Hello I’m new and I need a little advice LOL

llemke98272

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Frankie is 5. I got him from my hubbys friends daughter, She had had Frank since he was 3 months old and she spoiled him . Between Life college and work he wasn’t getting as much attention, I used to have 4 Parrakeets when my kids were young and raised a few babies . Frankie does not like men at all. He is definitely temperamental. One minute he’s nice and lovey and kissy and the next second he is biting hard and being a snot. So I put him back in his cage and will ignore him for a bit. Sometimes when I go back to let him out he is still pissy so he gets to stay in the cage for the remainder of the day. And the next day is up to his attitude. Lately all he wants to do is get all cuddly and rubs his beak on me and start showing mating signs. And I don’t even have to touch him . He will fly from his cage to me and instantly start, if I try to put him in his cage to stop the behavior he gets very aggressive and bites me and screams at me. Or he tries to instantly climb into my shirt from my neckline and gets mad and bites me. I can win LOL. How do I stop him of this?
 

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Frankie is 5. I got him from my hubbys friends daughter, She had had Frank since he was 3 months old and she spoiled him . Between Life college and work he wasn’t getting as much attention, I used to have 4 Parrakeets when my kids were young and raised a few babies . Frankie does not like men at all. He is definitely temperamental. One minute he’s nice and lovey and kissy and the next second he is biting hard and being a snot. So I put him back in his cage and will ignore him for a bit. Sometimes when I go back to let him out he is still pissy so he gets to stay in the cage for the remainder of the day. And the next day is up to his attitude. Lately all he wants to do is get all cuddly and rubs his beak on me and start showing mating signs. And I don’t even have to touch him . He will fly from his cage to me and instantly start, if I try to put him in his cage to stop the behavior he gets very aggressive and bites me and screams at me. Or he tries to instantly climb into my shirt from my neckline and gets mad and bites me. I can win LOL. How do I stop him of this?
Either in his cage, or walk away from him. Giving him more nights by covering his cage could work as well. Maybe try distracting him with something as well.
 

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I don’t know how long you’ve had him, but it can take a long time for a bird to settle in and trust a new person. It does also sound like your bird could be experiencing some hormones! Although frustrating, these will pass eventually. It’s important to know that your bird doesn’t have control over his behavior when hormones are flooding his little brain. As mentioned above, giving your bird consistent nighttime hours ( 12 hours of darkness is often suggested, my birds do well with 10-12) can help during this time. Also, some common suggestions are to limit or stop feeding sugary foods ( including fruits) and make sure the bird doesn’t have access to dark hiding spots. The “ shunning” method you’ve been using is good, but it is generally recommended that the bird be placed on a perch or chair back rather than his cage or he may learn to bite if he wants to be put back in his cage. Thank you for taking in Frankie and working to give him a better life. ❤️
 
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llemke98272

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Either in his cage, or walk away from him. Giving him more nights by covering his cage could work as well. Maybe try distracting him with something as well.
I cover his cage every night. I have also tried the distraction part and if he is mad nothing works and if he is on me and I try to get him to put him in or on his cage will bite hard harder and repetitively . He drew blood yesterday for the 1st time.
 

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Sometimes witha flighted bird and a untrained temperament, a light clip is indicated, not enuf so he drops like a stone, but enough so he can glide to the floor.
on biting:
Biting, whether intentional or not, just over preening your skin or actually taking chunks of meat out - all are PAINFULL! In the wild that sort of behavior is not tolerated by the flock. They ostracize flock members who continue to act like that. We call it 'Shunning'. This WILL work, but needs to be done correctly to get the message across and it needs to be done IMMEDIATELY so the parrot can associate the bite with the shunning action. And it needs to happen every time and with anyone involved with the parrot.

