Wow looks like parrots can get very attached to people. I only partly understood this post but thanks!
Well, I'll explain it this way. When a bird this big and powerful actively seeks you out, climbs on your arm, and then lays down with her head sideways on your shoulder for an extended all over head scratch...
I don't care who you are, you just melt!
She'll step up for anybody. Anyone who's nice to her gets that...
My daughter and I get THIS, and more. They open up to you in ways you just never realized was possible until you experience it.
And that's what "bonded" parrot ownership is all about. And it's a two way street. Bonded works both ways. Losing this bird would kill me... it would be almost like a parent losing a young child. It's honestly more like a parent child relationship than it is a "pet" relationship. They are that interactive, and that loving.
And the bird with her head lying on my shoulder, is the same bird that someone else couldn't wait to be rid of... and that is the exact opposite of bonded. They are a lot of work, and if you don't do the work, you don't get the reward.
But It's a lot of work.