I’ve read as a rule of thumb to never try to make a budgie do something she doesn’t want to do.
Can you provide her a safe space, not too big but big enough, where she has access to her cage and can come out on her own?
I’m having slow but consistent success with this method for my agoraphobic (not really, just cautious survival instincts, I believe) young one. She’s got a play tent, intended to be used for young children. It’s got mesh sides and an open roof to which I sewed a mesh sloped ceiling. I made a tree stand for fly/play time. Treats, snacks and other goodies are littered about. The mesh provides access to natural light through the windows. When it’s cold, a transparent drape made of artificial fiber cuts the draft. Natural fibers breathe, as you know.
I would never force Skye or Sunny to do anything that isn’t necessary. At some point Skye will NEED to leave his cage to go to the vet. We are focusing on training that behavior at the moment. So far he has gotten to perching at the exit. That’s not a lot, but it is at the same time. Skye is much more timid than Sunny, for a few reasons. It’s partly his personality, and partly because of his background.
Just a quick overview of Skye’s background: He’s not a baby, he is 2 years this month. He was held back from sale by his breeder to be used for breeding purposes. He is definitely a he, but didn’t perform with the ladies, so he was brought to a local family run pet shop to be sold as a pet, where we purchased him. Skye has made a huge transition to the pet life. He has come a very long way in a very short time. He was absolutely terrified the day we brought him home. Within the week (I think it was 3 or 4 days) he was calling out for us to come sit in the room with him. He quickly warmed up to my daughter and myself. He doesn’t like my husband, or my son (8) but is especially fond of my daughter(10). My husband and son tend to be loud so I’m not really surprised that Skye isn’t all that fond of them. My daughter has done an amazing job, and he is such a good little guy. Skye is an attention hog, and is making up for lost time, but his WHOLE life was nothing but a cage, he wasn’t hand raised, or anywhere near tame when we brought him home.
Fast forward 7 weeks: Skye is still not to sure fingers are to be trusted, but will step up onto anything perch like. Arms, broom handle, actual perches, sticks, you name it. All we have to do is say step up, and he jumps right on, even from several inches away. He’s slowly getting there. He will land on our arms and fluff up and preen himself as long as we keep him inside his cage. He will gladly nibble millet or lettuce from our hands. He will even (rarely) trust fingers to stand on for some millet. We have tried every suggestion to get him to come out, except for removing his food at night and hoping he will come out to eat in the morning. I’m personally not comfortable with that, even though I know realistically it won’t hurt him, I just cannot with hold food. Skye is still very much the timid distrustful bird that we brought home. He’s afraid of new things, he’s afraid of cell phone’s because I forgot to put mine on silent 1 time . I don’t think his distrustful nature will ever truly change, and that’s fine. We love him as he is. But there are certain things that he NEEDS to be able to handle, for his own health and well-being, and leaving the safety of his cage is one of them.
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