Perfectly said. It's a shame that folks with big hearts get way over their heads when trying to help a rescued animal. Some times no matter how badly you feel, it's best for everyone including the animal to step away and allow someone else to take over.
Wow! I do have to say as much as I have enjoyed and appreciated all of the wonderful help here I am a bit sad at these responses. I am only waiting to see if she will be staying with us. If she is then the cage that I am choosing is large and is expensive, if she is not going to be staying with us then (as I stated above) I will be getting her a new cage however it will be a more modest home (still much bigger than her current cage) I have been involved in dog rescue for years and pride myself on the care and love that myself and my family give our pets. I have as expressed on previous posts wanted a parrot since I was 24 (I am 50 now) money is not the issue here we are very capable of taking good care of her. I have posted before that I was about to purchase a hahns baby (or a cog) I was leaning towards the hahns. It just happened that I wandered into a rescue last Sunday and there sat our current rescue that had just come to the rescue the day before. The rescue is not clean and my heart went out to this 15 year old lca. I visited her all week, brought her healthy foods and felt like I might want to adopt her as opposed to the baby we were planning on. My children keep telling me that she deserves a second chance at a loving home. I feel this way as well, and surprisingly my husband is really bonding with her. He has never been around birds and I thought that he would be a hard sell on this. I am however a realist and find that adopting a parrot with issues may be out of my realm of knowledge. I am a reader (have bought two books since aquiring her) and a researcher. Everyone here has been extrememly helpful. So I guess I am sad because I feel very judged right now, please dont take this wrong but I have scrubbed out this cage within an inch of its life so that she would not be ingesting as much of the rust. I am just waiting until this morning when she goes to the vet to decide do I go for the very expensive cage (I am an interior designer and I am sure I will here about this but it is important to me that the cage goes in our home) or a more modest but safe home to return her in. That said, the thought of returning her breaks my heart. Trust me I love and enjoy being on forums and do not want to sound snarky just hurt a little. I do appreciate your enthusiasm for birds however.
I didn't want to come out to be mean about it, but I was upfront and honest with what I believe in.
None of the birds I own, except two were planned!!!! 2 Canaries were given to me by a friend, 2 Parakeets I rescued from outside during winter time, 1 Parakeet took off a lady who couldn't care for him anymore, 6 Cockatiels from homes that were allergic to them (I re-homed two to a friend's mom who wanted Cockatiels badly, they're spoiled rotten, especially now when her husband just passed away, she talks to them all the time now), 1 Blue & Gold Macaw where the owners beg me to take him because I was the only person who he likes other then them, 1 Lesser Sulphur Crested Cockatoo whom it belong to a friend that kept her in poor poor condition with feather plucking problem and he asked me to take her, she would of died the following week IF I hadn't take her, he was soldering in his garage and the fumes got into the house and killed his other two birds. Then down to my pair of Soloman Island Eclectus that my partner wanted for many years, they were the only ones I went looking for! So sometimes things just happen the way they do without planning.
At anytime you have doubts or regret, then don't do it. In order to do this, you must do it from your heart regardless the cost or the care that they need. I easily paid $1000 vet bill on a sick dog the first month I got him knowing he is sick. And cleaning up after him for a year with constantly diarrhea every so often isn't fun either, but I did it. Not many people would put up for it, but I did! I had to let him use bathroom away from the other dogs and I walk him on the leash constantly everyday, he had a contagious parasite. I give him multiple meds twice daily, with food cause he gets sick and throws up easily. I took on knowing he's sick and I did it from my heart. That's ONE of the many I've done it with. If you really do care for the poor baby, try to find it in your heart what he/she really needs. A used cage isn't that expensive, and a new cage isn't that much more. I bought a nice new cage for my ekkies for $300 because my friends knows the vendor that cut me a deal. I've seen great parrot cages for less then $300 on craigslist all the time, I'm sure there are some in your area or close to you.