complete bliss on that "don't touch me!" face..
Jim
Actually, the scritches breakthrough happened yesterday. After she wore herself out with temper tantrums (she wanted to wreak havoc on the house, I said no, so there was a whole lot of time outs involved), she was sitting on my knee exhausted, gnawing on stick in her beak. I took advantage of the calm to reach out and try to touch her again, and that time she let me. She got a little nervous at first and then it was like a lightbulb went off for her, that that sort of thing actually feels good, so I kept scratching her head, and she wound up falling asleep on my knee. This morning I tried again (that's what the picture is from), and there was no hesitation on her part.
I still think that her previous humans did love her and did their best with her, but they had just gotten locked into this cycle of fear from when she really was an extremely aggressive bird when they first rescued her. I think in her time with them, she learned that humans could be gentle and loving, but by the time she figured that out, they were afraid of her to an extent, so the cycle continued. But what they did do was make it really easy for me and MrC to go the rest of the way in rehabbing her. From the first night we've had her we thought that she really wanted human interaction, but was slightly afraid and just didn't know how. That's a whole lot easier to deal with than how she was when she was first rescued from that garage sale a few years ago. I have to give the people we got her from a huge amount of credit in putting her in a mind set for us to be able to do what we've done.