Hi MissyMoo, I know it can be difficult to trust something you read on the internet vs. something a bird breeder, who must be an expert, tells you in person. But the advice here is good. We've had so many desperate emails from people trying to feed weanlings, babies with sour crop, slow crop, infections, burns, starving...you name it. It's so hard to save a baby once something has gone wrong. And what people here say is true...you can have just as intense a bond, if not more intense, with an older bird. Yes, they are cute when they are fledglings, and adorable as babies. But the risks to their health are high. SilverSage is right ... the only reason for a breeder to sell unweaned babies is that they want the money now, and no risk. Search here for threads about "abundance weaning" to get an idea of what we think is ideal.
The forum members here are experienced, and have seen so much, and don't make any recommendation like this lightly. If you are not convinced, you can ask for more details or information. We care about parrot owners, but the first love is for the parrots themselves, and it's much better for a parrot to be fully weaned by someone who knows what they are doing than to be sent to a first-timer's home to take their chances. It's just a short time to wait, and think of how many wonderful years are in the future! And how much heartache if something is to go wrong!
Hope you don't hate me for not being supportive...my dream is to spend some time in NZ, what a gorgeous place and great people, so I don't want to poison the well!