I have always been one of those people animals (doesn't matter what kind) gravitate to. It's especially annoying with dogs and cats, since I'm quite allergic to them! I do love and respect all animals, though I wouldn't have all types of animals in my care. I think animals read us like a book, and if your fearful, they will take advantage, if you are confident and respectful, they will respect and "listen" to you. Most animals do have some kind of social hierarchy, and seek a leader. They observe your actions, routines and body language and respond accordingly. I remember when we went to meet Kiwi the first time, the lady rehoming him emphasized he didn't like women, and went after him will a huge towel wrapped around her hand to get him out. I put my hand right up to his talons and told him to "step up". He lunged a few times, but when she started shaking (not that he couldve bit through that towel) but i didnt move he got the picture, and got on my hand. He was understandably nervous, so I put him back down quickly, but he gave me that eye of "I don't think I'm in control anymore". There was quite a power struggle when we got him home (he was supposedly never or rarely handled), but he eventually learned who was the dominant members of his flock (my husband and myself). It sounds harsh, but when you have an animal, you have to put yourself in the place of most dominant. Animals have no concept of "equals", their natural social structure just doesn't work that way. You also have to respect and include them. If Kiwi doesn't want to come out of his cage, he doesn't have to (unless it's an emergency or something). If he doesn't want to sit on my leg and would prefer to be on his perch, that's fine. They deserve respect and the ability to have some choices too. He is also included in everything we do. He has no idea what other parrots would be doing in nature, but he knows his "flock" eats together, hangs out together, does "interesting" chores, takes showers ect... and he is included in all of that. Domestic life is what he knows, and he wants to be part of it. I think all those "animal specialists" aren't really that "special", they're just good at getting the message out to people on how to respect and behave around their animal companions. Sadly, more people than not, feel animals are miniature humans and should be treated and behave in much the same way. They aren't, and a lot of problems arise from it.