When I lived in California, I had three wild blue jays that would come into the house...
I had been feeding their parents for years. They nested in a tree in my back yard. Every morning, when the lights came on in my kitchen they would line up on my fence. I'd open the door, and toss a hand full of peanuts out for them. They brought their babies around and showed them the ropes.
"Every morning when that light comes on, we stand here on this fence, and peanuts magically appear for breakfast..."
Well, one year they had a "runt." He was smaller than the others, and he wasn't getting fed. He was starving. His siblings would beat him up and steal his peanuts. So, one morning I left the door open, and I left a pile of peanuts, just inside the door. The "runt" made a B-line for inside. DAD flew down, and tackled him... actually sat there reading him the riot act. WE DON'T GO IN THERE...
But the runt was starving. He was gonna die if he didn't get food, and he disobeyed Dad, and came in. After that, I started making him a plate in the morning. The good stuff. When I opened the door in the morning to throw the peanuts out, I left it open, and the little bird came in and out on his own.
Soon, he wasn't a runt anymore...
The other birds lined up on the fence. The runt flew down and waited at the doorstep to my sliding glass door. "He was special." When his siblings discovered he was getting extra food, they started following him inside. So, I started leaving more on the plate.
One day, it was hot so I left the door open, and took a nap on the couch...
At the time I had 11 parrots. Nine slept on top of me. Two were on the back of the couch. When I woke up, there were three wild blue jays lined up sleeping on the back of the couch. They had noticed the door was opened and joined us for a nap... EXTENDED FLOCK MATES!
I had a hiking trail through the woods, and used to take my birds out for evening walks. The RUNT used to follow us from tree to tree chirping, and calling to us.
Sadly, come Hawk nesting season, the two siblings got taken.
I was out front raking leaves, with my front door open when I heard the runt calling to me, and saw him making a B-line towards my front door, just as fast as his little wings would carry him... THEN I SAW WHY!
A red tailed hawk dove down and plucked him out of the sky about 100 yards from the safety of my house. I wondered if I caused that... if he wouldn't have taken the smarter approach and hidden if I hadn't conditioned him to come inside. But then, if I hadn't he would have died of starvation. Mother Nature is a cruel B!tch sometimes...
Both parents, for some reason, were good at evading hawks. None of their babies that year made it past hawk nesting season. We lost them all...
Losing the runt hurt, though... I had become quite fond of that little bird.
I don't get attached to the wild birds anymore.
Their life expectancy isn't the same as our captive birds.
Remember that the next time someone talks about how wrong and cruel it is to keep a bird as a pet...
MY BIRDS HAVE IT GOOD. WELL FED! LOVED! DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT PREDATORS! GOT LOTS OF TOYS....