Quaker Conflicts

Allee

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When a new bird joins a flock there is usually a period of unrest until the new bird is accepted. This usually doesn't take too long. Sammy's adjustment period has gone smoothly for the most part. He has a little trouble with boundaries and some confusion over property rights. He's under the impression everyone and everything he sees belongs entirely to him.

Our Quakers and Cockatiel fly loops together daily, it's really fun to watch. They will come out of their cages, one will take off and the other two will join them in the air. The Quakers are acrobats, they aren't above behaving badly for extra attention.

Harry likes to land in my hair and hang upside down by her toenails, she does this for shock value, I usually pretend not to be aware of the birdie dangling near my cheek. When I fail to rescue her, after a few minutes of being ignored she will right herself and sit on my shoulder like a normal bird-until next time. I was truly surprised when Sammy tried the same trick repeatedly.

Harry and Sammy have gotten along really well and seem to enjoy each other's company. The friendship may have taken a few steps in the wrong direction when Sammy highjacked one of Harry's favorite parlor tricks.

Harry was once a very aggressive biter. When she gave up biting she replaced the habit with other behaviors. I pick my battles so I allow Harry to head butt, to swear, to put herself in a time out and slam her cage door. She does all those things when she's angry or in a hostile mood, her favorite though, is to launch an air strike on the offender, usually me. She will fly directly at her target, beak open, shrieking loudly, she will hit once with her feet and fly to a high perch to assess the damage. She saves this trick for special occasions, Harry's a clever girl, she knows just how far to push. Her body language is easy to read, when she fluffs her feathers to appear twice her normal size (still tiny at seven inches tall) it's usually a good time to create a diversion. I won't mention names but I do know of one Amazon that also employs this method to get his point across. I feel for his mom, it's scary enough when a Quaker flies at your face in a fit of fury.

I missed Harry's warning completely, probably because for once I was not the target of her outrage. Sammy was blissfully unaware of the storm brewing in Harry's head and had just landed on top of mine. Harry hit him with all the force she could muster, enough to knock him right off my head. He recovered in the air and landed on a perch across from Harry, they fussed and shrieked at each other until Harry joined Sammy on his perch and initiated a not so friendly bout of beak jousting, at that point I sent them both to neutral corners, in this case, their cages. Sweet Pea was pretty pleased to hang out with me while the Quakers were incarcerated. I think Sammy enjoyed the conflict, he clung to the side of his cage and asked Harry, "Are you Okayyy", to which Harry replied, "Be A Good Boy!"

***I'll add this here rather than start a new thread. I'm constantly amazed by animal emotions. I know animals aren't people and their thought processes are different than our own but.....

We recently lost a flock member, since she passed, Harry calls to her in the early afternoon, the time of day when they normally played together. Harry had a special flock call for her friend, that's the one she uses. She doesn't do it every day, but about once a week now. Needless to say it breaks my heart when she calls to her friend but it also makes me wonder. Personally, I think she is experiencing grief for her friend. I know some would say it's a learned behavior and merely habit in Harry's daily routine. I think it's more.
 

Minimaker

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I was totally cracking up until that last part, now I have a lump in my throat.

Being less than a year in I realize I still have a lot to learn. But one thing I do realize now is just how much a flock of different kinds of birds come to reply on each other. Even when it seems like they can't stand each other, they still need that mental stimulation. And when it turns to affection, oh boy. I've seen a change in my conure. He used to hate the budgies. I had to be very careful and stay right there when everyone was out flying around. Gradually things changed. If he's in his cage and they are in the other room calling he answer calls to them in return. Then he freaks out in his cage and goes into what we call evil batman mode furiously pacing upside down around the top of the cage and upset chattering until I get him out and take him to them. Now he can't be without them, somehow they have become his flock. He sleeps in a separate cage but days he hangs out with them or else he's just not happy. I worry about the different lifespans of the two because I know they will likely die long before him. That's why another conure didn't seem like such a bad idea when the opportunity arose.

Sorry for your loss Allee :(

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SilverSage

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I'm the same, cracking up and then sadness. Quackery are such incredible birds with such strong personalities!
 

JerseyWendy

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Allee, I have zero doubt that Harry is calling for Zeke each and every afternoon. HUGS to you - it must be gut wrenching to hear her do it. :(

Oh now please put Harry behind the monitor and let me have a word (or 2) with her. ;) Dive bombing unsuspecting victims - feathered, furred or naked, is NEVER tolerated. :54:

And Allee, I know that Amazon you're speaking of. Quite well, in fact. LMAO! His last attempt to rip my eyeballs out was only yesterday morning. Why? Because I dared looked into his eyes while he was 'guarding' Hunter. :rolleyes: Luckily I've become quite stealthy and managed to duck JUST in the nick of time. :32:
 
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Allee

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Minimaker, thank you for the sweet message. I know our family will miss Zeke forever but all those little reminders can break your heart for a very long time.

Our budgies are temporarily off limits to Sammy, he's a little too curious and still a bit rough. I have to closely supervise when they are out together. I hope Sammy learns to like the budgies like your conure likes yours. It's very interesting to watch a flock evolve.

Wendy, can I just send Harry to you for a long chat? Smack me but I can't help it, I'm LMAO at Sam getting furious with you for looking him in the eyes. Good thing you've learned to be stealthy. Harry has taught me a few new duck and cover moves, when Harry is in a mood, even Poppy does some creative bobbing and weaving.
 

JerseyWendy

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Getting Harry's cage ready right now, Allee! But I can't promise her vocabulary will improve (much), LOL. :54:

Yeah, you go ahead and laugh at Wendy's stealthy moves. I'm beginning to remind myself of "Kung-Fu-Fighting"...or "The Matrix"????? HAHAHAHAH!!!!
 

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