I have been working with my Sun Conure for three weeks trying to get him to step up. He refuses to do it. The thing is, if he is away from his cage, such as when he flies off and I retrieve him, he will step up. Why is he refusing the other times? Should I be more patient and just keep trying? What can I do to help him do it faster?
Does he refuse to step up, or does he not know what you are asking of him? Birds don't automatically know what they are supposed to do unless you teach them to do it. If he's refusing, he probably doesn't understand what you are asking of him. That, or it's possible that he finds it more rewarding to be where he's at rather than stepping up.
If he's not comfortable stepping up from his cage, then it could be because he'd rather be there than with you. It would be your goal to teach him that being with you can be a fun thing! Don't force him to be with you, but teach him that coming to you is good through positive interactions.
I whole heartedly support the use of clicker training! But please, don't think that parrots are dominant creatures, because they aren't! And they do need to be worked with while around their cage.
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when you have a bird that likes to be difficult about stepping up, lay your finger perpendicular to his chest & press slightly...the bird will generally step up rather than let you push him back.....
every time the bird doesn't step up, you may want to do a little practice routine of laddering.....where you just keep pressing your finger into their chest & when he steps up, you use your other hand to press into his chest again (laddering ), continuing the lesson for 3-5 minutes, praising the bird every time he steps up.....
I don't recommend this method. I used to, because that's the only training I knew of, but I no longer do. Used incorrectly, one of two things may occur. One, the bird refuses to step up because the experience of being forced to step up is an unpleasant one and will use avoidance techniques to avoid stepping up (shown in one of the videos from the GoodBirdInc blog), or two, the bird may learn to bite because this is an unpleasant thing.
Rather than forcing the issue, teach the bird to step up because it wants to, not because it has to. The second link, "Bucky and Strider - Millet Eating Fiends!" shows how to do that with a budgie! I've done this same behavior with cockatiels and even a green cheek conure. The bird will learn that stepping up is a good thing and will be rewarded for doing so rather than being forced to step up.