Yeah, you make a good point. I mean its hardly possible to completely show NO reaction when being bit. I was essentially saying not to show the bird any reaction that might make them think they are succeeding. Reacting calmly is what I do. A lot of people freak out when they are bit OR show fear and whether people believe it or not, they CAN sense fear and if they sense it in you, they'll react defensively.
I am actually VERY lucky with regard to Skittles. Not just because of how he was when I got him, but his breed as well. Sun conures are NOT easy birds to own, ask any sun owner and they'll tell you. Don't underestimate them. lol. Its like having a puppy and a toddler all in one covered in feathers. Sounds cute when you first think about it- but puppies and toddlers grow up and mature. Sunnies stay this way their whole life which is quite a commitment.
I actually wasn't even in the market for a new bird when I got Skittles. I was in the market for a new PC I had been saving up for- but for whatever reason, I couldn't commit to a brand and setup. Then, out of the blue, I decided to buy a new set of stainless steel pots/pans (I do a LOT of homecooking) and got rid of my teflon non-stick. I still don't know why I did that. But next thing you know, I'm bringing home Skittles instead of a new computer. It was his reaction to me compared to others that won me over. He was hopping and rolling around in his aviary when I was near. I then stepped away when another customer wanted to see him and what he was doing and he ignored her and went back up to his perch to preen. Then I went back to see him and he came back down and did the same things over again with the hopping. I wanted to bring him home right then, but the store clerk (go figure) talked me out of it by explaining the difficulties and requirements. So I went home and spent the next four days obsessing over him and doing research and decided to bring him home.
He was already tamed when I got him. Also he was potty trained and made 'kissy noises'. There was a clerk there that took a liking to him and whenever she would work she'd take him out and have him on her shoulder. The only reason she didn't buy him herself is because she works full time. That was the only reason.
Skittles is actually like night and day now. For the first two to three years I had him- he was an absolute nightmare. It kept getting worse. Then a friend of mine told me I wasn't setting limits or boundaries and was giving in to him all the time. In my own defense, its incredibly difficult to say no to his face when he starts hopping and making his kissy noises. But my friend was right.
So I started setting limits and boundaries and using time-outs. They were a regular thing in the beginning of retraining and I HATED doing it. But it worked. It worked so well I got rid of the time-out cage. Don't get me wrong, he's far from 'perfectly behaved' (no such thing), but hes' cooperative at least 90% of the time. But just like us, he has his 'off days' and his 'bad days'. Granted, I don't cut him any slack even then (consistency is key), but I at least know why he's being like that when that happens.