Endi
New member
The other day my dad and I went to the local pet store. They were hosting some kind of bird rescue event where they had two macaws, some kind of cockatoo, and an amazon. I was ecstatic. Since I want to get a parrot in the future, I went right in and after awkwardly standing around for a bit, I started asking questions. The guy who was taking care of them answered my questions, but he seems very apathetic to do so. He let a couple adults hold the amazon but when I asked to handle the birds, he immediately instructed me in an almost scolding manner about how to do it. In general, he talked down to me like I was a terrible college student who buys animals on impulse and judged me the whole time.
The whole experience made me a lot less confident about wanting to get a bird because I felt like all the research I'd been doing was worthless. And I know research is no substitute for the real thing but he made me feel like I didn't know anything at all. I'm now really nervous about talking to bird owners irl; on here is fine, as I've had a great experience in this forum. But I'm so anxious about someday contacting a breeder to get a parrot.
Is this normal behavior for owners to treat everyone like they don't know enough, even by accident or in a kind way ("oh, my bird doesn't like to be pet on his wings. He likes his beak stroked much more! ")? I could really use some reassurance :C
The whole experience made me a lot less confident about wanting to get a bird because I felt like all the research I'd been doing was worthless. And I know research is no substitute for the real thing but he made me feel like I didn't know anything at all. I'm now really nervous about talking to bird owners irl; on here is fine, as I've had a great experience in this forum. But I'm so anxious about someday contacting a breeder to get a parrot.
Is this normal behavior for owners to treat everyone like they don't know enough, even by accident or in a kind way ("oh, my bird doesn't like to be pet on his wings. He likes his beak stroked much more! ")? I could really use some reassurance :C