Alex's breeders have many hand reared bonded pairs. Thats one reason I liked their set up so much, each and every bird, even the breeders (bar one or two parent raise ones), were pets, well handled and well loved. In particular they have this one pair of ekkies that while a breeding pair, are still as tame as any other hand reared single bird. The moment one of the owners is in sight or in the aviary, they are all over them! Do those two birds prefer each other over their human companions? Yes, for sure. But they still love their 'people flock' very much and interact with them readily. That said, some of the other handreared breeding pairs were more 'to themselves' and not as keen on interaction. One pair of suns loved human company, while another (also handreared) did not MIND it, but did not seek it out either. You will probably become 'second' to the new partner eventually, but that does not mean that you will not have a good relationship with both birds
On a side note, sometimes male only and female only pairs can bond. We had a pair of two bonded male cockatiels not long ago! It's not as common, but it does happen. Someone here also has a bonded lovebird/conure pair I believe! Crazy, huh?
I plan to get Alex a companion when I finish uni as I will then be working a 8-4 job and to leave him alone all day without interaction would be cruel. I'm not sure wether I want another jenday, let alone a female jenday, or just another different species for company yet. Many years until this becomes a reality anyway! Like you I worry about 'losing him' to his potential mate!
