noblemacaw
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- Sep 23, 2011
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- Valentino - Red Fronted Macaw - Hatched August 12, 2012
Well it has been a very hard past two weeks but I wanted to take the time to let the form know how Valentino and I are doing.
We are going to lose the house to foreclosure. Depending on when the date of foreclosure starts I can have anywhere from 3 to 6 months to take care of my belongings, set up emergency help with state, county, VA to be able to set up a place to go. I am working very hard with returning to the workforce as fast as I can.
Today I had lunch with some very good friends and they have offered to help me in a lot of ways. If I truly become homeless and do not have anything set up in time they will let me say with them. They do not want me to go to a shelter. They are also willing for me to take Valentino with me and if need be will foster him for me until I have a stable place to live that I will hopefully be able to take him with me. If I cannot find a place to live WITH Valentino I might have to bite the bullet and place him with people that will keep him forever.
The realization that I am going to lose my home has been extremely hard for me to accept. I have worked hard all my life to have my own home and live well. I know once I lose this home I will never be able to buy another. I am financially ruined and at this time bankruptcy is my only hope to be able to rebuild my credit and finances.
Now that I have accepted my situation as strange as this sounds I feel a great weight has been lifted from me. Maybe now that I can somewhat relax the pain in my chest will abide. I take comfort with my RFM and enjoy my evenings with him when I am having some downtime from all the craziness. I have a lot to do and accomplish in the next few months.
I am selling most of my belongings because I can't take most of this stuff with me. I am going to try to keep my dinning room set and my bedroom set. Unfortunately my bedroom set is Ethan Allen cherry wood set I bought in 1986. Back then I paid $3800 for the 5 set consisting of the womans dresser, chest on chest, cannon ball bed and two night stands. Beautiful as it is the furniture is very heavy and until I am stable enough to be somewhere rather permanent this big beautiful bedroom set will probably be a albatross around my neck. I might have to sell it.
Lots to do and lots to have to let go and sell, donate and what ever needs I can do to get it out of this house. One sick thing I have realized is since I paid for all the fixtures and appliances I am going to give away all of it to people that are in need of it. For example the friends that offered to help me with Valentino and a place to stay need a new dishwasher. Mine is in way better condition because I tend to do my dishes by hand (I never generate enough dishes to load the thing) so I told Phil I wanted him to take my dishwasher and install it in their home. LOL. My cealing fans, expensive lighting what ever I can take out of here or what people want to use are going to be uninstalled and I am leaving my home with nothing in it. I have heard of people destroying the house in anger with the bank but I would not do that. But I feel since I paid for the appliances and such I am taking them out of here. No...I am not going to take the copper out of the house and sell it. LOL.
As for keeping my sanity with all of this I try very hard not to let depression settle its dark black cloak over me. I have come to the realization there is nothing left I can do to save my home so I must move on and prepare other arrangements so I won't be homeless.
I am trying my best to be able to keep my beloved Valentino. I know it would devastate me if I had to place him but I also realize if I cannot provide him with a home he needs to be with people who can provide for him and who can love him as much as I do.
Right now he is downstairs saying "I love you" makes me into a puddle of mush every time he says it.
We are going to lose the house to foreclosure. Depending on when the date of foreclosure starts I can have anywhere from 3 to 6 months to take care of my belongings, set up emergency help with state, county, VA to be able to set up a place to go. I am working very hard with returning to the workforce as fast as I can.
Today I had lunch with some very good friends and they have offered to help me in a lot of ways. If I truly become homeless and do not have anything set up in time they will let me say with them. They do not want me to go to a shelter. They are also willing for me to take Valentino with me and if need be will foster him for me until I have a stable place to live that I will hopefully be able to take him with me. If I cannot find a place to live WITH Valentino I might have to bite the bullet and place him with people that will keep him forever.
The realization that I am going to lose my home has been extremely hard for me to accept. I have worked hard all my life to have my own home and live well. I know once I lose this home I will never be able to buy another. I am financially ruined and at this time bankruptcy is my only hope to be able to rebuild my credit and finances.
Now that I have accepted my situation as strange as this sounds I feel a great weight has been lifted from me. Maybe now that I can somewhat relax the pain in my chest will abide. I take comfort with my RFM and enjoy my evenings with him when I am having some downtime from all the craziness. I have a lot to do and accomplish in the next few months.
I am selling most of my belongings because I can't take most of this stuff with me. I am going to try to keep my dinning room set and my bedroom set. Unfortunately my bedroom set is Ethan Allen cherry wood set I bought in 1986. Back then I paid $3800 for the 5 set consisting of the womans dresser, chest on chest, cannon ball bed and two night stands. Beautiful as it is the furniture is very heavy and until I am stable enough to be somewhere rather permanent this big beautiful bedroom set will probably be a albatross around my neck. I might have to sell it.
Lots to do and lots to have to let go and sell, donate and what ever needs I can do to get it out of this house. One sick thing I have realized is since I paid for all the fixtures and appliances I am going to give away all of it to people that are in need of it. For example the friends that offered to help me with Valentino and a place to stay need a new dishwasher. Mine is in way better condition because I tend to do my dishes by hand (I never generate enough dishes to load the thing) so I told Phil I wanted him to take my dishwasher and install it in their home. LOL. My cealing fans, expensive lighting what ever I can take out of here or what people want to use are going to be uninstalled and I am leaving my home with nothing in it. I have heard of people destroying the house in anger with the bank but I would not do that. But I feel since I paid for the appliances and such I am taking them out of here. No...I am not going to take the copper out of the house and sell it. LOL.
As for keeping my sanity with all of this I try very hard not to let depression settle its dark black cloak over me. I have come to the realization there is nothing left I can do to save my home so I must move on and prepare other arrangements so I won't be homeless.
I am trying my best to be able to keep my beloved Valentino. I know it would devastate me if I had to place him but I also realize if I cannot provide him with a home he needs to be with people who can provide for him and who can love him as much as I do.
Right now he is downstairs saying "I love you" makes me into a puddle of mush every time he says it.