New Bird Owner - Sort Of - In Need of Pro Tips and Guidance

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Happy Holidays, All.

My fiancee and I are getting married in May, finalizing the search for a new home in the next month or two (will either be large end-unit townhome or a standalone single family). Let me provide some animal-related background on each of us.

I'm 33, going on 34. Between the ages of 18 and 26, I worked extensively with animals. This included hand raising baby parrots of a wide variety of baby parrots. My focus, however, was on marine life. I spent a year as a dolphin trainer working in Hawaii, and have raised and trained dogs, a couple of parrots, etc. When I was in my early 20's, I purchased and successfully raised a Blue Crown Conure that ended up going to the "ex" in the girlfriend-boyfriend "divorce." I should not have had a parrot in my early 20s!

So, it's been about 11 years since I've worked directly with parrots, though I've got experience training animals ranging from dogs to dolphins, and have worked with large, ill-tempered Macaws and Amazons a couple of times. I'm not overly concerned about my own ability to socialize, train, and manage the husbandry of a parrot of almost any species, but I'm not the only part of this equation.

My fiancee is a dog lover who - without my pushing - developed a serious interest along with me in a parrot being our first pet. We will, eventually, have a dog, and kids. While I might get back into the aquarium hobby later in life, the only non-humans in the home will be a future dog and the TBD parrot.

While she's been around family dogs her entire life, they've a) mostly been golden retrievers and black labs, and b) she's never really had to be the trainer. She's smart, a teacher in her day job, and fully on-board with the consistency and learning she'll have to go through to properly apply the rigors of daily animal training to the future parrot. Nevertheless, since we won't be getting any OTHER birds in the future, and since she's never worked with them, things like Macaws and Amazons and Cockatoos are out of the question.

About us as a couple - we are highly social beings! Both of us are extroverts (me a little more so than her), chatty, and consummate hosts. A great deal of professional animal training background at least on my part will go into socializing whichever bird we end up with, but it will be a social home; this is not a situation where the bird in question will be spending the majority of his/her time alone, and/or just with one or two people. Or, better said, there will be routine weekly events involving new people.

This brings up the actual question. My firsthand experience with parrots is a little over a decade old, was primarily focused on the hand raising process prior to sale when I Worked in pet shops in my 18-21 range, and the personal long-term care level includes a couple of years raising a Blue Crown Conure, and having a cockatiel growing up. While the concepts of animal training you apply to a dolphin or a dog are broadly-speaking identical to any animal (you use the same techniques on starfish, which don't even have brains), every individual species has its nuances, and nothing is more true than in the case of birds (and, of course, every individual within a species is different).

So I'm looking for heavy opinion on the couple of species I've "narrowed down to" in the looking process. I'm a firm believer in the right bird being the one you choose, but also the one that chooses you, so I tend to feel (correct me if I'm wrong) you should have a couple of species in mind ... picking just one to the exclusion of all others can be the right way to forcing the wrong bird into your home if you aren't able to come across dozens of just that one species. I want to know the red flags and general thoughts on the species I'm looking at with regard to the presented criteria and situation.

#1 on the list right now - Male SI Eclectus. Research indicates, broadly, that they are not quite as needy as Cockatoos, while also not as reserved as Amazons or Greys. Proclivity for training and learning contextual language, but of course that's variable ... nothing guarantees an Eclectus will talk, but they are known as decent mimics, and that's a plus if it works out. Trainability is a big deal for me, and I've read a lot of anecdotal evidence pointing to Eclectus being target and click trainable / bridge trainable, which - presuming this is generally true, or that it's true it's easier with them than some species - opens up a lot of potential for detail training and application of techniques used in dolphin training (which warms my heart and memories). Overall, Eclectus also seem to be just a bit more forgiving (Without being truly forgiving, we're still talking parrots) than Cockatoos and a couple others, which bodes well for a hiccup or two on the fiancee's part in the bird training / consistency / learning process. Hormonal and Terrible 2 phases aside, also am understanding Males are a little less nippy and "emo" than females, which is a plus. Also understand that their ease of learning "human" language and trainability can help lead to teaching them to use "indoor voices" instead of screeches during regular joyous screaming moments (i.e., dawn/dusk).

