ann
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- Feb 18, 2011
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- Parrots
- 1 nanday conure Black Jack, 1 Brotogeris parakeet Whiff, 1 ring neck dove Eliza, and 6 society finches (3 are tame). RIP my parent pairs of societies and my little gouldian finches
Its been a while, and for good reason. I have found myself completely overwhelmed with my life and I just need advice. I have been working two jobs for almost a year. I am still a high school student and I work four days in a row every week, which amounts to 15-17 hours. I know that's not a lot compared to people who balance a full time job with the rest of their life, but I am cracking under the pressure. I know I need to work less but I know people are depending on me and I feel like I need the money if I want to move out while I'm in college. I have also been diagnosed with ocd (obsessive compulsive disorder) which is an anxiety disorder. I get to bed late every night and get up early every morning. I feel like my life revolves around work (school and work) and every day is a race to get to bed. I am so tired when I come home that taking care of my birds is a daunting responsibility. For some reason, my room seems to trigger my ocd and I haven't regularly slept there for almost two years, so I sleep on the couch. I can't stand being in my room and I only go in there if I need to. My birds are in my room so this is definitely a problem for them. Sometimes I don't set foot in my room for days at a time, so my mother had been very helpful by taking care of my birds for me. If we moved them downstairs that would be incredibly helpful, but I still have to talk my parents into it. I am considering downsizing my flock of finches because they would be the least traumatized by the change in environment and aren't really bonded to me so I don't think they would miss me like my parrots would. I am still trying to figure this out but I just feel stuck. I would really appreciate some advice here
PS- I'm glad to be back on the forum again, I'll try to post more often.
PS- I'm glad to be back on the forum again, I'll try to post more often.