Raising Xander

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Hi guys. Rather than clutter up the forums I thought id make one thread for all my questions and to share the progress and stories of my little green avian nemesis (I mean friend) Xander. Maybe my triumphs and struggles can be of help to other newbie Parrot owners or even other Quaker Parrot owners being toyed with on a daily basis by these beautiful, funny, playful and strong willed little urchins and also I like talking about him. He is a pretty cool dude :)

I love this video of him. The first day he came home. I left his cage open from the get go and he was exploring straight away and found somewhere cosy to have nap time.

[ame="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPqXYY8ow9Y"]Meet Xander the Quaker Parrot - YouTube[/ame]

From there it has been constant suffering for me :)

I joke, it has been a joy even with all the inexperience I had at first and many worries and questions but you guys have always answered them for which I am always very grateful. We have overcome a lot. His massive fear of hands and screaming problems and converting him to a healthy diet all of which are no more. If there is a cure to turn me back into Male around him id appreciate that :) All in all I cant complain. We have no real issues and he is a lovely nice natured little fellow except in spring time lol. Wow spring time, doesn't it suck :) He has nearly made it to 1 years old now and even more amazing, I made it lol so I think we are doing alright.

I treat him to a new cage a few days ago. He helped design the interior as usual. After many months of studying trajectories and my OCD issues we have a full but spacious cage we can both live with. He was inside for 20 minutes inspecting everything and gave me the nod :) Everything has to go through him of course. I am replacing the sleeping hut with a jolly ball soon so don't worry :)
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He has shed 2 tail feathers in symmetry this week so I think the big malt is finally happening. I'm excited because all his damaged feathers he came with will be gone and I don't have to be reminded every day that he went through something bad. We have the spin down perfectly now also. I only need to say the word. It was the hardest part of the trick in honesty but not so hard all in all. We are working on recall every day and that is going ok and I'm getting him used to being on his back in my hand and opening his wings. We started learning the big eagle trick yesterday so I'm hoping we will have that down in a week to just the word command. I have his hoops also but I know he will master that in no time. He is pretty smart to be honest. I think he just acts the idiot and pulls the wool over my eyes haha like he always has but that's Quakers for you. I got to spend all day with him today so he has loved it and me. He has started stringing sentences together also. There are real words in them but also lots of his words he makes up. He always makes me laugh when he is practising talking and up to his usual shenanigans. You don't have a bad day for long when you have a Quaker at home. He is the best.

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LMAO I call Xander a muppet sometimes (rarely) being silly when he is into mischievous things and I put him to bed tonight and he said night night muppet. What have I done lol. Ill have the camera ready tomorrow night just in case he has associated this with bed time. I best start being careful what I'm saying now in front of the word smith lol, hilarious x

P.S can a nice moderator move my thread into the right section please?
 

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He is so precious! I have always loved Quakers but Xander is cuter than most.
 
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Awww thank you. Don't tell him that though as it will go straight to his head :)
 
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A good day with my boy today. A non hormonal one and great progress on training. He is opening his wings half way on the big eagle trick after 2 sessions and im getting him a little further on his back. I introduced a hoop at the end of tonights session and he took it off me and flew off to spend time with it. I guess he can have it as a toy. He is saying what ya doing now. Its his first phrase. Picking words up pretty quick now. Seems to be things i say when im not encouraging him to learn a word he is picking up. Didnt call me a muppet tonight lol, i had the camera on ready too :) My bird is awsome. I love seing him grow and learn each day. He watched a little football with me to so that was cool but he found chewing my shirt was more fun and wanted to play peekaboo. The warm weather is comming now so im gonna invest in a harness and start taking him for walks. Do you think he would enjoy that? X
 

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I think he might enjoy walks after a while but maybe not at 1st. The harness could be scary. Ollie doesn't mind it but Fin acts like I put him in a torture chamber. Lol. So I have to work on that.
 
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I think he would just let me put it straight on him after seing it for a few days. He is good with things like that. He wasnt bothered at all about going in his travel carrier straight away and he loved walkies in that x
 

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We love the description of his decorating and you working out so your OCD and his preferences align to create the solution. I think many birds - and other pets - could give humans a run for their money with OCD issues.

I know a (human) boy Xander who recently turned 8, how old is your Xander?
 

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Hey, I’m new to this forum and I do not know has to make a thread or a post. Help
 

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LMAO I call Xander a muppet sometimes (rarely) being silly when he is into mischievous things and I put him to bed tonight and he said night night muppet. What have I done lol. Ill have the camera ready tomorrow night just in case he has associated this with bed time. I best start being careful what I'm saying now in front of the word smith lol, hilarious x

P.S can a nice moderator move my thread into the right section please?

