It really is so sad to see...It's a shame to see how easily some people cop out...I feel totally overwhelmed by my little guy but I'm hanging in there (so far!) and I can't imagine ever giving up on him. He's got quite an attitude when it comes to my hand "invading" his cage and god forbid I try to reclaim my hair tie when he's playing with it -_- I am working on his possessiveness, I do stand my ground and make sure he knows that I make the rules xD I gotta admit though, even though Zepp is only a baby and I don't have to worry about it just yet, I am dreading the hormones after reading so many posts about peoples' snuggle bunnies turning into little feathered war machines when puberty hits. Eh, I'm all for a challenge...I was at war with my lhasa apso for the first 2 years I had him, yes 2 years of refusing any kind of discipline, retaliating with bites, and I mean bites that led to bruises and blood (any lhasa owners out there, I'm sure you know how stubborn these little fellas are!) but he's now 5 and a model citizen =) There's always hope.