#2 - Caiques - Personality-wise, love the caiques. Do not love their smaller size. Is too bad they aren't known for their articulate talking nature. But those two things are OK in light of their personality perks. I'm also of the understanding they are - broadly speaking - less hooked up on a single person and more prone to being easily socialized to a wide ranging group of people.

#3 - Slightly smaller and medium sized cocktaoos. This is a bit of a concern area for me. I've interacted with and enjoyed the personalities of some of the slightly smaller cockatoos, inclusive of Galah, Citron, Goffins. I've read some places where folks say they are a bit less prone to phobias and plucking and other issues. I've also read plenty of places where folks basically say a Too is a Too is a Too. Input is welcome here. I'm, again, not really concerned about husbandry, training, and management - fairly professional animal trainer here as far as concepts and practical experience with very demanding creatures. That said, I can't reiterate enough that the fiancee's intelligence and capability is only useful once lessons are learned, and I'm flatly terrified of screwing up a cockatoo with one too many hard lessons on her part. Guidance and input welcome here!

So that's the already short list .... and I'm open to other suggestions. I'll admit the caique's size is something I'm a little leery of. We're on board with the notion of a demanding companion that could be with us for 30-50+ years in the case of some of the above species. This means a bit more robust size is a good thing - I've heard too many bad luck horror stories happen to incredibly careful owners of smaller birds; while parrots in general are not exactly durable animals from a physical standpoint, size still matters. That said, as mentioned, I'm not a big fan of the hair trigger moodiness of Amazons and Greys. Large cockatoos and Macaws are right out; spent time in that above yearspan as a vet tech at an exotics vet as well, and too many close calls with hyper aggressive macaw beaks and owners who were outright scared of their own birds. So, hate the male Eclectus? Why? Hate some of the smaller cocktaoos? Why? Love caiques beyond their small size? Why? None of the above? What other birds should I be looking at that I'm simply overlooking (indian ringnecks come to mind)?

Thanks all! Have read a lot of posts here during my research, so thought I would post myself and ask directly. Lovely community.


Last, a question about the ever-controversial subject of wing clipping. I'll admit that when I was working in the animal field, I tended to - anecdotally/experientially - note more behavioral problems in birds who were fully flighted than birds who were clipped. There are strong, professional, experienced opinions out there in both directions stating the exact same thing. I'm always open for hearing more!
 

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Well, let's see, I've had a budgee, finches, cockatiel, cockatoo, Greenwing Macaw (real short period of time), a Catalina Macaw, a Yellow Naped Amazon, a Blue Front Amazon, a White Front Amazon, and a Severe Macaw. Since you asked...I'm going to tell you. I'd go with the Severe Macaw. He's perfect size for me and sweet and I can handle his beak. So don't rule the smaller Macaw's out.
 
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Interesting; my only concern about the mini macaws was that they can be as unavoidably, joyously vocal as the larger macaws and toos (Especially dawn/dusk). I anticipate and don't mind bird noises on occasion, but the appeal of the Eclectus and some of the others was twofold ... one being a little lower likelihood of being a happy screamer, and the other being a little higher likelihood of speaking well / readily (Which can translate to teaching them alternate languages for their joyously loud moments). I know these aren't guaranteed, but I applied this to my Blue Crown back in the day ... he would sure yell my name over and over in his happiest moments, but never once made bird noises of any volume or note.

Are the severes (and Hahns / etc.) equally manageable in this regard?
 

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Well - so far (and I've only had him 2 1/2 weeks...I think) - he's isn't loud very often. In the morning and in the evening and he has 2 other fids to get him going or keep him going. He has yet to be as loud as my Too and larger Macaws were. They were loud and I could not have them around when I had a migraine. I can tolerate my Severe with a migraine. Also, my larger birds required fresh food everyday and some days...I just am not able to do that. (Which is the main reason I don't have a Eclectus. They are beautiful birds.) Jingle (my Severe) speaks some words very clearly. Pretty bird, hello, and hi. Others...not so much. She keeps saying...sounds like "Wicked" over and over. Since I have a hard time understanding American's speaking English understanding Jingle is a challenge. But when it's clear...it is clear.
 