Hahahaha! "Night, night, Muppet!" Hilarity!

Just seeing this thread now, Carl, and loving it already. As for moving this to the right section, that depends partially on your preference. It would fit equally well in the Quakers sub-forum as in the Incredible Journeys; Bird Stories For Bird Lovers sub-forum. So which would you prefer?
 

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We love the description of his decorating and you working out so your OCD and his preferences align to create the solution. I think many birds - and other pets - could give humans a run for their money with OCD issues.

I know a (human) boy Xander who recently turned 8, how old is your Xander?

I agree for sure. It took a long time but I think the birds should design their own cage. There is certainly a couple of things he wouldn't let me move in there :) He will be 1 years old next month x
 
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LMAO I call Xander a muppet sometimes (rarely) being silly when he is into mischievous things and I put him to bed tonight and he said night night muppet. What have I done lol. Ill have the camera ready tomorrow night just in case he has associated this with bed time. I best start being careful what I'm saying now in front of the word smith lol, hilarious x

P.S can a nice moderator move my thread into the right section please?

Hahahaha! "Night, night, Muppet!" Hilarity!

Just seeing this thread now, Carl, and loving it already. As for moving this to the right section, that depends partially on your preference. It would fit equally well in the Quakers sub-forum as in the Incredible Journeys; Bird Stories For Bird Lovers sub-forum. So which would you prefer?

Thank you my friend, he is really funny often and ill have to try catch him on video. With moving the thread I was gonna use this for Xander and my new Parrot soon which wont be a Quaker so I figured id just add the new birdies name to the title of the thread if that's possible? x
 

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LMAO I call Xander a muppet sometimes (rarely) being silly when he is into mischievous things and I put him to bed tonight and he said night night muppet. What have I done lol. Ill have the camera ready tomorrow night just in case he has associated this with bed time. I best start being careful what I'm saying now in front of the word smith lol, hilarious x

P.S can a nice moderator move my thread into the right section please?

Hahahaha! "Night, night, Muppet!" Hilarity!

Just seeing this thread now, Carl, and loving it already. As for moving this to the right section, that depends partially on your preference. It would fit equally well in the Quakers sub-forum as in the Incredible Journeys; Bird Stories For Bird Lovers sub-forum. So which would you prefer?

Thank you my friend, he is really funny often and ill have to try catch him on video. With moving the thread I was gonna use this for Xander and my new Parrot soon which wont be a Quaker so I figured id just add the new birdies name to the title of the thread if that's possible? x

Not a problem at all. When you decide on the name and you are ready to change the title, just PM me or any of my fellow mods and let us know what you'd like the title changed to.

And just to be sure, you want this in Incredible Journeys?
 

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Done. Looking forward to updates of Xander and his soon-to-be flock mate.
 
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Thank you. I'm looking forward to getting the new guy too. I'm not sure what yet. I was set on a GCC and still possible, I just love all the different Parrots lol its so hard. Id get a Red Bellied Parrot if I could but they are so rare over here. Just getting Xander through spring and all the hormonal stuff and I'm gonna go look at some and bring one home. No doubt Xander will design his cage too lol x
 
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Xander said he loves me tonight. I'm sure he was just mimicking but it was sweet. Unlike him he came over for cuddles and wouldn't leave me for well over an hour and not to jinx it but I think the hormones have finished because he has gone back to his lovely easy going self the last few days. He has been showing his tricks off a lot lol, he loves spinning now even when there isn't a bribe to do so, he is so proud of himself and does his quirky laugh after. I did a few spins to make him laugh, he said I'm a good boy haha. I got a new job a few days ago with normal hours so I'm gonna get so much more time to spend with him and my new lil one when he comes home soon. I'm struggling a lot what he will be though. They are all just amazing and every day I seem to change my mind what I want. I think it will best just to go see some and see what happens. The cage and everything will be ready next week and me and Xandy pants will set it up ready. Ive been telling him he is getting a little brother soon. I am ready for another, I double checked in my mind and I'm just excited and happy and ill kinda be off to a head start with the new guy after everything ive learned bringing Xander up. I hope it makes his life better having another bird around and the new one will be raised around Xander so hopefully he will be good with other birds. I know Xander will be. He is so soft and harmless and he is just how I raised him to be. I guess that is a good thing about getting them young so I'm confident I can raise another to be just as lovely. I love being a parront x
 

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You should get a conure little brother for him! Love my boys.
 

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