When the bite or over preening occurs:

  • Say in a forceful but not shouting voice "No Bite" or other endearments.
  • Immediately place the parrot on a nearby, handy chairback. NOT the cage (that would only teach the parrot to bite when he wants to go back to his cage).
  • Turn your back to him and ignore him for 1 minute. No peeking, no talking about or too him, NADA. NO eye contact. No less or the message is lost, no more or the bird will not associate the action with the bite.
  • After a minute you can try to re-establish contact.
Rinse, repeat as needed. Most parrots get the message after a few times, some may need more. Also very important - make sure the bite is not your fault. Annoying your parrot, asking him to step up when he is otherwise preoccupied with eating or playing, bothering him during known moody times like mating season, or ignoring the warnings and body language of your parrot - these are bites that you deserve! Learn, and be a better parront !!

On Hormones:
Parrots go thru puberty, just like humans do, because their internal metabolism tells the body –“Hey time to start thinking of babies”. When that happens, their little bodies get flooded for the first time with hormones. The when is only estimated, puberty can occur from 6 months or so for small parrots like budgies, cockatiels and parrotlets, with the larger parrots taking longer, progressively. Macaws and cockatoos, it could be a year or more before it starts. Puberty (and successive mating seasons) is not a precisely timed event. Depending on the individual parrot, it might occur earlier or later then the norm for that species, and other factors come into play on when it starts.

Like human children (and our parrots are so close in temperament to children), puberty can bring on all sorts of behavioral changes, which the parrot has absolutely no control over. One minute they are their normal selves and all of a sudden, BAM, they bite you, and the next second they are back to their normal selves. Mood swings like this are so common that for inexperienced parrot owners, this is the time when parrots are most often given up or surrendered. They can do a 180 degree turn and formerly the person who was THE person is now like yesterday’s news and the parrot might fixate on another member of the family (and it might not be one who actually likes parrots!). This does not happen every time, but it does happen, and the former favorite person needs to wheedle and scheme to get back into the parrots inner circle.

Some other behavior you might encounter:

  • Trying to mate with objects like toys or food bowls, even your hand. Butt rubbing is what this looks like.
  • Regurgitation and trying to feed inanimate objects (or you ! )
  • Shredding paper, bedding, or any material that can be made into nest like stuff
  • Seeking dark hidey places
  • Being abnormally loud and making new clucking noises or others
Puberty can last anywhere from a few months to a year or so in larger parrots, again depending on species and the individual parrot. The 2 things to take away on this is that it will come to an end eventually and the other is to try and not let unwanted behavior become normal or habitual.

And now we come to mating season. Most parrots go through an annual mating season. Species like Eclectus parrots and a few other rare ones can have mating season at any time the environment produces mating triggers. For the rest, its once a year. Mating season is triggered by some things we can control and others that we cannot. The behavioral result of mating season is very similar to the ones displayed in puberty, with the exception of switching allegiances to a new person, which is rare. Uncontrollable rapid mood swings are pretty common and can vary with the intensity of the hormone release. Some years mating season can be pretty mild, and some are just killer for the poor parrot, as the drive to mate is frustrated (unless you are a breeder). The diurnal cycle of daylight to night time is one of the stronger triggers. Some folks keep their parrots on a day/night cycle that mirrors this, while others keep a 12hr day/night cycle. Either one has its pros and cons and we won’t get into that here.

Some things you can do to reduce (but never 100% eliminate) the effects of mating season are:

  • Remove any shreddy type materials and limit access to them when the parrot is out of the cage
  • Prevent access to dark hidey holes
  • No touching the parrot anywhere except for the head and neck. This is a biggie as this can be interpreted as mating behavior by the parrot.
  • Limit or remove sugar bearing foods, like fruits and high fructose foods like corn, any pasta, etc
  • Lots of exercise – a tired parrot is less likely to indulge in mating behavior
Always keep in mind that the parrot has no control of itself during these periods! A bite received during them is 100% different than a bite you might get because the bird is angry with you. You should not use “shunning” or other methods to modify the behavior, because they have no more idea of why they bit you then you do. But, same as a normal bite, you should try to avoid being in a situation where the bite COULD occur. Cuddling with your parrot, giving/getting kisses or letting them near the face during mating season is likely not a good idea! Along these lines, during mating season, try to not let behavior like biting, humping or other outward signs become habitual.

Finally – always, always remember – “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”. Your loving friend is still in there and will be back!
 

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