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Have you considered a senegal? They aren't very common over here so my guy is the only hands on experience I have had with them but he is awesome! They aren't huge but they are so much fun. Very affectionate, playful and acrobatic. Trainable and quiet. My guy will sit for ages with his head down getting scratches or keep himself entertained quite happily in his cage with toys. He is also pretty happy to interact with almost anyone and warmed to me within a day of having him home. And so pretty =)

As for the eckies, well I have a soft spot for them. Unfortunately I had little luck with them and lost my guy as a youngster but he was so sweet. They have a loud call although don't tend to use it so often and special dietary needs although I found that part fun. Messy but fun. They cam be very tricky to wean so if you do decide on a baby eckie make sure you go to a good reputable breeder with plenty of eckie experience.
 

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Most people don't work with their macaws enough, and foolishly do not bite pressure train them. The problem with those birds is human. There isn't a better bird to be had than a "mush mac!" So, you're selling them short. Check out the "feathered buzz saws" post on this site under macaws...

http://www.parrotforums.com/macaws/46733-feathered-buzz-saws.html

Also caiques HUGE personality birds!

Depends on what you are looking for.
 
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I just wanted to say welcome. It sounds like you've had a very intersting career working with exotic animals! This is a great forum to learn from, and many people with a variety of species here to help with whatever bird you end up choosing.

Ps... Mark, your name should have been Macawman lol, I can see your passion for macaws shine through on all your macaw posts :) I should be Poigal?? haha
 
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Birdman666

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Well, for me it's the pair bond birds particularly amazons, macaws and conures... I pretty much love them all... but amazons, macaws and conures are my favorites.

Though I love caiques, and have played with them, but never owned one...

Seriously, though, anyone who tells me that macaws are that aggressive, hasn't been around them enough... These are lap birds and toddlers with feathers. And not a day goes by that my two don't amaze me...

And I rehabbed enough of these guys to know that the "problem" with these birds is usually human...

I absolutely HATE hearing about aggressive macaws... that tells me somethings wrong.

An owner that can't handle their own bird probably starved the bird of attention until it hates them... seriously!
 
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Well, for me it's the pair bond birds particularly amazons, macaws and conures... I pretty much love them all... but amazons, macaws and conures are my favorites.

Though I love caiques, and have played with them, but never owned one...

Seriously, though, anyone who tells me that macaws are that aggressive, hasn't been around them enough... These are lap birds and toddlers with feathers. And not a day goes by that my two don't amaze me...

And I rehabbed enough of these guys to know that the "problem" with these birds is usually human...

I absolutely HATE hearing about aggressive macaws... that tells me somethings wrong.

An owner that can't handle their own bird probably starved the bird of attention until it hates them... seriously!

I'm not sure I'd really call Macaws aggressive; I've worked with aggressive animals before, and there's a substantial difference between a large crocodile or a ticked off tokay gecko and really any kind of bird. I appreciate the input you've provided. I do think I like that male eclectus, caiques, and some others are a little less prone to forming pair bonds with a single owner than some birds.

One thing that's important to note is that almost any creature can be trained to be precisely what you'd like it to be and "well behaved." This is a fundamental principle of good training and husbandry. It nevertheless also holds true that some species are easier to end up being aggressive than others; you do HEAR a lot of stories about aggressive macaws or amazons, for instance (which is partly why it irritates you!). You also HEAR a lot of stories about aggressively defensive dobermans or wildly aggressive pitbulls. This isn't because they are bad species or naturally just born to be aggressive, but they are easier to "screw up" from a poor training perspective. It could be because of willfulness or simply being a demanding animal.

