Hi and welcome to the forum!!
I was leaning more toward a blue and gold or scarlet but the vet told me they are a little bit louder and harder to keep and not as friendly.
I hate it when people tell you a certain type of bird will not be as friendly as another certain type.There are certain traits that certain types of bird have, of course.. some may be prone to shyness or louder, bond more closely or be more independent.. I just don't think friendliness is one of them..
They really are individuals so you can't predict the actual personality of a bird just by it's type. It's like saying all pit bulls will definitely bite you.
I've got a female blue and gold and she's very friendly. She gets shy around some others and will take advantage and bully if she senses someone is afraid of her (like my mom) but all in all she's a wonderful little girl. She's also a spoiled brat, which probably accounts for most of her bad behavior.
NicoleN is right, the bigger the bird the bigger the mess. She gets into everything and makes a huge mess no matter what she does. most of it is her personality, I think. She's a girl, she can't help but be nosy and rifle through everything!
"Why DOES that fish eat those pellets?? I better see if they're good! [sneak over.. climb cabinet.. open drawer.. get food..] BLECH! Gross! I better get rid of this it can't be healthy. [fish food all over the floor] Hey whats this..."
I had an umbrella cockatoo for about 10 years as well. I gave her to a friend who breeds birds because she really wanted to make babies. She is SO happy now, with her husband Ben.. even though I miss her horribly, I'm glad I did it.
She was the cuddliest bird I have ever lived with, I just made the mistake of not having her spend more time with other people. They tend to bond to one person so you have to be careful you don't end up with a personal bodyguard cockatoo
I adopted most of my birds, The bird club I was in had a few people who wanted to give up 'problem birds' and I was good with them and had the time so I got the misfits. The only birds I picked myself were my blue crowned conure (my first parrot) and my macaw. I wanted the macaw because I thought they were gorgeous, had the time and space, and really wanted to experience one of the larger birds. She takes up
A LOT of time and space!!
I haven't ever had the pleasure of meeting a red fronted macaw but they are beautiful birds.
Your amazon is gorgeous.. I can't believe he's 50!!
Have you tried going to breeders/stores/clubs to meet adult birds?
Good luck making your choice!!!