to my mouth. I just don't eat with him on me. He hasn't really been aggressive toward me for several months. Even when he got tired of getting scritches, he'd whip around as if to bite my finger but just give a gentle tap.

I believe his aggression toward me outside today would be normal because he has not seen that aux cage nor been outside in months. He was probably just uncertain. He was normal back in his cage this evening and was screaming to come out since he could hear our dinner time. I gave his food inside the cage and left the door closed and he was balking at that. I think I'll go back to open doors but just leave him off me. He will likely fly to me and I'll have to put him back in his room and maybe close the door if he is uncooperative. I can see that turning into him getting into mischief, however.

I've always felt like these birds have been very well manured. I wish I could have talked with the owner, and his widow could not speak English (Chinese), so I don't know their idiosyncrasies, meanings of sounds, or what the relationship was really like. Might they have just been "ornamental," I would not know. The cockatiel has always just shied away, but will reluctantly step up if I insist. Mango does not like it though.

Oh, heart shaped wings, meaning when he slightly opens his wings, stands tall, peens his eyes. That is rare and would follow, and come with, his warning calls, when he gets startled by something big and new that I bring into the room, for example. I'll usually comfort him by repeating, It's OK Mango. Sometimes a good SHHHH will change his attitude too.
 
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Ours was fine for let's say about a year before this started. But we're her first owners since breeder and she can still go nuts.

I'm still surprised at what has happened here, and this could be a valuable bit of information if this really is a lifelong behavior.

I wonder, since it seems you got yours very young, if the biting for you was the bluffing stage?

Mine should have long past that, but maybe it comes up seasonally as you describe or is a phase in every new relationship. I also suspect that having another bonded bird is a complication that might not be overcome.
 
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Yesterday was a hard day. Mango wanted to be with me and seemed confused when I would not let him walk up to my shoulder. He'd fly to me several times and issue his various calls from the top of his cage. When he did come to me, he was being agreeable with hand transitions as I diverted him, but resistant to step off my hand on perches or other usual spots. It was a long day.

Today he has been more persistent and seeking me out in different rooms that he had not flown to before. I set up a new perch in the room with me, but he still flies to me and wants his nice soft shoulder perch.

There has been no sign of aggression. Maybe something else worth point out is that when he did bite me, there were other family members in the kitchen with me and a fair bit of commotion. Maybe that was the trigger. I've seen him grab his cockatiel mate and pull her off the perch when he perceives a threat. Maybe he felt a need to protect me and move me to a safer place?

Well, here we all are, both Mango and Peach on my shoulders as I type. Mango just finished his 20 minute preening routine and is taking a nap. I can't say I'm not nervous. I think I'll put him back on his cage with a treat in a bit.
 

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