Either way, while my own experience in hardcore animal training and husbandry gives me confidence with a wider variety of bird choices than many, the relative / comparable inexperience of my fiancee balances that out, which is why I shy away from species that - despite not being inherently aggressive or bad or negative in any way - are a little more challenging than I think the combined "former dolphin trainer + 0 experience trainer" pair we are really wants to attempt. Ipso facto the question inherent to this thread, and also the appreciation I feel for the answers so far provided.

BTW, a little research and feedback on the mini macaws says they are probably right up the alley for me ... except for noise level. This again goes back to what I can tolerate and what I can expect based on experience vs. what my fiancee can reasonably be expected to "be ready for" in terms of vocalization patterns and habits and the like (she's excited about a parrot, but is going to be rapidly less excited if one is screaming her ears off at maximum volume soon after acquisition).

Just a ramblin' few thoughts!
 

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One thing that's important to note is that almost any creature can be trained to be precisely what you'd like it to be and "well behaved." This is a fundamental principle of good training and husbandry. It nevertheless also holds true that some species are easier to end up being aggressive than others; you do HEAR a lot of stories about aggressive macaws or amazons, for instance (which is partly why it irritates you!).

True. And a lot of times, people don't realize that macaw play appears at first glance to be macaw aggression... If I were to pull away, or become defensive or combative with a friendly macaw that just wanted to play?! Suddenly I really WOULD have an aggressive macaw on my hands. And THAT is a big part of the pattern.

Okay, I'm kinda known as the pro-macaw guy, right?!

I WOULD STRONGLY CAUTION YOU AGAINST BRINING IN A SEVERE MACAW. ANY OF THE OTHER MINI MACS YES. SEVERE'S ARE NOTORIOUSLY ONE PERSON BIRDS... AND CAN BE DIFFICULT TO SOCIALIZE.

A bird about the same size with a much better temperment, in my opinion, and easily trainable is the yellow collared macaw...

Illgers, if you can find one...

Hahn's macaws are very clownish and personable as well.

I have never in my life recommended a severe as a pet quality bird.

Nor would I. Most difficult macaw out there in my opinion.

(I'm biased here too, as one of them took my thumb down to exposed bone. I did rehab and retraining for many years myself.... )

I just posted a bunch of links on this site for a trainer who was having (surprise!) one person issues with their bird... I suggest you read them.

http://www.parrotforums.com/behavioral/50366-bird-hates-me.html

If I went with an Eckie, the males tend to be milder mannered than the females. It's the females that become "hormonally challenged" and bossy sometimes during breeding season. They do better on fresh foods than pellets, so do your diet research on these guys. (Land of Vos is a good reference.)

I've fostered eckies. They're not bad birds.

Caiques have HUGE personalities though, so that tends to be more my speed...

Which is why I'm so big on amazons and macaws... give me the goofballs any day. They can be trained out of the bad behaviors. And I have the skill, and am willing to put in the work to do it...

So, I'll pretty much always vote GREENWING.

I'm biased. So, don't count my vote.

Go with your gut. Play with them all. Pick the one that also picks you...
 
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Oh man Mark - I love my Severe. But then again - I don't care if he only loves me because right now at my house - there is only me.
 

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Oh man Mark - I love my Severe. But then again - I don't care if he only loves me because right now at my house - there is only me.

That works for a sole owner household, as long as the bird isn't going to be handled by anyone else, but not for a family situation bird.

Again, IF you socialize them to the Nth degree they can be sweet little birds.

Te Amo was one of the sweetest little birds I ever played with...

But 8 out of 10 end up with "one person" issues. (The other two were handled by everyone from birth and were natural extroverts...)

The most ironic thing about these guys in my mind, is that people get them because they want a macaw but are afraid of being bitten by the big guys... (who generally are a pile of mushy feathers if you work with them.)
 
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I'd just like to add that not 'all' male ekkis are quiet. Mine almost blew the roof off our heads with his non-stop 'honking'. Yes, it was unbearable. :54:
 

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I'd just like to add that not 'all' male ekkis are quiet. Mine almost blew the roof off our heads with his non-stop 'honking'. Yes, it was unbearable. :54:

My female eckie did a noise that sounded like an airhorn going off...

