I have been owned by my B&G macaw for nearly 50 years. I was a teenager when I got him and I am now a senior citizen. We have been through a lot in life togetherāincluding multiple relocations across the US and overseas. Do not kid yourself. It is a lifetime commitment and one that I would gladly do again BUT I know how fortunate I am to be blessed with a quiet, gentle bird who, despite having been forcibly removed from the rainforest (wild-caught birds were all that was available back then), was eating bananas out of the palm of my hand the day I brought him home.
Every bird is different and you donāt know what youāll get until you have one. My bird doesnāt make a sound (unless a repairman is in the house, in which case he wakes the dead with his squawks). We know where he is because we can hear his toenails on the floor or hear a soft ācroakā every once in a while. He has never bitten anyone (no lie!) and is a huge love bug.

he ADORES sitting on my lap and getting love or sitting on the bathroom cabinet drawer while I get ready. He truly is a flock animal. He wants to be where everyone else is. He has a dedicated chair at the kitchen counter and eats his meals when we eat. He follows me around like a dog. I canāt even go to the bathroom without him knocking on the door with his beak to come in! Now I just leave the door ajar and he peeks in before pushing the door open and entering.

His love for my husband is, well, tolerance. No aggression, but no deep love, either. The bird follows him around the house and hangs out with him in the bathroom while he gets ready, but the love ends there. The bird would never accept another pet in the house although he grew up with a big, fluffy Samoyed dog. He requires a big space for his huge cageāand the $$$$ investment I made in a high quality stainless steel cage 35 years ago has paid off handsomely as it still looks brand new).
Spontaneous travel is over. You canāt easily take him on road trips or flights like you can a dog. I board him with my avian vet when I travel and between that and the required physical, gram stain and psittacosis tests, it adds up!
My bird is very easy to care for, but we are both well-trained! I have my system down! I have clear plastic sheeting in the specific areas where he poops so I can just hose that off, but there are times he misses. Make sure you have tile or stone floors for easy clean up and less chance of destruction. Carpet is a big no-no. My bird loves to pluck the fibers out of carpet or rugs, so do yourself a favor and choose flooring materials carefully!
Whew! That was a long-winded way of saying you never know what youāll get: a screamer, a biter, a lover, a pooper, a peeping tom or a carpet plucker.

Good luck with your decision!