I feel like they all go through this phase. Kyo is now a year old, and is finally starting to calm down a bit. I feel like either she is in the calm before the storm (puberty), or that puberty may be helping her chill out a bit. It has taken a lot of work and patience, but I think we can finally say she is accepting my husband.
I hope that things for Tiki have improved. I love my little Kyo and I understand how rough the hard days can be.
Saige, I just noticed that you registered yesterday, and have responded to 4 different ads where folks are looking to rehome their bird. Did you read each individual thread from front to back? Because one of the birds had already found a new home.
Please know that we (all of us on the forum, not just moderators) always caution folks when brand new peeps are looking for a free bird (or one with a minimal rehoming fee).
Why not take the time and introduce yourself? Participate a bit perhaps? Just some food for thought.