Separation Anxiety and aggressive toward others

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I have two issues with my Blue-Fronted:

1. Separation anxiety when I leave the room (I do have to use the restroom from time to time) - I know people post this same topic all the time all over the internet but all the tips I've read won't work. Some people refer to it as the "call" to his flock...whatever--it's not, and if it is, it's not the normal call.
-tried covering his cage for a time-out when the screaming starts, it barely phases him and I can't leave him covered while I'm at work--that would be mis-treating him.
-spray him with a water bottle? I can't because as soon as I come around the corner, he sees me and quiets down, so if I spray him, wouldn't I being spraying him while he was quiet? (I need an automatic one I guess or a robot to do it).
-call out back to him and teach him to say 'hello' or something else instead of screaming, then I'm answering his call and reinforcing it (he may add a word or two in the mix but he's still screaming non-stop).

Does he just need a bird friend?

2. Agressive toward EVERYONE else - Luckily his wings are clipped because the other day he was out and the neighbor came to the door, and right away he flew over toward him but coasted down to the floor due to his short wing span before he could attack him. He tried to attack someone else before and I caught him mid-flight because I knew he'd do some damage--well he thought the 'stranger' had him I guess and chew into my arm for the longest 10 seconds of my life. (that was about 3 yrs ago and still, and always will have the scar).

He is 27 yrs old and always been in our family. Granted, this behavior was never stopped before while my mother had him but I would like to change that. Is he just one of those few that can't be fixed--set in his ways and I can take it or leave it? :-(

If you've tried these same things and they didn't work for you either, what did?
 
The capt's "send in the bad guy "trick. Welcome to the forum. Looks like he needs better socialization. (more friends and a more secure outlook ). Don't punish him with a water bottle or anything else. Get some of the others to pass out treats and such to make friends with him (when your not around). The "send in the bad guy" is for when he starts screaming. Have someone he really dislikes go stand beside his cage when ever he screams. Don't do anything just stand by the cage. Maybe one weekend when they can devote a couple of days to being around all day. When he's being nice you go visit and tell him what a good boy he is. When he's bad,,,send in the bad guy. Show him that screaming only brings unwanted company.
 
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I like what Richard's suggested "send in the bad guy." :D Funny yet effective. Yes, I also do believe that the bird needs a better socializing, try to take him outside with you "if possible" and try to introduce other people to the bird. This could be a territoriality attack so it only attacks strange people when they are in the house or near the cage, is this the case? If so, What happens when he is around new people outside or away from his cage?
 
Unfortunately, I live alone and don't have a lot of visitors very often. I've tried just about everything I can for many, many years. He only likes blond females and will scar anyone else that comes around for the last 27 yrs. For the screaming, I have just started only giving him a treat when I leave the room so he stays busy(we'll see how long that lasts). I used to let him outside all the time and if I turned the corner out of his eyesight, he'd start, or if he saw someone else come in the yard. My mother had him most of his life and no matter how many times my stepfather would feed him, he'd still attack him. He's also gotten to where he regurgitates non-stop. I don't mind a little but it has gotten ridiculous. I usually just shake his perch when he won't stop like he's in an earthquake, and that seems to help.
 
The living alone part is the heart of your issues. Socialization,socialization,socialization. take him places and do things with him.
 
Have you tried leaving a radio playing on in the room when your not there?
 
Well, like right now the TV is on and he's currently sitting right next to it, but if i walk to the other side of the house around the corner, he couldn't give two s**ts about that TV ;)! He wants to know where I'm at. I honestly think there are some animals that just can't be re-trained--he's been this way for all his 27 yrs. I wait til he's quiet before I come out when he's squawking, but it's that way every single time. (Kind of like refilling your gas tank...it gets low, then you refill it then the cycle starts all over again.) I would like to get him another companion besides myself--a bird companion--but don't know if it would even phase him.
 
Birds are flock animals. You are his flock ,hes calling to see if your still there. Your right he may be set in his ways and not change. But at least another bird he would have someone to chit chat with and maybe be happier.
 
Ok I saw Joses picture [and hes soo cute] :D He can come live with us and be Tequilas friend !!:)
 
No , don't get another bird.Especially as a friend for him, your his BFF and you need to expose him to others. Socialization will help to keep him happy and healthy. they need a life outside of you, IMO. It's up to you to take him places, do things with him to expand his world outside of you. His natural instincts tell him to be with you 24/7 , as he would be with his mate.Living with humans means, you need to help train him be happy/entertained without you. The world is more than you. Zons are so adaptive that they need a challenge. His age has little to do with it.I find older rehomes respond best to a challenge like moving their cage, making them the center of attention,not letting them get too comfortable in their environment.They respond well to a good leader.
 
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I can take him places, as I always have, to work, etc., but he cannot be handled by anyone else. He has left too many scars ...and I don't need a lawsuit!
 
P.S. Not sure if it makes a difference in personality but I think "he" is actually a "she", but we have lived "his" life as a male--hence the name. (someone who worked at a bird store that used to clip his wings a few years ago said she thought he was a female due to his small size)
 
Don't fret, my hen of 43 yrs is named "Jake". I thought i could tell the differences between males and females !!! ( back when i knew it all ) Even older birds will respond well to meeting new people. It may not seem so at first but it "grows" on them.
 
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