Most of you wouldn't know this, but an old and venerable Australian tradition is 'The Redback on the Toilet Seat'. This means, the inevitable Redback Spider (our equivalent to your Black Widow) which inhabits the outdoor dunny or toilet. Since I do indeed have an outdoor dunny, I also have my share of Redback Spiders incumbent there. They keep to themselves in the corners and only ever come out for lunch or dinner, depending... Mostly, they eat flies and moths (there's a bit of a plague of Bogong moths going on ATM), but sometimes, they'll catch little fence lizards and eat those too. Unfortunately, my daughter has a wee phobia about spiders of all sorts, even artificial ones (NB. Her father and I always make sure we give her at least one spider or another for Christmas and birthdays). She has learned over the past nineteen years to turn a blind eye to Miss Redback, though. It's the much more active and athletic Huntsman who lives behind the cistern that gives poor Ell the creeps. It's kinda fun to watch her step cautiously into the dunny only to reel backwards at light speed and come a-galloping into the house to get someone to move The Dark Huntsman for her. Of course, if she's home alone, she simply doesn't 'go'. Hmmm... problem... But anyway, while our Redbacks are widely publicised as a 'dangerous' species, we've never been troubled by them.
Worst spider experience I ever had was the day a Sydney Funnel Web jumped onto the back of my hand and began walking up my arm toward my shoulder!!! (NB. SFWs are the deadliest spider in the world and the bite is lethal within hours). I managed to flip the creature off with my trusty little trowel and then did the Tap Dance of Depression on its little head. Whew! Never again! We do see SFWs all the time, but so long as they stay out of the house, I don't mind.
An acquaintance of ours is currently in hospital with necrotising fasciitis from the bite of a common black house spider. This species isn't supposed to cause any great problem, but this bloke happened to be particularly sensitive to its venom so...
My entomology professor put it all in perspective when he told us 'Every spider can and will bite. Whether you are allergic to its specific venom is in the lap of the gods. So don't handle spiders!'
I don't. And neither should Wendy!