The breeder suggested to rehome one of them and I am searching for a better way to deal with this I love them both and tips would be greatly appreciated!!
they sleep separated at night and are not caged during the day unless i go out for abit he plucks her in or out of the cage and she seems to cuddle up to him and allow it
they are on excellent diets and get there proper sleep
Maybe try giving them separate times out to see if you can break his habit of plucking her.
It will take more work, but may help. It does sound like they are bonded, and I hope something can be figured out where you can keep them both.