She didn't do it all the time, but THAT was loud. And it sounded almost exactly like an airhorn...
 

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Oh man Mark - I love my Severe. But then again - I don't care if he only loves me because right now at my house - there is only me.

That works for a sole owner household, as long as the bird isn't going to be handled by anyone else, but not for a family situation bird.

Again, IF you socialize them to the Nth degree they can be sweet little birds.

Te Amo was one of the sweetest little birds I ever played with...

But 8 out of 10 end up with "one person" issues. (The other two were handled by everyone from birth and were natural extroverts...)

The most ironic thing about these guys in my mind, is that people get them because they want a macaw but are afraid of being bitten by the big guys... (who generally are a pile of mushy feathers if you work with them.)
It was the weight of the big macaws and the noise (bothered my migraines). The Severe is working for me. And Mark - I really appreciate all of your advice.
 

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Like I say, I see this as a socialization issue. Generalizations are just that. They don't necessarily apply to all.

Most Severe's don't get what they need on the Socialization front.

But then again, how many times do you tell people NOT to hold a large too that much, and teach him to self entertain...

And of course, these birds "tend" to be screamers...

Cause and effect PLUS natural tendencies.

They can be dealt with. It's just more difficult.
 
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Eclectus are WONDERFUL birds, generally the males do make better pets. While they can be clicker trained and such they don't like to be pet a whole lot so if you are looking for cuddle factor, not much. There are those and even a few of mine that will tolerate cuddles but it is clear that they are allowing it because they love you, not the touching. They can scream as any parrot, the alarm call can peel the paint off walls, most times that is not a sound you will hear often though.
The diet is the really big factor with them, I have bouts with my health and getting up and making fresh chop and keeping it varied and nutritious is sometimes a chore but it is something that cannot be over looked or skipped because life got in the way. IMO they must have that diet every single day. I also believe they require more baths per week than other parrots because of their unique feathers.

Wing flapping/toe tapping is almost always related to diet though I have seen it in clipped eclectus. I will go on record saying unless it is absolutely necessary for your household eclectus, african greys and cockatoos are the parrots that I think should be harnessed trained rather than wing clipping.

I cannot have cockatoos or powder down parrots because of my asthma but I will tell you if I was considering any it would be the Slender Bill cockatoo they are not the most attractive and being a little harder to find they can be a bit higher in price BUT everything you are looking for I have seen with these. Good mimicking for a cockatoo one of the better ones, super outgoing, less needy, trick training and preforming seem to come second nature. So if I could have a cockatoo that is the kind I would get hands down! Also called Eastern Slender-billed Corellas.
 
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I'm biased, but I love my Pionus. It's like an Amazon lite. So cute, great personality, confident birds, size and bite not bad for your fiancée land best of all they are very independent and won't freak out when you guys are out socializing.
 

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I can't say anything about bringing one up because I adopted mine fully grown, but the galahs I've come across (lots, they are common here) are not neurotic type pets (IMO). They are very laid-back, friendly, happy types as long as you don't ignore them. My girl does a "routine" where she swings from her heels and yells and flaps, but the rest of the time she's as quiet as a mouse. She talks but it's not remotely annoying or noisy or loud.
 

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I can't say anything about bringing one up because I adopted mine fully grown, but the galahs I've come across (lots, they are common here) are not neurotic type pets (IMO). They are very laid-back, friendly, happy types as long as you don't ignore them. My girl does a "routine" where she swings from her heels and yells and flaps, but the rest of the time she's as quiet as a mouse. She talks but it's not remotely annoying or noisy or loud.

I agree!

Best of all the cockatoos hands down... and they are sweet, tend to be good around children, and are easily trained, but maintain that cockatoo cuddle factor with less of the scream n pluck tendencies... they are flock birds, not pair bond birds. So that eliminates a lot of the negative one person tendencies....

That would actually be one of your best choices for a family bird.
 
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