Raising a baby conure (one that is weaned) is like having a newborn baby....they are totally dependent on you for food, water, attention and a big emphasis on attention. When I got Forrest he was about 9 weeks old, the minute he heard me in the morning he wanted on my shoulder and was miserable climbing and hanging upside down in the cage with his feet out behind his back ( yes literally inside out) ... I couldn't get anything done until my granddaughter came over to give me a break. Honestly just like a new born. That went on for several months, then they go through a lot of phases. I just got a Sun Conure 2 weeks ago...he is 1 1/2 yrs old. Well behaved and even entertains himself. It is easy to make mistakes with how we raise them as youngsters, Forrest took forever to learn to entertain himself because I spoiled him rotten. So don't shy away from an older bird, just visit and spend a little time with them and let THEM pick you. Those are the best relationships, especially with the older ones.