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Meilu

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I guess I'm supposed to do this?

My name is Megan, my friends call me Meilu (MayLu, not Me-lu or My-lu). It's an amalgam of my first and middle names. I'm a quiet person, have a lot of time to myself and thought having a bird companion to spend my sizable alone time with was a good idea. I'm asthmatic, however, so I ended up doing a lot of research before going and getting one... which is good, because I learned a lot. I went out looking for a green cheek from breeders and answered some local ads, most of which were already answered and gone. Yesterday all of my effort and research was all thrown out the window when the one ad I answered that actually had a bird lied about 1, being a breeder, and 2 what the bird himself was... after I drove over an hour to see about him... and I couldn't leave him with those people even though he's my first bird.

He's a Nanday Conure, he was obviously neglected, possibly abused, and I've heard him say a few racist things and swear words.

I'll be asking for advice on taming him down, right now I'm letting him get acclimated, just going about my business, cleaning his cage, and looking for an avian vet. I can tell he's very smart just from watching him and the little bit of interaction I've tried yesterday and today. He's quite angry and violent, obviously has cage aggression.

Oh, for reference, I'm using a very large ferret cage I bought (for ferrets, which I ended up being allergic to and had to give back to the breeder...) and he instantly took it up as his home compared to the tiny thing he was kept in before, something a budgie or finch wouldn't deserve to be stuck in. He seems happy for the space, but I can't put my hands in there at all without being bit (not nipped, he's biting, got some bleeding wounds already).

I'm guessing patience will be the key. The previous owners said they only had him a few weeks (I'm unsure of whether this is true or not) and that he's only a year old. If he's been passed from owner to owner and neglected like this, I'm guessing I'll need a lot of patience before he thinks he can trust me. Any tips or encouragement would be great. He doesn't bother my asthma (thank goodness!) and regardless of his aggression I won't rehome him or leave him locked in his cage. He did come out today while I cleaned, and even ever so boldly stole a bit of romaine from my salad before flying back in.
 

4dugnlee

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Hi and welcome! So glad you rescued your nanday. What is his name? You are right...patience is the key!!! He will come around with time and effort...just hang in there. You have come to the right place for information and support! When you get a chance please post pics....we LOVE pics...
 
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Meilu

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I renamed him Loki. The last owners never named him, but they called him Grinch now and again from what they said. He's no Grinch, but he is a bit of a trickster!
 

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Hello Meilu, welcome to the forums! Congratulations on being adopted by a conure. I agree with the above poster, 4dugnlee, patience is everything with a new bird. It sounds like your little guy had a bit of a rough start. Thank you for giving him a loving home. He'll reward you with a long friendship.

Sounds like you're off to good start. You're very perceptive to notice how angry he is, some of the older re-homes are. Try not to be too shocked by his behavior, it's perfectly normal under the circumstances. It's not easy, but try to completely ignore the foul language, any response from you at all will be seen as a reward. When the bird has time to adjust to his new surroundings and feel safe, you'll see less and less aggression. It's a good sign that he came out of his cage and snagged a bite of lettuce while you were cleaning, he's already curious and he'll get friendlier. Here's a great link with tips on bonding.

http://www.parrotforums.com/general-parrot-information/49144-tips-bonding-building-trust.html

Best of luck with your new companion. Please tell us your bird's name and share photos.
 
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Meilu

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Here he is, first pic! He decided to say hi to my rat, Sylvie, and ended up giving her a bit of his food! Very sweet of him!
 
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MikeyTN

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Please be cautious with Loki on top of a rat's cage, the rats can easily bite off Loki's toes. Should never trust a rat with birds!!!!
 
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Meilu

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My rats (there are two) are hand raised and extremely gentle. They're not pet store rats, they're show rats... smart enough to learn tricks.
 

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My rats (there are two) are hand raised and extremely gentle. They're not pet store rats, they're show rats... smart enough to learn tricks.


Doesn't matter, even a normally gentle pet will bite if it feels threatened. It's better to not even take the chance, both for the rats and birds safety. If the bird feels threatened/startled he/ she could easily take a chunk out of the rat and vice versa.
 

Allee

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I don't think Michael was questioning how tame your rats are at all. Just a friendly word of caution, in general rats and birds are a potentially dangerous combination. All it takes is one tiny bite of scratch, an infected scratch or bite wound and your bird's life is in danger. We don't mean to offend, we just want you to realize reasonable precautions should be taken.
 

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