Well, yes...in part...she's correct...they CAN turn into little pitbulls! Hahahahaha!
Our conure, Franklin was hand raised, super sweet, love him to pieces. We also have 4 cockatiels and every evening we'd let all the cockatiels out for their "foraging/play" time. Franklin had been properly quarantined and it was time to see how he'd do, socially. Well, all our cockatiels were out, snacking on their treats, playing with their sticks and balls...PLENTY of distractions for Franklin.
We put him down with the tiels....they looked at him, questioningly...what the heck is that??? He looked at them....tiels went back to their own fun...and Franklin decided to "properly" introduce himself and ducked his head, puffed up his feathers and took off charging one of our tiels...they ALL freaked out! What the heck!!!
It took some time. We were VERY and I mean VERY consistent in how we handled it. We'd let him down with the tiels...of course after the first "introduction" they kept a wide berth of that weird looking mean bird.
When Franklin started to charge....we'd immediately block him with either our hand, book, paper...what ever and tell him in a firm tone..."Nooo...Be Nice." If we didn't catch him soon enough and he got face to face and start a "fight" then we'd have to grab him and tell him "no, be nice" And then redirect his attention.
If he was persistent at charging, even after being redirected a few times in a row, we'd put him in his cage and allow the tiels to remain out for "play time." All the cages were in the same room and in sight of the play area. So Franklin could watch, but could not join.
He actually learned rather quickly that if he was to be out with his "Friends" he had to be nice.
Believe it or not....2 years later...my tiels are still a wee bit wary of Franklin, but there has been no altercations since he learned to "be nice" HE wants to give kisses and share treats and preen, but my tiels pretty much won't have anything to do with him. It's soo funny!
If you get a chance, please watch the little video clip "Cockatiels Rule" under my name...you can see Franklin and our tiels in a cute short slideshow video story I put together.
So in a nut shell..yes...conures can be "pitbulls"...but they can learn to be LESS of a bully.
Toni