Hello. I have a year old male tiel named Ollie. I got him when he was four months old. He's a sweetie, sings, says peak-a-boo, and is doing well, but we decided to get him a friend. I've been in touch with a breeder in my area, and she's got several babies who should be ready in about a month. There is
one in particular that I fell in love with, a pastel faced pied, but it's too young to tell the sex. She's also got some lovely white faced pieds as well. So, at my request, she is getting two babies DNA tested. I mentioned being concerned about females due to the egg binding. I asked her about it and she told me that in 30 years of breeding and working with tiels, she's never encountered this problem. We both belong to a Facebook tiel page, and I read about someone losing a bird to egg binding about once every other week. So I'm putting this question out to you kind folks. Am I worrying for nothing about this? It really doesn't matter which sex I get, because I'm not interesting in breeding, and I've read up on how keep them from breeding (I know, not always foolproof!)
Opinions please

! Sorry about the length of this post, but I'm not known for my brevity.

Lol. Thanks in advance!
I think you should get the bird You Love.
Egg Binding - IF it happens then it is highly problematic, dangerous, expensive. But there are all sorts of problems / issues that can happen to any pet. People whose bird it happens to are gonna research & then probably talk about it online. So the amount you hear about it is likely to be higher than the percentage of birds wiht problems.
Yes, it can only happen to females. BUT many females birds (1) don't lay, and (2) lay without problems if they do.
And (3) a Lot of folks get their birds and do Not do much research. Or, their research shows them other folks in photos with own birds. Plenty Plenty of folks do Not learn the basics to avoid hormonal stimulation, and will pet the birds below the neck, allow them to have little tents or other nest-like spaces, allow them access to "nesting" materials (such tissues to shred, etc).
Also people will allow birds to "do their thing" toward their human, rather than simply pulling away or distracting when the bird goes into wiggle-wiggle-waggle-wiggle mode.
Now obviously as mentioned, yes, any female bird can lay, or attempt to lay, despite their owner's best hormonal-reduction attempts. BUT I truly believe if you are reading about egg-binding birds Frequently, probably Lack of hormonal-avoidance must likely be a contributing issue.
TLDR: Get the bird you love. Nothing is ever guaranteed, but, Avoid hormonal triggers, and egg binding
probably won't occur.
Beautiful baby by the way! Both are beautiful birdies!