We have a bare eyed cockatoo girl who will be turning 4 in January, and we are her second home. Unlike others, our Ivory is an absolute little love bug, she loves to cuddle and will even 'lay' on her side when she's getting neck rubs. I can't say if she is typical or not, but like almost every creature, each has their own personality. The one thing we really like about her is that she is super social, she happily interacts with all 3 family members. She had some biting issues, but we resolved that within a week or so, literally... We were told she had been in a great home (who admits they did not treat or feed their pet well??).... When she was out with someone she would bite pretty hard when someone else asked her to step up or put our their hand. But, we realized very quickly that she associated stepping on the hand to going back in her cage. And we knew she was cage bound. We have made her cage a fun 'happy' place to be. When she first arrived she wanted to be on someone's body, but now she will hang out playing with toys on her cage while I am doing chores or like now, typing on the laptop! She even goes in for naps now and at night, she'll go in her cage without a fight or fuss.
I posted in another forum here that I had expected to bring home a different bird when I was 'looking', we were not looking for a bird, but Ivory found us and made the decision for everyone. I am not sure a cockatoo is the right bird for most people who would want one and we still laugh we never thought we'd have a cockatoo in the family, but its not about 'a cockatoo', its about this very specific little bare eyed girl. I am sure for every Ivory there are a dozen negative stories, but I can only tell you that when you find the right bird (or any pet), it won't matter what breed / type or color...
I'll repeat something I posted in the other forum... we have horses and there is an old saying - a good horse is never a bad color... Same thing with a good bird, won't matter color or type, I love the rich bright colors of conures and Eclectus, but would not trade my white girl for another bird!
Not sure if you were just looking for stories or experiences trying to decide what might be the best choice for you. If so, my only advice is to find a local bird rescue and volunteer or just go in with an open mind about adoption, you'll probably meet many different types, but the right one will pick you out
Good luck!!
Jen