Hi all,
I think my parrot is not in good shape, and I am to blame for it. Please bare with me, if the post is long.
So I had Nina, my African Grey parrot in 1999 (I was a kid/teen back then), and when I got her I was told what to feed her and what not to feed her... and that was it.
I used to spend time talking to her, listening to music with her, and occasionally dancing together! (Yes, she dances) and I feed her lots of fresh treats. Her staple is sunflower seed, and from time to time raw almonds, cashews, walnuts, peanuts... as well as fruits, carrot, banana and cucumber.
She has the largest cage available in the local market - it is a big size (I am sorry she is in a cage but I have no other option in my parents' house). I was not able to put toys and additional sticks for her to stand in the cage, because whenever I tried she would freak out!
Now, she has seasonal episodes when she picks out her feather but it comes and goes, I asked several vets and they said it is ok. But the problem is no vet I know agrees to come and see her at home (and even if i take her to them they refuse to handle her, "because she is not trained and she bites")
Now I have been living abroad for over 5 years - so I come and go, and when I am home I try to spend time with her... This time I am home for a bit longer, which allowed me to observe her more.... I think she is not doing well.
Her feather coat is all messed up, constantly losing small tiny ones and i see her insisting on biting off a feather from her wing until it is off.
Her tail is less and less red....
She does not look happy ... she is not as conversational as she used to be.
I blame myself because I have not done enough research as I could have and I have not found a vet that would handle her.... for example, her nails need to be trimmed!!!!!!!
I feel so guilty horrible, and I need advice and what are the MUST DOs for parrots,,,, I am here for another 2-3 months and I need to make sure I check her up completely before i leave again.
What am I missing?
She has never been vaccinated or anything.
I am such a bad care taker.... (I am much better at taking care of the cat at home because I have the right knowledge and there are plenty of cat vets around)
Please advise,

I think my parrot is not in good shape, and I am to blame for it. Please bare with me, if the post is long.
So I had Nina, my African Grey parrot in 1999 (I was a kid/teen back then), and when I got her I was told what to feed her and what not to feed her... and that was it.
I used to spend time talking to her, listening to music with her, and occasionally dancing together! (Yes, she dances) and I feed her lots of fresh treats. Her staple is sunflower seed, and from time to time raw almonds, cashews, walnuts, peanuts... as well as fruits, carrot, banana and cucumber.
She has the largest cage available in the local market - it is a big size (I am sorry she is in a cage but I have no other option in my parents' house). I was not able to put toys and additional sticks for her to stand in the cage, because whenever I tried she would freak out!
Now, she has seasonal episodes when she picks out her feather but it comes and goes, I asked several vets and they said it is ok. But the problem is no vet I know agrees to come and see her at home (and even if i take her to them they refuse to handle her, "because she is not trained and she bites")
Now I have been living abroad for over 5 years - so I come and go, and when I am home I try to spend time with her... This time I am home for a bit longer, which allowed me to observe her more.... I think she is not doing well.
Her feather coat is all messed up, constantly losing small tiny ones and i see her insisting on biting off a feather from her wing until it is off.
Her tail is less and less red....
She does not look happy ... she is not as conversational as she used to be.
I blame myself because I have not done enough research as I could have and I have not found a vet that would handle her.... for example, her nails need to be trimmed!!!!!!!
I feel so guilty horrible, and I need advice and what are the MUST DOs for parrots,,,, I am here for another 2-3 months and I need to make sure I check her up completely before i leave again.
What am I missing?
She has never been vaccinated or anything.
I am such a bad care taker.... (I am much better at taking care of the cat at home because I have the right knowledge and there are plenty of cat vets around)
Please advise,
