My cousin just sent me a picture of the Christmas present he is getting for himself.....It is a baby cockatoo. I am very nervous for him and this this baby both. He only has experience with cockatiels. He saw this baby at the pet store and fell in love (who wouldn't). The pet store told him that cockatoos are just like having a small bird just bigger in size. I told him that they are NOTHING like having a small bird and gave him the pros and cons of cockatoos (although I have never had one myself) I gave him several great websites (including this one). I told him that he really needed to do his research before he brought the bird home. He is a very loving person and I know the birds physical needs will be met but I don't know if he is prepared for the hormonal issues and noise, etc. that come with cockatoo ownership. I am afraid that in 2-3 years I am going to get that dreaded call asking if I can take the bird because it was more than he bargained for. (I cannot take the bird if this happens due to allergies and asthma). I am hoping for a happy outcome for them and they have many great years together. I really do have the best interest of man and bird in mind. Am I being realistic or pessimistic on this?